Main

February 25, 2010

13 Thursday: Just My Type

13type.jpg1. Strangest thing said at the Mardi Gras Ball by Colleen to Mara, who was dressed in a suit for her Mardi Gras King election campaign: "Neckties are so phallic."

2. In the morning I like to make a second cup of tea but usually forget I poured it and end up not drinking it. Joe calls it my Placebo Effect second cup.

3. As a tea lover who likes to go to tea parties, the right-leaning Tea Party movement of angry citizens who recently hosted Sarah Palin to speak for $500 a seat is ruining the whole tea party appeal for me.

4. Republicans are against health care because they are fundamentally against any and all forms of assistance? If they could take away Social Security and Medicare, in all likelihood, they would. How is it possible that these Tea Party Brown Shirts do not understand that in supporting the Republicans, they are in fact supporting their own demise? ~ Author Caroline Myss from The Republican Strategy: Covert Destruction at all Costs HERE.

5. I don't have good energy reserves. After a busy weekend, I was exhausted to the point of tears on Monday, so Joe and I never made it Laughter Yoga class, but we walked to the mailbox laughing loudly the whole way.

6. My blog friend Deana recently wrote on her Facebook wall that when she throws corn to her chickens on nice mornings, she thinks about Cinderella throwing feed from her dress (even though she has no talking mice doing her laundry and fixing her hair). I answered: When I wake up in the morning I always think about a Neanderthal waking up from cryonic suspension.

7. But sometimes I rip off the covers like pulling a band-aid off a cut and leap out of bed like THIS just to get it over with.

8. No snow in Vancouver and too much here. To those who assume that global warming is a hoax because of the severe winter weather around the country, Steven Colbert said that's like looking outside at night, seeing the darkness and concluding that "the sun has been destroyed." An excellent Washington Post piece on that topic is HERE.

9. A writer without a computer is like a boat without a motor. Thank God for pencils and oars.

10. My favorite song to sing to Bryce is "Row Row Row Your Boat." After singing "gently down the stream" I like to end it with ... "Bryce is but a dream!"

11. Does anyone have any tech speculation as to why I can't upload videos to youtube on my PC but can on my laptop and why Microsoft word PC is chewing up letters as I type?

12. Best line found this week via THIS very entertaining video poem posted on Facebook: "It's not enough these days to simply question authority. You got to speak with it too." ~ Taylor Mali.

13. I think handwritten letters are sexy in a way that emails will never be.

Let your fingers do the walking HERE.

February 18, 2010

13: Blues and News

smilex7.gif1. Why is it when someone says 'be careful' or 'drive safely' I feel like I'm doomed for disaster but if they say 'be well' or 'take care' I feel competent and blessed?

2. Strange trivia found scribbled in my notebook: How much does a body weigh after cremation? 7-8 pounds.

3. Are Ya Kiddin' Me? Weird Snow TOTALLY Fits Global Warming Pattern -- One word: moisture. A warmer atmosphere holds more water. Plus, warmer surface temperatures are triggering more evaporation of ocean water worldwide. That water goes up, up, up into that atmosphere. And what goes up must sooner or later come down. This is precisely what scientific studies are now documenting. Water vapor in the global atmosphere jumped by about 5 percent in the 20th century. Read more of this Baltimore Sun op-ed by a member of the Chesapeake Climate Action Network HERE.

4. This morning my stomach made the sound like a cell phone vibrating on a table.

5. The bad news is that I have the wintertime blues. The good news is that every time the snow gets depressingly dirty a new snowfall comes to cover it with white.

6. Did I really say that? Colleen complaining to Joe about our water pressure: "Can you change the filter? The bath water is taking too long to download."

7. Well put observation spoken by a historian on a PBS show about the early settlers of Appalachia: "The English came and built a church right away. The Germans built a barn and the Scotch Irish built a whiskey still.

8. Don't you think THIS Octomom needs to take some time off from taking caring of the kids and do something about her hair?

9. THIS record breaking tall snowwoman has truck tires for buttons, 16 skis for eyelashes and 30 foot trees for arms.

10. THESE laughing babies won American Funniest Video prize.

11. We came out of this week's Laughter Yoga class to see a smiling sliver of new moon in the sky (see photo above).

12. Look! ... A fingernail moon ... painted silver ... has landed upright ... in a wide-mouth bowl ... Clipped close from the darkness ... the moon is filed down ... to a delicate sliver ... of smiling light.

13. Best Blue soundtrack is HERE.

More TT's are HERE.

February 11, 2010

13: Sneeze as You Please

c3a.gif1. These days our knights on white horses are the local farmers on tractor plows coming to plow us out.

2. In light of the Supreme Court's recent vote not to limit corporate campaign spending, I think THESE new robes are well suited.

3. I recently became interested in the poetry of Haitian born poet Michele Voltaire Marcelin after seeing her read on the PBS Newshour. I was happily surprised to notice as she read that her poetry is un-punctuated like mine because models for un-punctuated poetry are hard to find these days.

4. I drive like I read and write poetry. I override blinker signals if what the car is actually doing is counter to them, like I stop for line breaks even if there is no period there.

5. Last week I posted a quote by the late J.D. Salinger - "I am a kind of paranoiac in reverse. I suspect people of plotting to make me happy" - which started a comment conversation in which a reader introduced me to the word "pronoia."

6. Curious, I did a little research and discovered that the word was only recently coined and that there is a whole website devoted to it. The first modern use of the word pronoia I can trace occurred during the psychedelic 1960s and 1970s -. Grateful Dead lyricist and grizzled veteran of both Millbrook and Haight-Ashbury defined pronoia as: the suspicion the Universe is a conspiracy on your behalf. ~ from http://www.pronoia.net/

7. I need to get out more: Between the bad weather and a bad cold, I've been spending too much time indoors. This was brought home when Joe returned from being out and said: I saw some kids sledding," and I answered by saying, "Tyra Banks did a show on women with two vaginas."

8. With all the snowstorms this year it's like the winter's been sick and keeps going into relapse.

9. I'm a loud sneezer. I learned it from my dad who not only sneezed loudly, he cursed as he did it. Instead of AH-CHOO, he said AH-SHIT.

10. "Life is split at the seams. No one knows the exact number of the dead. They were ours. They were yours and mine. Yet, we let them die. So, I will write a poem, and you will write a letter, and he will send some money, and she will say a prayer, but we will forget, as we have forgotten before. We closed our eyes, covered ourselves up, when this island without secrets, this island caught upside-down, spread open by the great storm, went belly-up, exposing memories and guts. Disaster on disaster, mud on mud. Life is split at the seams." ~ Michele Voltaire Marcelin (punctuated by Newshour transcribers.)

11. In last week's Thirteen Thursday I posted a lost and found notice about THIS missing purple wool beret. I also posted a notice about it on Facebook and in the Museletter (our community newsletter). On Monday I got a call from Sally at the Café del Sol saying my beret had been found.

12. "She's an empty vessel ready to be filled by ideology she doesn't understand." ~ Chris Matthews on Sarah Palin after she suggested that Obama could play 'war card' and declare war on Iran to win reelection. Listen HERE.

13. I think the word sneeze sounds like a Dr. Seuss character, especially after learning that a sneeze can expel irritants out of a nose for up to 100 miles per hour!

Head on over for more Thirteen Thursdays HERE.

February 3, 2010

iB13 Playlist

yoursign.gif1. Ipod and Ipad inventors are running out of vowels for naming their future inventions. Somehow Ipud, Ipid, and Iped don't ring a bell.

2. I can't help wondering if Apple co-founder and Ipad inventor Steve Jobs's productivity has anything to do with his last name (and the fact that it's plural).

3. Jobs, a billionaire Buddhist who's been referred to as the Edison our times, gives this business advice: "My model for business is The Beatles: They were four guys that kept each other's negative tendencies in check; they balanced each other. And the total was greater than the sum of the parts. Great things in business are not done by one person, they are done by a team of people."

4. Most reliable 24 hour weather report: The window.

5. Strangest weird creative thing found online this week HERE.

6. LOST: THIS purple wool beret. Email credman@swva.net if you know where it is.

7. I want to wear THIS to the Floyd Mardi Gras bash on February 20th at the Winter Sun Hall.

8. Have you heard of the Ipad for feminine protection? Apparently it's the predecessor to the Apple Ipad and boasts the ability to "download protection for up to a 1,000 periods." Watch the video HERE.

9. My husband's about to launch a new organization that will bring together all aspects of his work with teens as a counselor, meditation teacher, and martial arts practitioner. It's called iBme (Inward Bound Meditation Education).

10. Catching a cold from your partner is like the weather man predicting a snow storm but because you're in denial, you don't move your car near the road and then the storm hits and you can't get out for days because it's stuck.

11. Learning that the late J.D. Salinger fought in the Battle of the Bulge, was among the first troops to enter a liberated concentration camp, and suffered from Post Traumatic Stress Syndrome made me wonder if he knew my dad, who did (or had) "all of the above."

12. I ran into my neighbor doctor at the mailbox today and he asked me how I was. "On top of the snow, ice, frigid temperatures, and catching a cold, I now have a bad case of cabin fever," I answered. He didn't have anything for that.

13. Salinger considered publishing an invasion of his privacy. He also said this, "I am a kind of paranoiac in reverse. I suspect people of plotting to make me happy."

More 13 play HERE.

January 28, 2010

Where the 13 Thursday Flow Can Go

13flko73.gif1. Joe, leaves the house, kisses Colleen and says: "See you later, sweet pea." Colleen kisses Joe back and answers: "If I'm a pea, then you're a pie, as in sweetie pie."

2. My poem "After the Golden Globes and in honor of Valentine Day" has been published at Ronni Bennett's Elder Story Telling site HERE.

3. "I think the heart has to seep under the floorboard like water or slip through like mail. I hope for a low threshold when it comes to love." ~ That was my answer to my blogging friend Poe when she asked, "How do people get into your heart?" HERE.

4. Speaking of leaks, Sunday we woke to a leak that flooded part of our basement. It had rained so hard and long that it seeped into the foundation. Our water pump man confirmed that we weren't the only ones.

5. Confused about Health Care Reform? A very good and balanced article on health care reform is HERE.

6. Our warmed up leftovers from Floyd's new Mickey G's Italian Bistro and Pizzeria tasted as good on Sunday as they did on Saturday night. "I can get addicted to this," I said to Joe, "but think of all the money we'll save. We don't have to go to Italy now!"

7. THIS is the song that's been stuck in my head ever since eating at Mickey G's.

8. How Joe went from being called Oprah to Opa: My kids use to tease Joe when his long curly hair got big and unruly by calling him "Ofra Winfrey." Now he's just called Opa (as in Grampa in German) by 18 month old Bryce.

9. I had fun coming up with names for THIS video: Block Talk, Knock your block off, and If You Build It, It Will Fall.

10. When faucets leak here does the water go? Does it drip down into an underground purgatory? Collect into selfish pools that no one can drink from? Like a ticking clock our lives spill out. Drop by drop children die drinking dirty water. While rest of the world sprinkles their lawns, kills dandelions, and sings in the shower. ~ Excerpt from an old poem, titled The Leaky Faucet.

11. Current pet peeve: Buying olive oil by mistake that isn't virgin because it and the non-virgin oil bottles look the same. Virgin olive oil isn't hydrogenated, whereas light olive oil is, and so is a walking heart attack. It doesn't taste as good either.

12. Sayings that I first heard in 80's that just came back to mind: Walk your Talk, What You Resists Persists, Just say Know, and Go with the Flow!

13. Question for Mickey G? Does the G stand for garlic?

Go with the flow to other Thirteen Thursday's HERE.

January 20, 2010

The 13 Thursday Limelight

13bub.gif1. Quote floating around on Facebook: Is heck where people go who don't believe in Gosh?

2. Satan responds to Pat Robertson's claim that Haiti's tragedy is a result of a pact they country made with the devil HERE.

3. Have you ever wondered what lives on the other side of your computer screen? Look HERE if you dare.

4. Did you know that the new Republican senator of Massachusetts once posed nude in Cosmo magazine? Can you imagine the flak the female Democratic candidate would have gotten from her opponents if she had done that?

5. Poor Ted Kennedy is turning over in his grave right about now.

6. While watching the Golden Globes Sunday night, I was wondering why the black knit skull cap looked out of place on Dexter's Michael Hall but cool on U2's Edge. And then I found out that Hall has cancer. (I wish him well.)

7. One of the hottest internet searches the day after the Golden Globes was "how old is Sophia Loren" and "Sophia Loren plastic surgery."

8. I grew up in the 60's, when nearly my entire generation saw Yellow Submarine while high on pot, so I got a good laugh when Paul McCartney was presenting the Golden Globe award for Best Animated Feature at the Golden Globes and said, "cartoons aren't just for children, they're also for adults who are on drugs."

9. Speaking of plastic surgery, I'm disappointed that Hollywood holds women to a false standard of looks, so much so that they go from being sex kittens to cougars in the blink of an eye.

10. "Fame is a bee. / It has a song / It has a sting / Ah, too, it has a wing." Emily Dickinson.

11. When I image googled "limelight," I got THIS

12. So it looks like I won't be wearing hot pink taffeta ... or a French twist like Grace Kelly's ... I won't be dying my hair red to match the Cabernet ... or breaking up Jeff Bridges' 33-year-old marriage ... Follow the dialogue from the poem the above was excerpted from HERE.

13. I can't stop thinking about key lime pie.

Follow the link to more Thirteen Thursdays HERE.

January 14, 2010

Through the 13 Thursday Looking Glasses

jh132.gif 1. Things have finally slowed down enough around here that when Joe asked one night what I was doing the next day, the extent of my answer was: "I'm on a mission to buy broccoli." (Translation: I need to go grocery shopping.)

2. When I woke up the next morning the first thing I said was, "This is the day I'm getting some broccoli." But before I did that I took a magnifying glass outside to study the new snowflakes coming down.

3. Speaking of broccoli, remember THIS?

4. Reading an essay in Shambhala Sun by one of my writing influences, Natalie Goldberg, I discovered that she likes cherry red tootsie pops just like me.

5. That's my favorite kind of biographical writing detail.

6. Today, while in town for a Scrabble game I got a Scrabble Bingo with the word "mariners" and on the way home I saw a man watering a snow bank with a hose.

7. "Life is not orderly. No matter how we try to make life so, right in the middle of it we die, lose a leg, fall in love, drop a jar of applesauce." Natalie Goldberg

8. Stuck at my writer's workshop recently without reading glasses, I pulled out my Avatar 3D glasses and put them on, but apparently not only did they make everything even more blurry, the other writers laughed. I can't decide if THEY make me look nerdy or hip.

9. I think the writers of Avatar could have come up a more credible name for the rock that the earthlings needed so badly that they felt it was worth wrecking a foreign planet for. The name of the coveted rock? "Unobtainium."

10. While at the café today talking face to face with people I've been in Facebook contact with, I felt like we were characters in Avatar spending time in our human bodies after some other-worldly time in outer space.

11. Once while at an overlook in California with friends, I spotted some seals down below on the Pacific shore. My friends were all convinced that what I was seeing was driftwood, but I wasn't. They hiked on and I stayed behind until I saw those supposed pieces of driftwood move around.

12. I remembered that after seeing pictures of Death Valley rocks that move themselves and imagining how exciting it would be to catch them doing it. How do you explain THIS?

13. Seeing is believing but feeling is the truth. ~ Thomas Fuller

See what others are seeing on Thursday HERE.

January 7, 2010

13 Thursday: The Big Chill

snan2xg.gif1. On the first day of the New Year my computer said this: 2010/01/01. The big decision was whether to call this New Year "two thousand and ten" or "twenty ten."

2. Out for the benefit concert for our friend Wolf Cherrix on one of the coldest nights in Virginia history, my friend Jayn and I were talking about our woodstoves like lovers we left at home. "Are you thinking about your woodstove right now like I'm thinking about mine?" I said to her. We were both wondering if we'd have to rebuild the fire when we got home.

3. Either a boyfriend or a baby, I thought to myself when I heard my husband Joe tell someone that we'd been nursing the woodstove all day.

4. I've gone from calling the cold spell we're in "New York cold" to "Arctic Cold."

5. It's humbling to see how much wood it takes to keep a house warm in a week of frigid temperatures and I feel guilty about the trees that are giving their lives to keep me warm, especially when Joe was away for 5 days and I was heating the house just for me. I guess those who don't heat with wood can't see the effects of their heat source as directly as those who do.

6. "Write while the heat is in you. The writer who postpones the recording of his thoughts uses an iron which has cooled to burn a hole with. He cannot inflame the minds of his audience." ~Henry David Thoreau

7. I often work on more than one story at a time and jump from one to another. Recently, I typed a sentence in the wrong word document and the world of formal writing and personal writing converged. I ended up saying this: The role of the medium is to be an intermediary between the physical world and the spiritual world for fear that I'm going to fall of the map.

8. The faster I write the better my output. If I'm going slow I'm in trouble. It means I'm pushing the words instead of being pulled by them. ~ Raymond Chandler

9. My Zen sentence of the day: "A wood fire touches the stars." Get your own Zen sentence (found at Pearl's) HERE.

10 I realized while filming THIS video clip yesterday that the word tea is within the word steam.

11. If you're awakened by gunshot at 6:00 a.m. in the city you might figure there's been a robbery or murder. If you're like me and live in country you can be pretty sure it means your neighbor is shooting squirrels.

12. According to Jibjab, "of all the years that have passed in time, there has never been one like '09." See their video review HERE.

13. My automated New Year Resolution 2010 is: I will stop kissing strangers right now. Get yours HERE.

More playing 13 Thursday are HERE.

December 30, 2009

13 Thursday Sale

13wa637.gif 1. On Christmas Eve I was reminded of questions like 'how many people can you fit in a phone booth (do they still exist?) or 'how many can you fit in a Volkswagen?' See what I mean HERE.

2. Why did the chicken cross the road? I really did wonder that when I had to slow down for one that was crossing the parkway when I was driving to Roanoke recently.

3. I'm not much of a joiner but I couldn't resist joining the facebook club "I got a fruitcake for Christmas."

4. I also got a German stollen, which made me wonder what my husband was trying to fatten me up for.
8bll8.gif
5. My son Josh came home like a Santa, brought pottery and wood cutting board gifts, fixed my kitchen chairs, and turned Joe and I on to on to "Flight of the Conchords," which we watched video clips of on the laptop at the kitchen table HERE.

6. Speaking of tables, Bryce is right at home on top on the one pictured above.

7. Best recent poetic comment from a reader on my winter ice storm pictures: In the forest as sun went on trees there was this depth of tinkle as ice released and fell in a cascade like bells.

8. PBS makes me cry. While Joe was away running a teen meditation retreat I watched a show on Gus Saint-Gaudens and his sculpture, some of which brought tears to my eyes. The next night I was inspired and sometimes moved to tears by PBS specials on the lives of Louisa May Alcott, the 1800's author most famous for Little Women, and 1930's author of the original Nancy Drew classics, Millie Benson, two very accomplished, feisty and creative women.

9. Louisa May Alcott used hashish and opium and had what is known today as Lupus. On her deathbed at the premature age of 55 her last words were, "Is it not meningitis?"

10. I think the back-to-the-landers who started communes in Floyd in the 70's could be the reincarnated Transcendentalists of Louisa May Alcott's time who started utopian communities in the 1800s.

11. Since Joe's been away, I've been feeling guilty about all the wood it takes to heat the whole house for one person, but it's been New York cold here.

12. A cherry pie is merry but the romance of Christmas is short lived. The day after I want to turn over and fall to sleep.

13. Watch me yell, "I LOVE 13!" HERE

Get your 13 Thursday good deals HERE.

December 24, 2009

13: Making a List and Checking it Twice

xmas13df.gif 1. I recently became interested in the word doodad. An etymology dictionary reports: "unnamed thing," 1905, chiefly U.S., a made-up word; as is doohickey (1914). Other antonyms for doodad are: Gizmo, thingamajig, and thingamabob.

2. The problem with watching a not so hot DVD movie is that because it's not memorable there's a chance I can forget I watched it and find myself watching it again.

3. The problem with thrift shopping is this: I don't mind wearing other people's clothing, in fact it appeals to my inclination to re-use and re-cycle, but I do mind wearing their perfume, which often is so strong that it doesn't wash out.

4. This is the place where I mention that a lot of deer hunting has been going on in my family but spare by vegetarian friends by not posting pictures.

5. I wonder why it took me 58 years to notice that a pretzel is shaped like a heart.

6. A google search informed me that a pretzel is of Medieval European origin and that pretzels used to be hidden on Easter morning just like eggs are hidden today. The three holes in the pretzel represent the Christian Trinity of "Father, Son and Holy Spirit," and they are thought to bring luck, prosperity, and spiritual wholeness. Who knew?

7. I once had a bumper stick that said "Why Be Normal?" that I hung upside down on my car, just to prove the point. I remembered this recently when a friend made a comment about me stopping in the middle of the road the day after the snowstorm to get out and take snow pictures (like the ones below).

8. I also had a recycling bumper sticker that said "Once is not enough" that I put on twice to prove that point.

9. My new imaginary bumper sticker warns "I brake for barns," which means I'm likely to pull over and take pictures of them. xmaska.jpg

10. And today when I should have been baking cookies, I was writing poetry about the snow and taking snow pictures of cows and birds.

11. My sister Kathy does themed Christmas trees each year and names them. This year's was Christmas Blizzard (right). I think she could hire herself out to decorate other people's trees for Christmas.

12. I just got a Christmas e-card from recent Democratic candidate for Virginia governor Terry Mcauliffe and his family and thought for a moment that it was from one of my long lost relatives in Cork, Ireland who contacted me recently after reading THIS post.

13. What do you call people like my 17 month-old grandson Bryce who are afraid of Santa Claus? Claustrophobic.

Celebrate 13 Thursday on Christmas Eve HERE.

December 17, 2009

13 Thursday: Do Not Open Till Friday

13m.gif1. Writing is a lot like surfing. You have to catch the wave of creativity and ride it. If you don't wait for the wave, you'll be just paddling without much momentum.

2. Waves come and go. If you miss one you can wait for another. But they're not predictable like a bus schedule, so you have to stay alert.

3. Speaking of being alert, and how I wasn't. Today is Thursday but I thought it was Wednesday, hence the late 13 Thursday post and title.

4. Whenever I drive at night at Christmastime and turn to see a particularly brightly lit up house, I wonder how many people drive off the road this time of year doing the same thing.

5. I probably scared some people shopping for groceries at The Harvest Moon Food Store yesterday when I came in and loudly announced what I had just heard on the radio: that the radiation from one Cat Scan is 50 to 700% higher than an X-ray and causes cancer.

6. Duh. I knew that more than 25 years ago, which is why I declined to have my son Josh get one that was prescribed after a head injury from a car accident. I was treated like a negligent parent for saying no.

7. I recently interviewed an inspiring young man in our community who is living with cancer and treating it holistically, after traditional treatments didn't work. He described how many people have cancer cells in their body but that doesn't automatically mean it will spread or be fatal. "I keep myself positive with constant mindfulness about how and what I'm doing. Worry and negativity have a domino effect that is counterproductive to good health."

8. You can never have too much butter around at Christmastime.

9. The ghost of Christmas Carol: A convergence of weather (4 inches of snow) and the refrigerator turning on prompted my crystal wine glasses to spontaneously ring. The song lasted for 2 days. You've got to hear it to believe it HERE.

10. Ring for yourself HERE.

11. Why is it that I always want to knock the trees down instead of avoiding them while playing games like THIS?

12. Best bumper sticker seen while on the road this week: Back Off. I'm not that kind of car.

13. In four years of doing 13 on Thursday this is the second time I forgot what day it was. HERE is the last time I fell asleep at that switch, which starts: I've always been fascinated by the group mind that humans share, which causes us to agree about certain things like what day of the week it is, or to stay in our own lane on the right side of the road while driving down a highway. What would happen if we completely dropped out and forgot these collective agreements?

I hope I'm not to late to play with others HERE.

December 9, 2009

The 13 Thursday Teapoet

13tpt.gif1. They say that each year 100's of words are dropped from the English language and that 90% of what we write is communicated using only 7,000 words. Keep a word from going extinct. Adopt one HERE.

2. Enjoy a virtual cup of tea and a tea leaf reading HERE. Don't burn yourself. The tea is hot.

3. Last Thursday I asked "Why is a heavy heart empty and a full heart light?" The next day I posed the question on Facebook. Here's the best answer I got: A heart that is loved by another heart is supported in many different ways, and therefore feels lighter.

4. I have an imaginary sister blog to Loose Leaf called Loose Change: How a Writer Spends Her Time.

5. I once bought a flock of chickens for a family in Africa for Christmas.

6. In the past week my kitchen has been used to play Scrabble, butcher a deer, and host a computer doctor house call.

7. Having no access to my files and my Outlook inbox, and being displaced from my work station while my PC is in the shop, is like having a boat with neither an anchor or motor.

8. Recent Google search poetry: goose loose blues for the melting pot.

9. A Litter of Laptops: Yesterday in Blacksburg with Joe, he was seeing a client and I headed over to The Easy Chair coffee house with my laptop hoping to get some work done. Every single chair in both rooms of the coffee shop were taken by people on laptops who were not drinking or eating anything bought from the shop. I pulled up a chair at a table where a young woman was watching Friends on her laptop and did not order a drink.

10. After buying Christmas cookies at Winterfest, getting 4 inches of snow, and seeing Floyd's Young Actor's performance of A Christmas in the first week of December, I wonder how much more Christmas it can get.

11. Watch Floyd's Young Actors deliver the most famous Christmas lines as spoken by The Ghost of Jacob Marley and Tiny Tim HERE and HERE.

12. A video community of all Floyd video clips, including some of mine is HERE.

13. Poet's bio-note: I'm a nightshift stenographer hired by the muse to take down the moon's business

The poetry of Thirteen Thursday is HERE. Teapoet poems are HERE.

December 2, 2009

13 Channels

note132.gif1. New answering machine message: What's your story, Morning Glory?

2. There's more where that came from HERE.

3. Paradox: Why is an empty heart heavy and a full heart light?

4. While interviewing the owner of a new spa in Floyd, I discovered that cosmetology and cosmology are light years apart but I can't keep the two words straight.

5. Sometimes while reading a newspaper story that continues on to another page I feel like I need a GPS system to find it.

6. The color of my blog is dictated by the word LEAF in the title and the fact that I'm Irish American.

7. When Asheville potter son son Josh was in town for Thanksgiving and the 16 Hands Studio Tour, he and Joe went down the mountain to babysit Bryce. I called them Two and a Half Men.

8. I repeated that line to my friend Karl who but it didn't register. He doesn't have a TV.

9. HD was touted as the latest thing in TV viewing, but since getting I lost the majority of my network channels and I'm lucky if I get one channel that comes in good. I don't want cable or dish because of THIS.

10. I made a new friend whose name is Sarah Beth Jones and for the first couple of weeks after meeting her I kept calling her Sarah Jessica Parker. Joe has a colleague named Susan Stone that he calls Sharon Stone.

11. My writer friend Rosmary said she barely recognized me with my new notebook. She associates me, rightly so, with THIS one, a notebook I liked so much I bought a dozen, but have recently run out of them.

12. My new notebook may be boring but I'm lost without it. I left it at the Café del Sol after the Spoken Word night. When I went back the next day to get it, it had the above sign taped on it. So now it's not so boring.

13. I once left a notebook in Applebees restaurant and when I returned an hour later to get it, I discovered it on the floor being used to steady a wobbly table!

The Thirteen Thursday channel is HERE.

November 25, 2009

The Thirteen Thursday Matchbook Message

matches3x.gif1. It was an honor to receive an email from long time blog friend Pearl telling me that she had written a poem about me. It's HERE.

2. Joe and I were watching Saturday Night Live last weekend when he surprised me by asking in all seriousness, "So who are they going to get to replace Seth Meyers on the Weekend Edition?" He got the idea that Seth had left the show by only reading the misleading headlines HERE.

3. I got a phone call from my son earlier this week asking, "Mum, do you really have scars in rings around your ankles?" He read about it HERE.

4. Why doesn't anyone engaged in the mammogram guideline debate have the guts to say publicly that mammograms used to detect breast cancer emit radiation, which is known to increase the risk of cancer.

5. Recently my email inbox suffered a glitch and deleted 3,000 old emails, which gave me the strength to delete the other 3,000. Since our community newsletter (the Museletter), my blog, and the writer's circle I belong to are in flux, I took it as a metaphor to let go of the old to make room for the new.

6. The difference between a compliment and a complaint is just a few letters.

7. Question mark moon ... Each star is a period ... in the lyrical miracle ... of the story eternal. After posting this poem on Monday and getting a comment from a reader about God, I answered "I think God is a poet who wrote the uni-verse!"

8. Even in November: My laundry is sun dried. My supper vegetables are garden grown, and my wood stove kindling is gathered from the woods around our house.

9. My father never taught us how to ride a bike or play ball, but he taught us that bullies act tough because they feel small inside and that the sickest most deranged people in the world are the ones who don't think they are sick.

10. Bottles of bubbles and flashing spinning tops are mixed with the cans of beans and jars of peanut butter on the shelves in my pantry. There is not even one can of cranberry sauce.

11. I found the mysterious matchbook scene (there were more outside of the shot) on the gravel driveway in front of my mailbox about a year ago. Today seemed like a good day to post it.

12. If you think this Thirteen Thursday list (posted for Thanksgiving Day) is void of the traditional holiday fixins, read last year's entry HERE.

13. Need a compliment? Go HERE.

Thank you for reading. Read more HERE.

November 19, 2009

The 13 Thursday Page Turner

bkzx.gif 1. While driving home in the rain on the Blue Ridge Parkway at night after babysitting Bryce, I saw three possums, the one that made a car swerve and almost cause a three car accident, the one I later ran over, and the one that happily got away.

2. I saw geese flying in V formation. The next day heard birds singing as if it was spring.

3. Recent googled topics of research: Beta glucan, Friday the 13th, Elvis Costello and seizures.

4. I recently said to my friend Rosemary: I have learned not to answer right away when someone asks me to do something, because it always seems harder than it really will be and my first thought is usually 'I can't possibly do that.' She answered, "I have learned to not answer right away for the complete opposite reason.

5. I know my relationships with my blog readers are real because, in the spirit of honesty and keeping current, I find it hard to skip over something big that has happened in my life. I learned this recently when I had a (simple partial) seizure and the journal part of my blog compelled me to at least mention it.

6. A seizure in which you don't lose consciousness can feel like out of control déjà vu (when everything seems strangely familiar), Jamais vu (when common things that should feel familiar feel utterly foreign) or presque vu (being on a delusional verge of almost remembering something).

7. A seizure without losing consciousness is like having vertigo and not throwing-up.

8. I was recently enthralled watching Nova's 3 part series, Becoming Human, which traced human evolution back to our earliest ancestors. It was like the documentary to the Clan of the Cave Bear, a book series about prehistoric times that I read a couple of decades ago.

9. Clan of the Cave Bear: The Danielle Steele of Neanderthals.

10. In the past few years I've written dozens of stories about other people for the local newspaper, including one about a toymaker, a singer, a pizza maker, a gardener, a teacher, a landscaper, an author, an artist, a poet, quilters, and actors.

11. I recently realized that my interest in telling other people's stories started when I wrote my brother Jim's eulogy in 2001. As I wrote it, I remember thinking that all my past writing had been building to come to that point; what could be more important than writing someone's eulogy, and why don't we write about people's lives before they die?

12. After that, I wrote an essay about my father (a year before he died) and read it on the local NPR station. Then, my mother said, "I hope you're going to write one for me." That one got on the radio too.

13. As a writer, is THIS cheating?

The rest of the 13 Thursday stories are HERE.

November 12, 2009

13: The Writing is on the Facebook Wall

13kylagif.gif1. Sometimes I feel like a "Talking Head" who has "Stopped Making Sense."

2. Speaking of Talking Heads, David Byrne's latest blog entry is called "Internet Anti-Christ." He makes this point: I see that in my lifetime I will witness the end of books, or most of them, physical copies of recorded music and probably physical newspapers too. Stuff that's been around for a thousand years will be gone in my lifetime! ... All those academic books filled with Auden's or Jane Austen's letters -- it's hard to imagine a collection of someone's text messages, tweets and e-mails.

3. Weirdest mailing recently received: A catalog of unusual gifts, featuring a bust of Obama growing a green chia afro!

4. On the cover of the same catalog there was a green gieco gecko in a red Santa hat.

5. The picture above is of my poet friend Mara's daughter Kyla. Kyla was facebook for Halloween. Her T-shirt said "Write on my Wall."

6. The very least I think I should get from suffering with having 3 U's through half a game of Scrabble is to stick my opponent with 10 points by not being able to use her Q. But a Q has become like a woman who doesn't need a man to reproduce. There are at least 3 Q words without U's accepted in the Scrabble dictionary: Qi, Qat, Qaud.

7. Heard this week: "Every lie is 80% truth." How true is that?

8. Speaking of lies and half truths, I think THIS guy might be Canada's version of Jon Stewart. He makes a hilarious serious statement about the swine flu vaccine.

9. If 'garden' was spelled 'gardin' I would have been beaten by a 10 year old I was playing Scrabble with recently.

10. The fact that the recent army base shooting happened in Killeen, Texas and that the shooter was from Virginia and graduated from nearby Virginia Tech is weird, but not as weird as the fact that this man who was deranged enough to kill 13 fellow soldiers worked in the mental health field counseling others.

11. Joe kisses Colleen and then says: I stole a kiss from right under your nose.

12. My baby grandson Bryce has a new little happy clap and skip in his step that I'm calling his "end line dance." I hope to document him in the act soon.

13. My "Through the Ages" Facebook album from birth to the present is HERE.

Face to face with others playing 13 Thursday HERE.

November 5, 2009

13 Thursday: Sushi Belushi

belush80.gif1. The worst part of being dressed up as a Blues Brother for Halloween and wearing a buttoned-up shirt and tie is that my bra strap slipped off my shoulder while dancing at a party and I couldn't find a way in to put it back. Pictures HERE.

2. This week I attended the Radford University counseling class on grief and loss that uses my book (The Jim and Dan Stories) about losing my two brothers a month apart as part of their curriculum. I speak to the class, do some readings, and answer questions. It was my fifth time attending, the first time being in 2003.

3. My poet friend Mara whose husband died the same month my brothers did and her twelve year old daughter Kyla also attended as speakers to give their perspectives on grief and loss. Mara's father and Kyla's grandfather died a little more than a month ago and they talked about that too.

4. After the class, we went out for sushi, which is when Kyla showed me the sushi shirt (pictured) hanging behind the restaurant counter. "Next year I want to wear that shirt, put on dark sunglasses and be Blues Brother John Belushi Sushi," I said.

5. When Mara introduced herself and Kyla to the class, she said, "Think of us as the Gilmore Girls, but they have better writers."

6. For me, speaking to the class is a little unsettling, kind of like being on Jay Leno and having to talk about myself and the making of my last movie instead of just acting in the movie.

7. When I told Mara that Rumi did not write down his poetry but spontaneously recited it as people followed him around and wrote it down, she was jealous and said, "I want someone to follow me around and write down what I say."

8. I began the talking part of my presentation by trying to put the class at ease, telling the story of how I recently received a Sports Illustrated mailing in my brother's name that was soliciting a renewed subscription from him. On the envelope in big letters next to Danny's name it said, "We Want You Back." I was able to laugh and say, "Yeah, I know what you mean. Get in line."

9. Beatles music played a role in the book I wrote, especially the song "Let it Be," which we sang to Dan when he was dying and then at his funeral. Kyla sang George Harrison's "Blackbirds" to her grandfather when he was sick and at his memorial party. The RU professor teaching the class ended it by playing THIS song. We sang along.

10. Every time I do the class I get some version of a question about whether or not I believe in an afterlife. My current short answer is this: My heart tends to believe it. My mind tends to not believe it.

11. Read about two past classes HERE. Blog writings on grief and loss are HERE.

12. I've never seen The Gilmore Girls and when Mara referred to her and Kyla that way I was thinking of The Golden Girls (three elderly ladies living together) and was confused. I asked her about it later and she explained it over sushi.

13. Kyla was Facebook for Halloween. I like eel.

More playing 13 Thursday HERE.

October 29, 2009

13: Bubble Bubble Toil and Trouble

bagmoms13t.gif 1. Today's 13 Thursday all started because I did some google research after hearing about a Russian poet who was imprisoned for being a dissident and carved poetry in bars of soap and then memorized the poems before using the soap for washing.

2. I also just learned that they now make catchable, stackable, almost unbreakable, and edible bubbles. I'll be stopping at a toy store soon.

4. While searching for "dissident poet and soap" I discovered a poetry site called "Soap Boxing," and a site called "Explaining the mystical poetry with soap and dirt" by Rumi.

5. My husband Joe once covered himself in bubble wrap to be "package man" for Halloween. I insisted that he did it for the attention of all the pretty girls who came up to pop him.

6. That's my friend Rowan in the picture above as the Floyd Eco-Fair plastic bag monster. He's very gregarious and had kids following him around, which prompted me to call him The Pied Piper of Plastic. Later I heard another friend who saw him in Monster drag said, "That's the cutest white trash I've ever seen!"

7. On a more serious note, the back of Rowan's sign read, "One year one, one shopper, 500 bags." Use reusable!

8. His functional moonshine jugs, hand painted with Southwest Virginia motifs of hounds, raccoons, rabbits, and cocks, reflect the influence of his country upbringing. His dramatic and sometimes disturbing sculptures are inspired by ancient Chinese bronze tea ceremony jars and explore themes of religion, politics, and eroticism. ~ excerpt I wrote for potter Joey Jones web page. Read the rest and view Joey's work HERE.

9. I've never been afraid to eat something with a fork or spoon after it falls on the floor because I grow my own vegetables and I know where potatoes come from.

10. A few days ago I got a phone call from Joe after his month long silent meditation retreat ended. He was at the ocean and wanted me to hear the surf, so I sat holding the white phone receiver like a conch shell with an ocean roar inside.

11. Moon Peace: The moon is a mutiny ... a one bubble revolution ... escape from the sky-sea ... of sudsy clouds ... It floats across the heavens ... like a flower child pagan ... in peaceful demonstration ... against the status quo.

12. My only other post about bubbles is HERE.

13. Better than popping bubble wrap HERE.

POP on over to the 13 Thursday headquarters HERE.

October 22, 2009

The 13 Thursday Sermon

13sky.gif1. On Sunday I went to the Sun Hall to dance to the sweet Grateful Dead tunes of The Kind in a benefit concert to stop mountaintop removal. With friends all around, including a surprise dancing appearance of Ruth, a community elder and one of its best loved matriarch, we raised a lot of energy. At the end of two hours, smiling and sweating, I turned to my friend Jayn and said, "Now this is my kind of Sunday church service."

2. I grow pumpkins because they make me popular with the kids who I give them away to.

3. Speaking of pumpkins my friend Rio is a pumpkin carving artist whose art has been documented by The Roanoke Times HERE.

4. My favorite variation of the sign of the cross I grew up using (In the name of the Father, the Son and the Holy Spirit), is one from a poem by Emily Dickinson that goes like this: In the name of the bee - and of the butterfly - and of the breeze.

5. I had a dream that my husband Joe (who is really away on a month long silent meditation retreat) was in church. I had a dress on and was arriving to join him late but I had trouble parking. A man who was already parked helped me because I had squeezed in too close to the priest's car, blocking him in. After helping me, the man drove away and I wondered why he hadn't just offered me his space. Then I ran into an old friend on vacation who pleaded with me to come to his family home for a picture and to meet his family. I did and by the time I left there it was too late for going to church.

6. My poetry used to be all about Joe, now my most written about topics are tea, autumn, and the moon.

7. Like this most recent one: The moon is a chalice ... Perceived empty or full ... Sun's gold silver-polished ... Black Madonna's holy grail.

8. I'm only a few degrees more sociable than Emily Dickinson.

9. Unfortunately, since having my blog moved to a new server, my category archive, which is like my own personal writer's filing cabinet, is not displaying, My web hoster will be working on getting it back and will also be adding some google ads to my site so I can afford to pay for his service.

10. Watching Latin Music USA on PBS, I got reintroduced to THIS 1966 song. I didn't know the group "? and the Mysterians" was Latino and the first band considered punk rock, but I knew I loved the song. They played at the Surf in the small little Massachusetts beach town I grew up in. I was working in the coat check at the time and was disappointed to hear them but not be able to dance.

11. Although I never liked the rote rituals of Mass and the feeling of being herded, as a young girl, I was always inspired by the sermons, and after church I wondered why everyone didn't go on to live like the priest preached.

12. Not your average fish story HERE.

13. In the spirit of Halloween, HERE'S a monster mash starring the usual suspects. Can you guess who?

Go forth and multiply 13 Thursday HERE.

October 15, 2009

The 13 Thursday Front Row Seat

13pu.gif1. Fall at my house - a pine log cabin surrounded by woods - is like a warm bowl of mashed carrots and Yukon gold potatoes.

2. I had every intention of going to Christiansburg to get my hair cut but learned that my hairdresser is in Italy. Now I'm forced to wash the kitchen floor.

3. My son's girlfriend is in Italy too. I wonder if she'll meet my hairdresser.

4. My kitchen is a slum of slob.

5. The people in THIS video were always finding water all over their pool deck and furniture, every time they came home, after being away for a few hours. They thought the neighborhood kids were watching for them to leave, and using the pool. However, they could never catch them doing it. So, they set up their video cam and left. THIS is what they found out.

6. I really wanted to stick the I in the word verification TRING today, but then I thought maybe someone was too tired to put the I in TIRING and I am too tired to care.

7. As we age, is it our own faces that scare up at Halloween?

8. I went to see the moon for Joe's and my nightly moon date (while he's away on a month long silent meditation retreat). The sky was full of stars but there was no moon in sight, making me think for a moment that maybe the moon had exploded and left glowing pieces of itself all over the sky.

9. After HD TV came and I lost most of my regular channels, I started watching Sex in the City reruns on Fox, which were all new to me. I remember telling Joe that the show wasn't as much about sex as it was about women's friendships and the life of a writer. Then, when I lost the Fox channel too, I decided to keep watching by renting all six seasons of the HBO shows from the video store. Guess what I discovered? The show really is about sex.

10. There's so much hype about the swine flu I feel sick just listening to it. Apparently, now that Dr. Oz has has his own show, he felt obligated to propagate some fear mongering about it and had some experts on touting vaccines, but then later he told Campbell Brown in a TV interview that his own children and wife will not be getting vaccinated. Dr. Oz wisely did not have his children vaccinated for the standard recommended childhood vaccines until after they were 6 months. Some of my views on vaccinations can be found HERE.

11. An earthquake is like the earth having a seizure. A tsunami is like it's throwing up.

12. Bernie Madoff's name should be spelled Bernie "Made off," as in made off with other people's money.

13. New old country names found in newspaper obituaries to add to the list I'm collecting: Women - LaLa, Zama, Lossie, Monnie, Cuma. Men - Hutson, Hoy, Freeman, Ras, and Carlis.

Now turn the channel and see who else is playing 13 Thursday HERE.

October 8, 2009

13 Thursday: To Play or Not To Play

13clownx.gif

1. This is the time of year when I can't tell the difference between a monarch butterfly on its way to Mexico and falling leaves when they cross my path.

2. Favorite word this week: Shenanigan

3. Last week I went for my scheduled dentist appointment for the dreaded root canal. It felt like I had won the lottery when an x-ray was taken and I was told I didn't need one after all and got sent home. Of course that was all I needed to justify spending $60 at the mall on my way home. Just think of all the money I saved.

4. My overworked mouse arm is also the arm I use to carry my grandson Bryce around and the arm I use to do acupressure reflexology ( like acupuncture except you use your fingers to press points on the body to stimulate healing), so no wonder it's tired and sore.

5. You know the saying "It's Greek to me," I just changed it to "It's Geek to me," meaning I don't have a clue what widgets and modules are.

6. It is widely assumed that Shakespeare introduced more words into English literature than all the other writers of his time combined, over 1,700 by some estimates.

7. Many of his phrases, like wild goose chase, what the dickens, one fell swoop, dead as a doornail, much ado about nothing, etc. are used to this day.

8. British journalist in a red convertible writes about Floyd HERE.

9. When I image google the word "words," I get THIS.

10. Bryce's current favorite words, which he says repeatedly while pointing: DOG and TRUCK.

11. When my son Josh was three years old, he said, "Mum, cats are polite and dogs are mean." He later told me that he thought all cats were girls and all dogs were boys. Kitty was his first word.

12. Speaking of words, I love to play THIS. Test your own vocabulary and leave me your score.

13. All is well that ends well. (Shakespeare said that.)

More playing 13 Thursday HERE.

October 1, 2009

The Thirteen Thursday Up Date

jo13col4.jpg1. Last night I swore the moon looked like a Gollum with its eye on the brightest star in the sky.

2. I bet I can make you curse within three minutes. Try THIS.

3. Joe and I have a date to look up at the moon every night at 9 p.m. while he's away at a month long silent meditation retreat in Massachusetts and I'm Home Alone.

4. The photo posted above was taken from my son Josh's collage journal. It features one of my all time favorite photos of him as a boy and gave an early indication of the artist he would become.

5. My favorite part of the collage is the pencil on the blank page that says "This page is intentionally left blank."

6. Josh's favorite part is the four different colored bread ties in the left hand corner.

7. Joe and I hiked to our favorite secret orchard before he left for his month and discovered that our version of the stock market going down means no apples this year in the orchard.

8.

9. Number eight is intentionally left blank.

10. Don't watch THIS while driving, while operating machinery, or trying to type anything sensible at your keyboard.

11. Send THIS to someone you love.

12. Last week I saw a woman shopping in a clown wig. She looked normal in every other way.

13. Another time I saw a woman shopping in her pajamas. I guessed she was sleepwalking on Ambien.

More playing Thirteen Thursday HERE.

Note:
If you visit here this evening and find you can't comment it's because my blog is being moved. I'll be holding my breath till then. Read more about it HERE.

September 24, 2009

13 Thursday: This and That

jmxp.jpg1. If THIS is the National Geographic's Photo of the Month (seen at Sandy’s) then the photo to the left is my answer to it.

2. My nephews, pictured jumping off a Blue Ridge Parkway Mountain, are not named This and That but are Mat and Pat.

3. Worst political T-shirt hoisted on a kid HERE.

4. Best fortune telling advice of the week HERE.
jump1.jpg
5. A 24 hour intestinal bug I caught from Joe last week brought whole new meaning to the phrase “I feel like crap.”

6. Contemplating cutting into our house to add a sun room feels as scary as planning plastic surgery.

7. While watching the Emmys with my lap top beside me, I looked up some actor bio’s and eventually found myself hooked (like you don’t want to watch but can’t turn away from the scene of a bad accident) on a bad plastic surgery site. Needless to say, I didn’t sleep well that night.

8. I just found a podcast link on (Andy Morikawa's blog) to the radio show I was on in August on global warming and local sustainability. At the time I felt I did only a little better than Sarah Palin being interviewed, but listening to it now I can see that I wasn’t half bad.

9. And the commentary I posted last week “Who is the Real Liar” about Max Blumenthal's book about the Christian right extremist campaign to spread fear and lies about Obama was published in The Roanoke Times HERE.

10. This is my 204th Thirteen Thursday. At that age do you think a face lift is in order?

11. Best line Obama said on Letterman that I didn’t hear because I went to bed so I could wake up early to babysit Bryce: Letterman asked him about former President Jimmy Carter’s claim that racism is behind recent political attacks and Obama answered, "First, it's important to realize that I was actually black before the election."

12. In last year’s late September’s 13 Thursday, I wrote, “This is the time of year when I put on socks, and the butter in the butter dish is no longer the consistency of mayonnaise.” But this year the butter never got like mayonnaise and I wore socks in August.

13. Is it just a coincidence that a dunce cap and a wizard’s hat, and a KKK hood and a church steeple all look the same?

More 13 Thursday players are HERE. My 203 other 13 Thursdays are HERE.

September 17, 2009

13 Outside the Box

132Untitled-1.jpg 1. The World Health Organization ranked the U.S. health care system only 37th in the world. Nothing to sing about, but HE DID.

2. At the recent year celebration of the local literary magazine Floyd County Moonshine and tribute readings to the late poet Elliot Dabinisky, my friend Mara brought me a confusing gift: a plastic container with a shamrock and the name COLLEEN on the label. Below the name and shamrock it said “Strawberries Fraises” and something written in French. There were grapes inside.

3. After the reading, we stood on the loft at the BlackWater Loft overlooking town and saw some friends walking down below. I shouted down to them, “I really wanted to ping some grapes at you but I’m afraid it will stain the new sidewalk.” (The cement was newly poured for the renovation of the Station building and the new Farmer’s Market we’re getting in town.)

4. On a recent car trip with Bryce I realized that I couldn’t keep my eyes off him. Good thing Joe was driving. HERE.

5. Somehow in my mind, Kool-Aid and kaleidoscopes are related. I wonder if it has something to do with the book Electric Kool-aid Acid Test that I read in the 60’s.

6. People must like to give me fruit. On a recent interview for a story I was writing, I was gifted with a box of blueberries, which reminded me of Box of Rain, one of my all time favorite Grateful Dead songs.

7. It’s all a dream we dreamed one afternoon long ago… Phil Lesh wrote the song when his father was dying and although Robert Hunter, who wrote the lyrics, says that “Box of Rain” refers to the world we live on and that he came up with the phrase because “ball of rain” didn’t sound as good, I think the man in THIS video got the meaning right: It’s something you can’t hold on to for very long.

8. On the same day I posted my commentary about right wing extremists comparing Obama to Hitler and generally spreading lies to de-legitimize him and kill health care reform, I received THIS.

9. Wow. I just found out that all THESE Irish people are my relatives. They found me through this blog! (Through THIS post, to be exact.)

10. When I image googled "Think Outside the Box," I got THIS, and even better THIS.

11. I bet it’s hard for people who work in cubicles to think outside the box.

12. Sometimes when I’m bored I jump in the magnetic poetry sandbox and play with others HERE.

13. Written by me on a scrap of paper that I found on my desk this morning: Say what you mean and mean what you say but don’t say it mean.

More playing 13 on Thursday HERE.

September 10, 2009

13 Thursday: News to Me

13type2.jpg1. While driving home from the grocery store I passed my black Honda CRV with the license plate LETITB parked downtown and had a pang of panic, like I had astral projected out of my body and was watching it on the bed sleeping. Of course, I had forgotten that Joe borrowed my car and I was driving in his truck.

2. The next day while driving I saw a green couch cushion in the middle of the road and thought it was mine.

3. I’m losing it.

4. What will they think of next? When I first heard about electronic cigarettes that look like pens and deliver smokeless vaporized liquid nicotine, I was thinking it was a joke like the Pomegranate phone, which was advertised as a phone that can make coffee. The pomegranate was a publicity stunt. The electronic cigarette is, sadly, real.

5. Said to Joe while trying to pick out a good movie at the video store: It reminds me being at the thrift shop and browsing through racks of polyester trying to find one nice thing in cotton, wool, or silk.

6. Said to Joe while putting on my carpal tunnel metal wrist braces before bed, “If I didn’t love these things, I’d hate them” (they work).

7. I think I’ve been avoiding Twitter because the word rhymes with fritter, means to talk rapidly about trivial matters, and has the word “twit” in it.

8. Favorite line heard last week: I’m not that kind of google. It was spoken by Carrie on Sex in the City after she googled the man she was dating and discovered he had a playboy reputation.

9. As frightening as it sounds, recent studies have shown that cell phone radiation is said to penetrate children’s brains up to 75% and increase their risk of cancer. A study published in the medical journal "The Lancet" reports that children who use mobile phones risk suffering memory loss, sleeping disorders and headaches. More HERE.

10. Because my favorite dessert of late is Paul Newmans’ “ginger” hermit cookies (not to be confused with the “cinnamon” ones which are not nearly as good), I became curious about how these “hermits” got their name and found this: An old-fashioned favorite said to have originated in Colonial New England, this spicy, chewy cookie is full of chopped fruits and nuts. It's usually sweetened with molasses or brown sugar. It's said that hermits were named for their long keeping qualities-they're better when hidden away like a hermit for several days.

11. Are chickens smarter than people? Read about how some chickens are refusing to eat genetically modified feed HERE.

12. Swine Flu Rant Guy is singing my song HERE.

13. There must be an easier way: I just wrote a story for the local paper in which I used word pâté. I couldn’t figure out how to get the accent over the e, so I typed café removed the caf and replaced it with pat. Once I did that my spell check suggested the other mark over the a.

More 13 Thursdays. Read all about it HERE.

September 3, 2009

Here Lies 13 Thursday

12plant.jpg1. How many beans can you stand to hear scream? Find out HERE.

2. Only in Floyd: This past weekend I danced to the grooves of The Emily Brass Band at the Pine Tavern Floyd Family Jamfest and was caught at the nighttime fire dance intermission show without a decent camera.

3. I recently realized that my getting hooked on late night Sex in the City reruns was partly because I had a crush on Carrie’s boyfriend Aiden, played by John Corbett, which I discovered when his character was written out of the show and my level of commitment to the show dropped. Then, more recently, I discovered that Corbett was a born again Christian Republican and the boyfriend of Bo Derek, and my crush fizzled some. Even more recently, I learned that Corbett is also a pretty decent country singer songwriter, which piqued my interest again.

4. My not ready for primetime bumper sticker that I have on my fridge reads: Born Okay the First Time.

5. The fact that I share Ted Kennedy’s Irish Catholic Massachusetts Democrat background, and that he was being buried next to his two brothers on the anniversary of my brother Danny’s death (the second of my two brothers who died a month apart and were buried together), while tropical storm Danny brought a deluge of rain off the eastern coast, wasn’t lost on me.

6. Around the same time that Ted Kennedy was dying and tropical storm Danny was stirring up, thrivalist Frank Cook, who was in Floyd this past May giving plant talks and walks, died unexpectedly of a parasitic infection. Frank had a Master’s Degree in Holistic Science from Shumaker College, wrote Emerging Planetary Medicines, and was active in the Transition Culture movement, a movement for those preparing for a no-carbon economy. A video clip of his Floyd visit is HERE.

7. Considering that my writer’s bio-note is: “I keep a dictionary in the backseat of my car and a kaleidoscope in my glove compartment. What else do you need to know?” I’m not surprised that people send me cool kaleidoscope sites, like THIS new one.

8. Epitaph found on a tombstone in Georgia “I told you I was sick!”

9. Strangest vanity license plate, spotted once in Blacksburg: IAMHURT.

10. Poet Robert’s Frost’s tombstone epitaph reads, "I had a lover's quarrel with the world.” Charles Bukowski’s says: Don’t Try.

11. Writing a bio is one thing, but an epitaph? What would yours say? I think I’ll use one of THESE.

12. Can you read this? ǝsɹǝʌuı sǝʇıɹʍ ʇǝod spɹɐʍʞɔɐq ɐ

13. And finally, I’ll leave it to my baby grandson Bryce to wave bye-bye HERE.

Say hello to fellow 13 Thursday players HERE.

August 27, 2009

13 Thursday Free Verse

13linez.jpg1. This is the time of year that I’m up to my nostrils in pesto making.

2. After the transition to HD caused a more than few TV channels to disappear and a new one to appear, I’ve started watching Sex in City reruns for the first time and have found myself wishing they’d do a reunion show with the main characters all over the age of 50. Oh wait, that’s been done. It’s called The Golden Girls.

3. Corn is considered a grain rather than a vegetable. The female flower is the silk.

4. I recently interviewed someone for a story who has developed an artistic line of merchandise and who uttered the word “tershit” three times before I caught on that he was saying “tourist shit.” (Too bad I had to edit it out.)

5. As a Massachusetts Irish American who has voted Democrat all my adult life because they represent my views on women’s rights, civil rights, labor rights and the environment better than their counterpart, I’m sad about the death of Ted Kennedy, the last of a line, a champion and icon. I see no one quite like him on the horizon. A moving video clip of Kennedy’s recent impassioned thoughts on universal health care is HERE.

6. Watch Steven Colbert call for “End of the World Sex” while talking to environmental author and founder of 350.org Bill Mckibben HERE.

7. Colbert then suggests that people all over the world set their ovens to 350 to beat global warming at its own game. Find out why 350 is the most important number in the world HERE.

8. Upon borrowing the book of poetry pictured above from one of the Carolina Kiln Build potters while in Asheville, I realized that pottery and poetry is the same word with some letters moved around.

9. My son Josh’s cat’s name is Jean Claude Chairman Meow.

10. Working at the computer overtime makes my mouse arm feels like the alien prawn arm the guy in the science fiction black comedy movie District 9 started to grow.

11. the poet Robert Frost thought that writing free verse was like "playing tennis without a net".

12. My own call to free verse is called “Free Leonard Peltier and the Japanese Tanka” and goes like this: Don’t squeeze syllables into lines they’re not made for … Don’t pin a turned phrase under glass … Even a small unpredictable poem can kick down a locked door … can climb over the top of the page.

13. Remind me to NEVER get a pair of jeans like THIS!

More Thirteen Thursday players are HERE.

August 20, 2009

Starring Thirteen Thursday

star13.gif1. A rattle under my car turned out to be a heat fan loose on my catalytic converter, which I like to call a "Cadillac converter."

2. I like to call the spots and blemishes that appear on skin of a certain age barnacles because they remind me of the way barnacles grow on old whales.

3. Summer is getting old.

4. Maybe age is a clock to wake us from dreaming ... Or maybe it is the dream ... Like counting the number of pages in a book ... when we should be reading the story ... ~ The rest of the poem I wrote about turning 50 is HERE.

5. The spots and streaked trails on my bathroom mirror from a botched cleaning job, remind me of the meteorites I recently saw in the night sky during the Perseid meteor shower, watched from a lounge chair in the middle of my yard at 1 a.m.

6. We put stars in poems ... like we sprinkle salt on summer corn ... but in the winter eat it out cans ... We punch holes in black paper ... hold it up to the light ... We turn thermostats on ... to make imaginary fire ... ~ The rest of the poem is HERE.

7. Don't try THIS at home.

8. Last week I dreamt that Hillary Clinton was on stage at a speaking engagement and she got out of her chair and laid down on the floor to take a nap. I was worried and wondered where her handlers were.

9. Sundowners syndrome is when elderly patients in hospitals get their days and nights mixed up and become disorientated and irritable, usually in the afternoon. Sometimes when I stay home alone for too long, like I recently did when Joe was doing a weeklong Teen Meditation retreat, I get a touch of sundowners when I wake from a nap and think its morning or wake up in the morning thinking I just napped.

10. At this point, all that stands in the way of universal health care in America are the greed of the medical-industrial complex, the lies of the right-wing propaganda machine, and the gullibility of voters who believe those lies. The rest of Paul Krugman's New York Times commentary on health care reform is HERE.

11.We put stars in poems because they glow in the dark but aren't made of plastic ... because it's better than putting poems in stars ... because it makes our grandchildren giggle to see them ... because we don't know how to live without them ... The rest of the poem is HERE.

12. All the stars in the night sky are HERE.

13. And the star of kaleidoscope games is HERE.

More Thirteen Thursday players HERE.

August 13, 2009

13 Thursday Flash Back

13flahs.jpg1. Hey, where is everyone? I went through my sidebar blog links and discovered that half the people on the list aren’t blogging anymore.

2. Words and phrases heard this week: “a hoot called Boots,” “a pseudo sonnet,” and someone used fracus in a sentence.

3. I grew up calling corn “cawn” and shorts “shots.” I bet you can guess where I’m from.

4. Pulling fresh corn off their stalks (which I’ve been doing a lot of lately) feels too much like breaking bones.

5. I have an imaginary blog called Jabblog the Hut.

6. Sarah Palin may deny that she said ever said dinosaurs existed the same time as man 6,000 years ago (about 65 million years after scientists say most of them became extinct) but how does she explain THIS?

7. She recently confused language on living wills in health care reform as government death panels that would promote euthanasia. My own view on health care reform is HERE.

8. How to Keep an Idiot Busy (for at least a few minutes) HERE.

9. Brave Bryce HERE.

10. Whenever anyone calls me clever it feels like an insult and I feel like they think I’m trying to get away with something.

11. Here’s a line from my 13 Thursday posted this same time last August: While in Hull visiting my family an old friend was hitting on me. He’s done that since high school and I guess he feels compelled to keep up the charade. When I reminded him that I was happily married, he assured me that he was harmless, saying, “Don't worry. I’m impotent.”

12. I got all chocked up watching the nightly news tonight. Brian Williams was reporting on the 40th anniversary of Woodstock and visiting with the couple (still together) huddled under a blanket in the image on the cover of the soundtrack album. My Woodstock story is HERE.

13. See You Later Alligator is today’s soundtrack, staring my favorite leading men HERE.

Turn on HERE for more 13 Thursdays.

August 6, 2009

The 13 Thursday Action

13act.jpg1. I recently did a story on a local artist in which I had to edit out all the F-U-s and made sure not to mention that we sipped some peach moonshine at the end of our interview.

2. I think my interest in writing about other people’s lives started when I wrote by brother Jim’s eulogy and thought to myself ‘what could be more important to write and why don’t we do it more often, before the person is dead.’

3. Summer weather report: My garden hose has cobwebs on it.

4. Sitting on the porch in the morning sipping tea, I was pretty sure I could hear the carpenter ants eating us out of house and home.

5. I recently got asked by a nine year old girl why my feet were dirty?

6. For the answer to that question, I refer you to THIS.

7. I love tahini drizzled on every thing. It appeals to my sense of gravy.
13corn.jpg
8. I have heard that some found their way to Floyd after hearing that more tofu was sold here than anywhere else in the east.

9. In August corn on the cob from the garden is on the menu for breakfast lunch and dinner. We even bring it to Bryce’s house when we babysit.

10. Getting married? Check out my friend Katherine’s webpage HERE. She’s the priestess who married Joe and me.

11. The first thing about President Obama that I’ve been disappointed in: He drinks Bud Light.

12. Teaser: I’m working on a new story with a Floyd connection in which the words “action” and “cut” are used and someone keeps saying “My cat has fur balls."

13. A new kaleidoscope toy HERE

13 Thursday headquarters is HERE.

July 30, 2009

Thirteen Thursday: Another One Bites the Dust

score13.gif1. Lately I've been thinking about those leather patches on sweaters worn by professors and realizing, as I type and click with my elbows on the arm rests of my chair, that I might be needing some soon.

2. I've also been wondering about bedsores and if there is a computer version of them.

3. I've always thought it would be fun to have a job naming lipstick and nail polish, but I don't think I'd have ever come up with the name of the last lipstick I bought, which was kangaroobie. Always the editor, I would at least change it to kangaruby, in reference to the wine red color.

4. My friend Mara took the very cool above picture of a Floydfest golf cart numbered 13 and sent it to me with her phone. Mara is a reoccurring character on this blog whose shows up frequently in the categories of SCRABBLE and SPOKEN WORD, and sometimes LOSING A LOVED ONE.

5. One thing I learned early on about living in the country is to always roll up you windows when your driving on dirt roads or your car will soon be as dusty as a dust bowl in a drought. xmalets.gif

6. A few days before my nephews were due to arrive with my sister and her husband for Floydfest, I noticed a tall lettuce plant going to the seed in the garden that looked like a Christmas tree. So I put red bulbs on it as a prank to see if I could turn their heads.

7. Favorite sentence uttered this week: The green beans are going like gang busters but the peppers are a bust.

8. Some of the writing research I did this week involved finding out the difference between a guitar lick and a riff.

9. A lick is combination of notes, frequently based out of scales or chords and used often. A riff is a repeated chord progression, pattern, refrain or melodic figure, often played by the rhythm section instruments or solo instrument, that forms the basis or accompaniment of a musical composition.

10. Speaking of guitars, HERE'S today's 13 Thursday soundtrack.

11. And a very cool optical illusion involving color that I found at Pearl's place is HERE.

12. Interesting email headings in my mailbox yesterday: Dick Cheney called; he wants his empire back. Ding Dong the Purse is Found. Scrabble on Thursday? The Jim and Dan Stories. I Hope He's Good. Josh Copus Wrote on Your Wall.

13. The full collection of this year's Floydfest photos can be found on Facebook HERE. Or scroll down to see what all the fun is about.

More Thirteen Thursdays can be found HERE.

July 23, 2009

13: That’s the Ticket

tic.jpg1. Where else can you get an ice cream and a massage, take a dance class, go art and craft shopping in an open market, and then sip a micro brew by a garden fountain while listening to live music, all in one day and in one scenic location? ~ A line from the story I wrote about Floydfest Natural Awakenings of Southwest Virginia.

2. I recently walked to the garden to see if any beans were left to harvest for dinner and found myself shouting, “To bean or not to bean. That is the question!”

3. Last night my husband Joe said “C’est la vie” and I thought he said “Say Lovely,” so I said, “Lovely.”

4. My Asheville potter son Josh recently had a chain saw injury and then Joe cut his hand with a machete. Sounds like a Rambo horror show. I, on the other hand (or foot in this case), had my gruesome injury last year. Everyone is fine, by the way.

5. Watch my 14 month old grandson Bryce devour one of those garden beans mentioned in #2 HERE.

6. Whenever I slow down enough to where I’m not ruled by deadlines, a schedule, or commitments to others, I begin to be aware of underlying and subtle sadness that makes me wonder if all my activity isn’t actually a coping mechanism to avoid feeling sad ... I think it’s no coincidence that I had a post about cleaning out the cellar one day and then a couple of days later one about a stirring up of a foundational undercurrent of sadness.

7. Today is the first day of Floydfest, our town’s world music festival on the Blue Ridge Parkway, which I wrote about last year in the local paper HERE. I’ll post this year’s story tomorrow, followed by some on site photos of the photogenic festival.

8. My nephews Patrick (13) and Matthew (10) are here with my sister and her husband for Floydfest. Matthew posed for one of my past Thirteen Thursdays HERE. And Patrick and I go way back.

9. I know they will have fun at Floyfest but I’m not sure it will compare to having front row seats to the rocket launching of Endeavour and watching their astronaut uncle go up in space.

10. Flowers remind me of fireworks.

11. Every now and then I wonder what Thomas Paine would think about blogging.

12. My Loose Leaf Notes FloydFest photo album is HERE.

13. And THIS is the soundtrack for today's Thirteen Thursday, a song from one of my all time favorite albums. too shy to sing along. Bet you can't not sing along.

More Thirteeners are HERE.

July 16, 2009

Thirteen Thursday: Summer Ketchup

Thirteen2.jpg1. I recently discovered that when you’re measured in a doctor’s office they do not record ½ inches. The last time I got measured the nurse told me that and after measuring me, she asked if I wanted her to write down 5 foot or 5 foot 1 inch, to which I replied, “I want my age rounded down and my height rounded up!”

2. The brain: “A cognitive prosthesis for the soul.” Paul Bloom, Enlightenment Magazine

3. Said to Joe on taking a break from my meditation practice: “It feels like getting out of school. I haven’t lost anything I learned. I just don’t want to be sitting at a desk right now.”

4. A McCain aide on Sarah Palin: “She doesn't even know what she doesn't know.”

5. Always the poet, when Joe calls me sweetie, I call him tweetie. When he calls me lovey, I call him dovey.

6. Always on the lookout for 13 finds, I got the above photo from my brother-in-law Nelson who took it at my brother Joey’s 4th of July bash.

7. That’s my brother Johnny in the red hat cooking at the grille and HERE he is with the largest and ugliest lobster I’ve ever seen, so big that John named him “Conan the Crustacean.”

8. On our recent trip to my hometown of Hull, Massachusetts, we had a stop in D.C., so we drove Interstate 95 and it drove us …. crazy!

9. The trip included an unplanned tour of old-time carousels. We just happened upon the Dentzel Carousel in Glen Echo near D.C. and the Flying Horses in Oak Bluffs, Martha’s Vineyard, and of course we visited THIS, the Paragon Carousel in Hull that I rode when I was five and thought if I touched the horses mouths snakes would come out and bite me.

10. I don’t do grilles. I bought mine only because it has a gas burner on it and I was afraid if we lost electricity I wouldn’t be able to make tea. When I’m not making tea on the grille, I use it for storing dog food.

11. I love to walk the beach because it’s a clean slate everyday and you never know who you might meet or BUMP INTO.

12. Remember in the early 80’s when Reagan tried to pawn ketchup off as a vegetable in the school lunch programs to save money and Carly Simon sang THIS famous song in a ketchup commercial?

13. In Belgium they eat mayonnaise on fries.

Catch up with others playing 13 Thursday HERE.

July 9, 2009

Route 13

13blogstreet.jpg1. Said to Joe while driving on Interstate 95 from D.C. to Massachusetts, “If we’re not broke from paying tolls we can stop and buy some dinner.”

2. Not only is driving on Interstate 95 a nightmare, they make you pay for the grief they give you, to the tune of about $40 to get through New York and New Jersey.

3. I call “toll booths” “troll booths” because being made to stop for them reminds me of the Billy Goats Gruff passing the troll to cross a bridge to get to their grazing field.

4. On the road we pay the troll to let us cross his bridge … Because with every trip there is a trap … and with every road we lose the grass … “Let us pass!” we say to progress … But progress says, “No … I’ve got a hunger to grow and I’m coming to eat you up!” ~ Poem adapted from “The Billy Goats Gruff” and read at a Blacksburg town council meeting in protest of the Smart Road development sometime in the 90’s.

5. Some would say that gourmet Irish/English food is an oxymoron, but we found just that at a restaurant near D.C. where we had “bangers and mash,” sausage, garden peas, mashed potatoes, gravy , topped with whole mustard seeds and washed down with Guinness beer.bmashw.jpg

6. I also like bubble and squeak (another Irish/English dish, made with potatoes, carrots, and cabbage), and I think it’s funny that “plates of meat” means “feet” and “apples and pears” means “stairs” in Cockney Rhyming Slang.

7. After we ate our bangers and mash we toured Glen Echo Park, the amusement park museum next door. Next, we went to a meditation class in Washington. As people started coming in the meditation hall and setting up their blankets and mats in front of the speaker's altar, I felt like a picnic was about to ensue.

8. Pillows and cushions made me think no, maybe a pajama party.

9. We found out that a beach in Connecticut called “Calf Pasture Beach” is as good as any place to stop and kill 2 hours of rush hour traffic. While there, I saw a horseshoe crab and a tree full of berries that looked just like blackberries only white.

10. Funniest recent moment: Before we left for Massachusetts I picked up the Museletter (our community newsletter) mail at the post office and one subscription renewal included an spelling correction for a woman named Grace Woods. She crossed out the S in her last name on the address label and wrote next to it, “only one tree.”

11. Said to Joe at 4:00 today while enjoying lunch and a micro-brew at an outdoor café: “Beer is the new tea.”

12. At 4:20 (still sipping): “Beer is the new joint.”

13. Directions to more 13 Thursdays: take a left click HERE.

July 2, 2009

13: Gently Down the Stream of Consciousness

z13sky.gif1. My two favorite words heard recently are brouhaha and jalopy.

2. I keep getting the Jubilee and the Jamboree mixed up. We have both in Floyd now.

3. I've been calling the Station, the newly renovated old building in town with apartments upstairs, the Dakota of Floyd.
xsoxl.gif
4. While shopping this week I saw a bright gold bra with a smiley face on one of the cups.

5. My first trip to the Country Club pool resulted in some pictures of the tadpoles (a pre-beginner swim class), at least 13 of them.
xtadpolesxs.gif
6. Learn why I have a brand new pink blow up raft not yet out of the package HERE.

7. I bought four new cushion lawn chairs that unfortunately required some assembly but when we opened the box to put them together, we discovered there were no screws, bringing a whole new meaning to "we were screwed!"

8. I just got a message from the little voice within that my rice cooking on the stove is burning. Be right back.

9. The rice was stuck to the bottom of the pan but still eatable.

10. Speaking of pan, I was recently asked in a meme that I didn't finish to name a fictitious character who made a lasting impression and my answer was Peter Pan.

11. Because I grew up on a tiny peninsula in between Boston and Cape Cod, I'm fortunate that I can visit my family and have a beach vacation at the same time.

12. Whenever I say Cape Cod, I think about when I was a young girl picking wild blueberries there with my grandmother, which leads to remembering a poem I wrote about baking a birthday blueberry pie for my son Josh ... I feel my grandmother's wildness in me ... navigating rough edges of coastline ... as I steer the rolling pin like an oar ... like an antique relic from her "roaring 20s" ... it rocks back and forth ... And especially this stanza: As I search the bowl of blueberries ... for the bluest black ones ... I remember 4 and 20 ... blackbirds baked in a pie ... and my son arranging battles ... between blueberries and grapes ... The blueberries always lost because he ate them ...

13. I just this second remembered that Josh's birthday is on July 10 and I may be away for his birthday, so now I'm going downstairs to find a card to send him.

More Thirteen Thursday fun HERE.

June 25, 2009

Does it Grow Corn?

13ggroxw.jpg 1. My corn is taller than a toddler.

2. If it was a kid it would be in the second grade.

3. “Does it Grow Corn?” is a Native American expression not so unlike “Walk your Talk,” one that I first heard from Medicine Man Sun Bear when he came to Floyd in the 80’s and I wrote about his visit in the Museletter.

4. I might as well be a car mechanic. My hands stay that stained and dirty from gardening all summer long.

5. I just went to write “Sesame Seeds” on my grocery list and wrote “Sesame Street” instead.

6. I haven’t seen a tomato horn worm since I was scared by them as a girl.

7. In case you missed it, the last paragraph in THIS post describes praying mantis sex.

8. Over the weekend I spent the good part of a day in compromising positions that involved ladders and dangling between branches off the edge of the porch while trimming the humongous forsythia bush in front of our house.

9. On my way to town for Floyd’s first annual jubilee festival, I imagined that friends there would ask me how I was doing and that I would answer, “As well as can be expected for someone who just spent an entire day tackling a bush twice as high and five times wider than me.” Of course I ended up answering “pretty good” when they really asked.

10. Because my car needs a new tie rod and makes knocking sounds when I go over bumps, I took the paved road route to town for the Jubilee. While driving I passed the house we lived in before this one (eighteen years ago) and saw a young boy in the yard planting something with his mother. It made me nostalgic for my sons as little boys.

11. While I was at the Jubilee and the Spoken Word Open Mic, my husband Joe spent a very fulfilling Father’s Day weekend helping my Asheville Potter Son with building projects in preparation for the Carolina Kiln Build on his compound in Marshall County. The day after he returned he went down the mountain to baby sit Bryce, my youngest son Dylan’s baby boy. Later, he thanked me for bringing him into such a wonderful family. (My kids were five and seven when Joe and I got together.)

12. I started a list of alternative answers to the question “How are you?” but I wrote them on the back of an envelope while driving and I can’t read my own writing now.

13. What would you do if you ran into one of THESE guys in the garden?

More 13 Thursday play HERE.

June 18, 2009

The 13 Thursday Deal

13hwie.jpg1. A couple of times this month when I was reading my blog comments I thought that my friend June from Spatter had visited but it was really just the month June recorded with each comment that I was reading.

2. I confess to not understanding Deal or No Deal and not wanting to.

3. I don’t even like the sound of it, but recently before I could get to the TV to shut it off, I noticed this beautiful 13 opportunity.

4. I have two stories in this month’s Natural Awakenings of Southwest Virginia, one on Floydfest and one on a pool player. Click on Monthly Magazines and June HERE for a real page turner. Notice how the pool ball in the second story has a 13 on it.

5. The only pool I’m familiar with is the one full of water.

6. Speaking of water, there’s been talk amongst Facebook friends in this rain drenched area about building an ark, paddling to the mailbox, and growing webbed feet.

7. Line for an imaginary novel that came to me while driving: With lipstick in hand, she shifted into gear and left a cloud of dust behind her.

8. Or maybe my life is being narrated.

9. Some lines come while I’m making comments on other people’s blogs, like this one about seasonal blooms: “The flowers come and go so fast it gives me whiplash.”

10. Every time I drive past the street in Floyd called “Needmore," I want to name a street “Need Less.”

11. Need less and needless have such different meanings but both make me think of the plural of needle.

12. 13 Thursday is a deal I can’t refuse.

13. Thanks to my favorite bird, the Wood Thrush, THIS is what my yard sounds like all summer.

More playing HERE.

June 11, 2009

13 In the Bag

13bag.jpg1. I sent Mara and Kyla home with a bag full of garden lettuce when they were here playing Scrabble last week. Later, Mara texted me an email from her new phone saying, “Thanx 4 the lettuce.” I replied “are you alliterating it or just ating it?”

2. To which she texted back “lets see...lettuce leaves little to alliterate, lest you love lines like: "Look! Lettuce! Lord, how loose is this life.”

3. The “alliteration” line goes back to a poem Mara wrote and one I answered (called Poet’s Hotline), which starts … Her words land in poems … like eggs in a skillet … She makes them sizzle … She burns the butter … And ends with She’s alliterating lettuce … for a garden villanelle.

4. The highlight or my week happened when a young girl at the video store told me she liked my hair. Not only did the much appreciated compliment come at a time when I wasn’t liking my hair and needed to hear something nice, I was impressed that a young girl would even notice me.

5. The play HAIR is back. My sister Sherry and I saw the original in Boston back when many who were in it and practically everyone watching really was a hippie. Now they have actors to play them.

6. We grew up knowing that dirty things came in brown paper bags, but so did our school lunches.

7. In the 60’s when we weren’t “into” something, we really did say, “It’s not my bag,” which wasn’t any stranger than saying “It’s not up my alley.”

8. Do you remember the Unknown Comic and did you ever wonder who was under the paper bag he wore on his head? The answer is HERE.

9. BYOB used to mean "Bring Your Own Booze" but now, in light of the fact that we are drowning in non-biodegradable plastic bags and trees are cut down to make paper ones, it should mean "Bring Your Own Bag."

10. So many ways to say bag. There’s bag it… bag of wind…grab bag … doggie bag … bag lady … old bag …bag of bones …bag of tricks …. a mixed bag …left holding the bag … cat out of the bag …and half in the bag.

11. Ever since I learned that there’s a raft of plastic debris the size of Texas that has collected and is floating somewhere out in the Pacific, I started carrying my own reusable shopping bag in my pocketbook. (More HERE.)

12. Wearing plastic: Do you know how to tell if a garment of clothing is cotton or polyester? Clip off a piece from the underside and burn it with a match. If it’s cotton or some other natural fiber, it will burn to ash and disappear. If it’s polyester or some other unnatural material it burns into a hard plastic ball.

13. Most famous plastic bag HERE.

More 13 Thursday Players are HERE.

June 4, 2009

13 Thursday Symphony of Tricks

wiluy.gif1. Yesterday's writer's cramp is today's carpal tunnel.

2. Sometimes I like to run my hand across the keyboard like Liberace playing piano.

3. Besides covering two stories, participating in a live radio interview about Bill McKibben's visit to Floyd, and putting together the Museletter (a Floyd community newsletter) this past weekend, I managed to take in The Roanoke Symphony playing Motown while members of Cirque du Soleil performed!

4. My favorite part of the show was watching Conductor David Wiley. Unfortunately, I didn't get a clip of the expressive conductor jumping and dancing in his bell bottom suit. THIS video clip, taken early on in the show, is of cirque performing to Led Zeppelin while an acrobat violinist joins the symphony from a trapeze.

5. I also saw the new YAC play MEN2B which concludes with a boy band dressed like the cartoon Beatles in Yellow Submarine singing ... we all live in a yellow submarine ... HERE.

6. My sister Sherry used to think Yellow Submarine was "Jealous of Marine."

7. She also thought "wind chill factor" was the "windshield factor."

8. Better than a magic trick HERE.

9. But the best trick is when I mow our whole acre and ½ yard without the riding lawnmower breaking down once.

10. Because I started to have early signs of carpal tunnel, I've been alternating using my pc with my laptop, which means I'm using a jump drive to transfer work from one computer to the other, resulting in so many versions of changed and unchanged writing that I've frequently found myself utterly confused, which made me think of this quote by Lee Segall: A man with a watch always knows what time it is. A man with two watches is never sure.

11. Yesterday I got some body work done at the Chinese Medicine clinic. "I'm in good hands ... literally!" I told the practitioner who was massaging me.

12. The sun is rich like sugar. When I've get too much I feel full and have to go lie down.

13. If the sun is like sugar, the moon is salt. I like that too.

More playing 13 Thursday are HERE.

May 28, 2009

The 13 Thursday Flight Plan

blmpzc.jpg1. A mother phoebe with a nest in the porch rafters has been using our picnic table for her runway while making feeding trips to her babies, as evidenced by the bird droppings I have to clean up everyday.

2. The above gives new meaning to the term “poop deck.”

3. “Pooh” is actually a name listed in some baby books. The meaning of the American originated name is listed on one baby name site as: Little One. A popular name for pets or stuffed animals or a pet name for humans. The popular storybook character "Winnie the Pooh" was named after an actual bear in the Winnipeg zoo named "Winnipeg Pooh"

4. In naval architecture, a poop deck is a deck that constitutes the roof of a cabin built in the aft (rear) part of the superstructure of a ship. The name originates from the French word for stern, la poupe, from Latin puppis. Thus the poop deck is technically called a stern deck, which in sailing ships was usually elevated as the roof of the stern or "after" cabin, also known as the "poop cabin.” ~Wikipedia

5. My husband used the term “Mucky Muck” recently. I had no idea it was a real term, where it came from, or what it meant. It reminds me of the first time I heard SOL (shit out of luck) and the person who used it was thought it was incredulous that I didn’t know what it meant.

6. For many years whenever any asked me ‘if you had to be an animal which would you be?’ I always answered a duck because they can fly and swim.

7. Have you heard of or seen THIS amazingly bright pink dolphin?

8. Was the word “chirp” invented just for birds?

9. How did Led Zeppelin get its name? According to the Wikianswers, when Jimmy Page was assembling the group, Keith Moon (drummer from The Who) got word of his plans and predicted the group would go down "like a lead balloon" (this is a common English expression). Bassist and keyboardist John Entwistle thought it would be "more like a lead zeppelin." Page took the phrase and decided to change the phrase because he said "those damned Americans will pronounce it lead (leed) zeppelin."

10. And the Beatles? The old “party line” that John Lennon used to give was: “A man came down on a flaming pie and said ‘let there be Beatles with an A’” A more orthodox explanation is it was inspired by Buddy Holly's backing band "the Crickets" and the misspelling was a play on words to describe a “beat” band.

11. I used to like to black out teeth and draw hair-dos and mustaches on faces in magazines, but I never drew anything like THESE, found at Pearl’s place.

12. When the rush of writing stops and the stories slow down I feel like a race horse in the stall expecting to find myself at the starting line with the start-up gun go off at any moment.

13. The birds are back … checking out the real estate … a high-rise nest … on my porch rafter … A one room shelter … inaccessible to cats … with southern exposure … and a landing deck … Find out how this poem ends HERE.

More Thirteen Thursdays are HERE.

May 21, 2009

13 Thursday: No Comment

13nocm.jpg1. I check for blossoms on my flowers with the same vigilance that I check for blog comments.

2. My Thirteen Thursday last week was almost canceled due to lack of comments on Wednesday. It was the first time in the four years I’ve been blogging that an entry received no comments, so I considered leaving it up until it got one.

3. Getting no comments reminds me of going to a craft show to sell my jewelry (which I used to do) and making no sales.

4. Watching for comments is like watching the clock. It never moves when you’re looking it.

5. If a blogger quits blogging for lack of comments, do the lurkers feel bad?

6. After a whole day without a comment I had to send myself one for a test.

7. Sometimes while clicking my mouse I think about Dorothy clicking her red shoes to link back to Kansas.

6. Speaking of red, Byrce has “no comment” about THIS birthday present.

9. One of my birthday presents was a mouse (cordless) in a cat gift bag.

10. The post with no comments that I mentioned above actually got 2 before the week was done. See HERE

11. I wrote the following poem, titled “No Comment.” off the top of my head after someone gave me the prompt “button.”

I should know by now
how to button my lip
just go zip…
and close it.

12. It’s a good poem to end a poetry reading with, or a 13 Thursday list, but today I have something Beatlesque in mind.

13. And in the end the comments you take are equal to the comments you make

Seems like a lot to say for a blog post titled “No Comment.” Go HERE for more 13 Thursdays comments.

May 14, 2009

The Whole Thirteen Thursday Shebang

13sheb.jpg 1. Does Shebang mean the same thing as a kit and caboodle?

2. I recently became interested in the word “Shebang” and looked up its origins and found this: Known to go back at least to year 1862 (Walt Whitman), shebang is suspected to originate from the French word char-a-banc, which was a bus-like wagon with a lot of seats. Later, Mark Twain used it to describe a vehicle, as well as "any matter of present concern".

3. Which leads me to wonder who came up with the name Chitty Chitty Bang Bang and to saying things like “caboodles of noodles.”

4. I recently did an interview with a pizza pie maker while he was flipping dough. Now I can add him to this nursery rhyme I began last Thursday that now goes like this: “A year or so ago I would never have guessed that I’d be interviewing and writing about an opera singer, a cheesemaker, a toymaker, a pool player, a play director, a singer, a landscaper, a quilter, a publisher, an actor, a knitter, a market grower, a dairy farmer, and a baker!

5. The computer screen is a canvas to a writer like pizza dough is for a baker.

6. With all this clicking and typing I do, I can totally relate to a baseball player being taken out of the game so that he can rest his arm.

7. My latest online pet peeve is when I get sent somewhere I don’t want to go simply because my cursor rested on link or lightly brushed over one.

8. I just realized that Shebang would be a great name for a pizza with everything on it!

9. According to one artist’s interpretation, THIS is what a shebang looks like (found via google image).

10. And THIS is what I think a shebang should sound like.

11. If you’ve ever been to Niagara Falls you’ll understand our family joke when we say that our neighbor’s yard (he keeps it like a park) is like the Canadian side of Niagara Falls and ours is like the New York side.

12. “#!” Is another way to say Shebang. I kid you not. Look HERE.

13. When it comes to grandchildren, Bryce is the whole shebang! He’s one year old today.

More Thirteen Thursdays are HERE.

May 7, 2009

Thirteen Thursday Was Here

13ce.jpg1. A year or so ago I would never have guessed that I’d be interviewing and writing about an opera singer, a cheesemaker, a toymaker, and a pool player. It sounds like a jump rope song.

2. One thing I’ve learned about going on interviews for stories is that wearing my reading glasses in a holder around my neck while my camera is hanging there too is only asking for trouble.

3. My husband Joe has thick curly hair. When my kids were little and he needed a haircut, they would tease him by calling him “Ofra” Winfrey.

4. Now when he needs a haircut we just call him Rob Blagojevich.

5. I woke up yesterday morning and discovered three pens and three stalks of asparagus in my bathrobe pocket, which tells you a lot about who I am and what I do.

6. I recently learned that for several hundred years pool balls were made of ivory. The billiard industry realized that their supply of ivory was not sustainable because elephants that were being slaughtered just for their tusks were becoming endangered, so they challenged inventors with the incentive of a $10,000 prize to come up with an alternative material. The result was the invention of plastic.

7. Funny how we call a prolific weed invasive but if its a flower we call it naturalized.

8. My comment to Angoralady after reading a post about her garden: My next post will definitely be about my garden. I’ve got the bug, but I hope not the kind that eats veggies.

9. Then I read a post at Beautiful Layers about the author’s shop idea for her vintage and handmade clothes and said: You are definitely on the cutting edge (sewing pun intended).

10. I was listening to an NPR review of Bob Dylan’s latest album and was intrigued by one song titled "Hell's my wife's hometown.” It made me realize that my husband could say “Hull’s my wife’s hometown."

11. Always a lover of the short rhyme, my favorite jump rope song as a kid was: Mickey Mouse bought a house. He didn’t pay the rent so he got kicked out.

12. I have a hula hoop, a couple of kaleidoscopes, and a pair of pink kazoo lips. Now I’m starting to want a jump rope and some chalk.

13. And THIS makes me want to be a daycare teacher again.

Play more HERE.

April 30, 2009

A 13 Blow by Blow

jimihendrix.jpg1. Last month I reported being on the gum diet, how I picked up an old habit of chewing and snapping and getting a general jaw workout whenever I felt snacking.

2. But my bubble has burst: Not only have I not lost any weight, I just remembered why I quit chewing gum in the first place. It’s called aspartame.

3. Aspartame, the low-calorie chemical used to sweeten diet sodas and gum, has been linked to brain tumors and lymphoma in rodents. The Food and Drug Administration has certified the sweetener's safety, but reported side effects include dizziness, headaches, diarrhea, memory loss and mood changes and more.

4. Did you know that studies show that drinking diet sodas actually causes weight gain?

5. These days bad is good, hot means cool, and people spend a lot of time and expense on hairdos that look like they just woke up.

6. Why am I not surprised that aspartame was first introduced by Monsanto, the company that has been threatening our human right to grow food with their genetically modified seeds that can’t be saved and replanted. Read more about their evil plan to control the world’s food supply HERE.

7. I saw my first Indigo Bunting of the season and my dear friend Alwyn recently had a commentary published in the Roanoke Times titled Living in a World Without Songbirds: We live in a critical and defining moment in human and Earth history, but one that I believe offers us an opportunity to rethink our way of living and our relationship to nature. Simply patching up our sick economy with its focus on growth and consumerism is no solution because it ignores the fact that we cannot have prosperity on a planet whose resources are being drained by unlimited exploitation of its essential resources.

8. My 11 month old grandson is funny. He likes to try on hats and shoes and sometimes he puts hats on his feet and shoes on his head.

9. Attention seeking Grandmother gets too much botox HERE.

10. Kazoo lips aren’t the only trick I have up my sleeve or on my head for getting my grandson’s attention. Look if you dare HERE.

11. I once played the Jew’s harp (no relation to Judaism) back-up at a recording session for my friend Starroot. I think it was before CD’s.

12. Imagine making a living as a kazooist? Kazooist Barbara Stewart is a classically trained singer who has written a book on the kazoo, formed the "quartet" Kazoophony, performed at Carnegie Hall and appeared on Late Night with Conan O'Brien.

13. Soundtrack for this post is Jimi Hendrix’s Crosstown Traffic, chosen for his use of the kazoo. Listen HERE.

More playing 13 Thursday HERE.

April 23, 2009

Thirteen Thursday Free Rent

lndlrd.jpg1. After 183 Thirteen Thursday’s I find myself wondering if there will ever come a Thursday when I have nothing left to say.

2. I also worry about the size of my blog. After four years of archives, I wonder how big can a blog get?

3. When I first started blogging I wrote this: Sometimes I wish the word “blog” didn’t sound so much like “blob” and remind me of the 1958 movie (The Blob) staring Steve McQueen where something falls from outer space and gets stuck on his arm and then grows and grows until it covers his body. It’s good for blogs to grow – more readers and posts everyday – right? It’s not going to take over my life – right?

4. Someone read in one of my recent 13 Thursday’s that my Obama bumper sticker was falling off my car and sent me a new one in the mail.

5. On Monday Joe and I woke up and discovered we had the same dream. We both dreamed of a dead body that we had forgotten about and when we remembered, even though we were innocent of wrong doing, we wondered how to explain it or dispose of it.

6. Early on in our relationship Joe and I frequently had the same dream. Once when I asked him a question in my sleep and he answered me out loud in real life (making perfect sense), it startled me awake.

7. Although I remember the first Earth Day in 1970, I had forgotten the circumstances of its origins, so I did a little research and found this on Wikipedia: Earth Day was conceived by Wisconsin Senator Gaylord Nelson (June 4, 1916 – July 3, 2005) after a trip he took to Santa Barbara right after that horrific oil spill off our coast in 1969. He was so outraged by what he saw that he went back to Washington and passed a bill designating April 22 as a national day to celebrate the earth. Many important laws were passed by the Congress in the wake of the 1970 Earth Day, including the Clean Air Act, wild lands and the ocean, and the creation of the United States Environmental Protection Agency.

8. We can also thank him for this: In 1970 Senator Nelson called for Congressional hearings on the safety of combined oral contraceptive pills, which were famously called "The Nelson Pill Hearings." As a result of the hearings, side-effect disclosure was required for the pill in patient inserts – the first such disclosure for a pharmaceutical drug.

9. Sean Penn in Rolling Stone on Bush leaving the White House and why his administration to be held accountable: I truly think the man should be imprisoned for the rest of his life. I know that sounds like some lefty thing, but I think the state of accountability is a sham. When Gerald Ford pardoned Nixon, a lot of people were upset about it, but when Ford died, these Democrats who’d once criticized Ford for that pardon suddenly had these revisionist opinions: “We need to be unified.” But long term, do you think Bush and Cheney would have gone to the trough like they did if Nixon had gone to jail? No.

10. Favorite Bumper sticker, as coined by Alice Walker: When the axe came into the forest, the tree said, 'The handle is one of us.'"

11. I still remember how shocked I was when as a little girl I first learned that we had to pay for our land, our home, and even water. My next fall from grace and innocence happened in 1957 at the Hingham Loring Theater watching Bambi’s mother be shot.

12. My childhood home was taken by our town through eminent domain and burned to the ground. Like our green house at 10 ½ Spring Street, the sewage plant building that now stands in its place faces the Hull Village Cemetery, the place we played and sledded as kids before it was so filled up with gravestones, the place where two of my brothers and my father are now buried. More HERE.

13. About the same time that the first Earth Day was happening I was radicalized by Abbie Hoffman’s “Steal This Book.” Of course, I paid for it.

More Thirteen Thursdays are HERE.

April 16, 2009

13: Flower Power

13flwr.jpg1. Earth Day in Floyd has a blog. Read all about it HERE.

2. Another new blog in my blogsphere: My Asheville potter son Josh is following in his mother’s footsteps as a documenter. He just started his own (collectively written) blog for the Carolina Kiln Build, an immersion onsite workshop for building two new kilns on his Marshall County property … coming soon. Check it out HERE.

3. Lately I feel like I’m two timing my blog whenever I spend a lot of time on Facebook.

4. I recently got involved for days posting a Facebook “Through the Years” retrospect photo album of my life from babyhood till now. If you liked the Easter bonnets HERE, you like some of THESE old photos.

5. Last month I saw a fascinating show on evolution vs. creationism on PBS. I was surprised to see how proven the theory of evolution actually is and was so in awe at the miraculous process of it that I asked myself ‘why can’ that be God or at least part of God's miraculous creation?’

6. A neuroscientist responds to the millions who would say that there shouldn't be a connection between God and science, a clip from the Tavis Smiley show that Joe and I watched this week HERE.

7. Other online germinations coming to bloom: An excerpted version of the Museletter – the 25 year old Floyd alter-native community forum built on back-to-the-land flower power – is now online HERE.

8. The computer screen is a writer’s empty canvas. Printers ink is the paint.

9. Draw your own powerful colorful flower HERE.

10. A quote we used in the Museletter this month: Every spring is the only spring - a perpetual astonishment. ~Ellis Peters.

11. “I wake up with blog entries like others wake up with dreams,” a recent one liner from a past TT that was posted on Blogations HERE.

12. Joe and I have been waiting for a very late check to be delivered, which brings a whole new meaning when it’s time for our daily walk and I say to him “let’s go CHECK the mail.”

13. I like to post a blog entry late at night and wake up to comments.

More Thirteen Thursday blooms are HERE.

April 9, 2009

13: Word to the Wise

132x.jpg1. I have never typed LOL (except for just now), but did type LMAO once. It was when I wrote that talk show host Bonnie Hunt had a 13 on her coffee cup and my sister Sherry told me in a comment that it was really a B for her name.

2. Poets are the nutty professors of words.

3. While in Blacksburg today I looked for my favorite word carved in the sidewalk on the corner of Draper and Jackson but found that it was worn to the point of being unrecognizable. What was my favorite word in cement? WORD.

5. Last weekend I provided care for a man with disabilities. I told him that after supper we would sit down and “catch up” but he heard Ketchup and got confused.

6. An alternative word for spring is boing.

7. I was recently scared by a dust ball the size of a gerbil under my phone table. Well, maybe the size of a mouse.

8. We just got a blast from the past, which means that winter blew and threw its weight around.

9. Speaking of blasts from the past, I find myself tuning in to those Time Life paid music advertisements as if they were favorite TV shows, especially the ones from the 60’s.

10. My Obama bumper sticker may be hanging off my bumper but I’m still attached to it. That’s what I told my husband when he asked me if he could just pull it off and I said ‘no.’

11. Not only has Obama begun to repair relationships with Muslims and rebuild ties with Turkey, he’s now the first U.S. president to hold Seder in the White House for Passover.

11. Some beautiful old country names for my collection, found in the local newspaper obituaries: Men: Vencil, Cephas, Sumpter, Gratton, Esker, Saford, Leston, Waller, Harless and Coy. Women: Arnedia, Nannie Belle, Hava, Hettie, Treva, Reneda, Lita, Daphina, and Essie.

12. And these words have not been taken: asofati, tenfig, cootat, veright, whan, dimpers (taken from blogger word verifications. I just know they have the potential to be real words).

13. In three words? To Obama? HERE.

More Thirteen Thursday words HERE.

April 2, 2009

13 on a Wet Trampoline

bbulg.jpg1. I just got asked to a do a writing assignment via a Facebook Instant message.

2. So of course I asked the subject of the proposed interview in a Facebook Instant message if he want to meet me.

3. I named this week’s Thirteen Thursday for THIS video clip.

4. I recently read a list of “Top (111) reasons why I became a poet” by J. E. Peele on Pearl’s blog. My favorite reason to be a poet was: “I’ve arranged to have “orange” rhyme with hinge, flange, and strange.

5. I became a poet for the poetic license. It was either that or be a clown.

6. I like to sing the chorus to THIS song when I’m jumping on my trampoline.

7. I think I like that song because when I’m jumping I feel like a Mexican Jumping Bean.

8. I recently found myself telling someone that the Floyd Empty Bowls fundraiser was smashing success. No bad pun intended.

9. I was interviewing the manager of the Black Water Loft a couple of weeks ago, scribbling scrawling notes in my composition notebook, when she asked, “How many notebooks a year do you go through?”

10. She looked concerned about my messy note taking and said, “But you understand it all, right?” “In a week I won’t be able to read a word of it,” I answered. Truth is, sometimes I pull over on my drive home from an interview to review and rewrite some of my notes, because I can’t read my own writing and if I wait even a day to translate, I won’t remember what I wrote.

11. I just burned a pan on the stove and I hate the way the house smells almost as bad as I hate Deal or No Deal.

12. My son Josh has a nickname for the alcoholic panhandler he knows in Asheville. He calls him a “Mashie,” as in: “Mashie a question … can you spare a dollar.”

13. My brother John (who grew up in the era of “men don’t cry”) calls goose bumps “man tears.”

JUMP (as in Eddie Van Halen) on over to the Thirteen Thursday headquarters for more TT’s HERE.

March 26, 2009

At Least 13 Peepers

jcrp.jpg 1. This is my 180th Thirteen Thursday, so last week when I posted my 179th on Wednesday thinking it was Thursday, I blamed it on old age.

2. I also had jet lag. But I had no such excuse when I posted THIS 13 Thursday on Friday because on Thursday I forgot what day it was.

3. I wake up with blog entries like others wake up with dreams.

4. One day is along time in blog terms. Sometimes I get to thinking I’ll leave a post up for two days but then by the end of the day the post seems so old and I start thinking about something new.

5. On the first day of Spring I sent out a Jim and Dan Stories book order (the book I wrote about losing two brothers a month apart) to a woman whose last name was Sp(e)ring. You know who you are.

6. The house I grew up in was on Spring St. The number was 10 ½.

7. Peepers are the first sign of spring in my current neighborhood. THIS is what they sound like.

8. A spring peeper is a small chorus frog that lives in wetlands, marshes, and pond or swamp regions. Only males have the ability to make the loud high-pitched noise, and they use it to attract mates. On Martha's Vineyard, peepers are commonly called "pinkletinks"; in New Brunswick, Canada, they are called "tinkletoes." In parts of the American south they are (perhaps erroneously) referred to as "spring creepers." ~ Wikipedia

9. Listening to Barack Obama answer questions at Tuesday’s Press conference was music to my ears. It reminded me of the first time I heard Led Zeppelin (in 1969 at a little place called The Boston Tea Party) and how they would go off on multi-layered musical riffs that would utterly absorb me, and then bring it all back to the beginning, coming full circle in a way that surprised me, felt complete, and made sense.

10. Checking my Facebook account: Sometimes it feels too much like living on a street full of houses and looking out the window every time someone pulls up or drives away.

11. Today’s Soundtrack is HERE. I never realized how horns could sound so much like peepers.

12. After stumbling on a series of gorgeous spring flower photos on a blog entry titled “Take a Deep Breath Pollen Sufferers,” I left my comment: “Ah … (without the choo).”

13. What’s the first sign of spring where you live?

More Thirteen Thursday peepers are peeping HERE. My other TT's are HERE.

March 18, 2009

13: Turning the Page

13pge.jpg 1. In addition to Floyd’s new literary and art magazine. Floyd County Moonshine, we also now have the Republic of Floyd (featuring the Floyd Enquirer), which spoofsayer Tom Ryan has coined as a “literary enema.” Tom writes about the lighter side of Floyd with a bite. See HERE.

2. Talk Show Host Bonnie Hunt has a white mug with prominent black 13 printed on it. I wanted to get a picture of it off the TV. I was waiting for her to move it, because the number was off center, when my nephew Patrick pointed out the 13 on a book in my mother’s bookcase (pictured above), so I snapped that instead. My mother looked at me strange when I told her I collected 13’s but Patrick thought it was as normal as apple pie.

3. What do you do when you’re on a plane and the person sitting next to you spills his arms and elbows over into your seat and doesn’t seem to notice?

4. Why do we say ‘can I borrow a Kleenex or a cigarette?’ as if we will give it back?

5. Speaking of Kleenex: The doctor, who was wearing a white lab coat, spoke in an English accent, which gave his announcement a sense of formality and made the distance between his reality and mine seem more dramatic. A woman was with him, also in a white lab coat, holding a box of tissue. We were in the Intensive Care Unit, next to Dan’s room, and nurses in green scrub suits were walking by us. I was trying to figure out where I could go to get away from what he was telling me. I wondered why he hadn’t taken me to a private room to tell me such devastating news. Dan only had a 2% chance of living; they weren’t going to perform liver transplant surgery with those odds, he said. The words 2% were the equivalent of a death sentence, but he spoke them as though he were giving me the fat content of a carton of milk. ~ Read “A Box of Kleenex” in its entirety HERE.

6. There’s a backroom activity going on with this blog that most readers aren’t likely to be aware of. Several of my past posts on losing a loved one (written in 2005) continue to get comments from people who land on my site from related searches, continuing the ongoing conversation about grief and loss, which began when I first started blogging, after writing The Jim and Dan Stories, a book about losing my two brothers a month apart. See HERE and HERE.

7. There are 31 billion google searches every month. In 2006 it was 2.7 billion. A week’s worth of New York Times contains more information than a person was likely to come across in a lifetime in the 18th century. More "Did you Know?" HERE.

8. There were two oddball things I googled for my mother when I was recently visiting her in Hull, Massachusetts. One was “blade steak” (a cut of beef I got from her freezer and cooked for us and one which she said she grew up with), and the other was “giraffe.” She was telling me that a mother giraffe drops its baby while standing up (probably during the time she was complaining that the pain of shingles is worse than childbirth). We wanted to know if a giraffe lies down when it sleeps. It does.

9. Snacking at Gate B22 in Tennessee while waiting to board a plane to Greensboro, North Carolina, my bag of rye crisp crackers dumped over and crumbs spilled out in a big pile on the floor, making me wish that the travelers whizzing past me were rolling vacuum cleaners, but of course they were suitcases on wheels.

10. Written in the margins of a book above Greensboro: Surfing a wide open field of snow in an arctic sky of cumulus clouds, I need sunglasses. First blinded, then blind, I watch from the window as the plane’s sliver tip dives through the ghostly white in a wipe out. Immersed in an avalanche of breakers, there are no landmarks to show the way or any guarantee that we will come up for air, that we will ever see land again.

11. LOOK what I just found! Bonnie’s 13 mug turned the right way.

12. Tidbit borrowed from Kenju: My name was Susan Frame. I am a lawyer. I met and married Robert who is a banker. His surname is Mee. Now we are Sue Mee, a lawyer, and Rob Mee, a banker - ironic? I have taken no end of stick for this, believe me. More stranger than fiction names HERE.

13. While I was away Joe babysat for Bryce twice and sent me a few videos to hold me over. THIS is my favorite. Check out the tongue.

Safe travels to more 13 Thursdays HERE. My Thirteen Thursday archive is HERE. #178

March 12, 2009

13 Snowball Moon

sndb133l.jpg 1. Snow looks out of place on a sandy beach and some sand on beaches looks like snow.

2. Sometimes while driving downhill on the winding Blue Ridge Parkway, my car feels like a pin ball falling down the bottom of the game. Then, as if being flicked by a flipper, I’m back climbing up a hill.

3. I grew up playing pinball machines and still remember when the machine would TILT, sort of like a computer freezing up today. I also remember Pong and Pacman, two of the first video games.

4. Winter on Nantasket Beach: The ice cream truck is a snow plow.

5. The best place to pick up the internet in my mother’s house (where I’m helping out while she recovers from shingles) is in the middle of the bed in my father’s room. He passed away in 2005.

6. I had a dream that my brother Danny (who died in 2001) was dying again and we went to be by his side.hssu1n.jpg He died in the afternoon but continued to move around and seem alive. We were told that it was just a reflex reaction, and even though he was supposedly dead we didn’t want to leave him while he was still acting alive. In real life we left my brother’s body too soon after he passed. He was technically dead buy I knew more was still going on.

7. I’m easily disorientated when out of my own surroundings. Packed in plastic bags for easy travel, my tryptophan capsules that I take when I can’t sleep look just like my multi-vitamins. All I have to do is take one tryptophan instead of a vitamin at breakfast and I’m napping by10 a.m.

8. The only thing I can figure as to why walking the beach in winter isn’t as much of a high as when I do it in summer is that in winter I have shoes on.

9. Stuff we’ve tried to ease the pain of my mother’s shingles: DMSO, apple cider vinegar, jewelweed lotion, and Benadryl lotion. Everything helps but nothing cures as well as time.

10. Curious about the two kinds of shingles, the disease and the roofing material, I did a little research and learned that the first shingles—the inflammatory skin disease caused by latent Chicken Pox virus – comes from words that mean girdle (cengles, single, chingle, cingulus) because of the rash that tends to extend around the middle of the body. Roofing shingles comes from scincle (1200), a small piece of wood, or shindalmos, a splinter.

11. A Simpson snowball fight game is HERE. My best score was 25.

12. My directorial debut: I wish snow shoveling was THIS easy.

13. On Monday the almost full March moon in Massachusetts looked like an oversized snow ball in a wintery mix but the next day when it warmed up and the snow melted the moon did not.

If you play 13 Thursday, honk HERE.

March 5, 2009

13 The Meltdown

13mel.jpg1. Last week my cursor starting typing everything backwards – from right to left. It felt like driving a car around that would only go in reverse.

2. Looking out the window after just waking up, I thought it had snowed before realizing that white tail deer fur was scattered all over the yard compliments of our dog Jasmine.

3. And then it really did snow, so much so that my flight to Boston was canceled.

4. This was a comment I left at Netchick’s Meet and Greet when my cursor was cursed: !! sdrawkcab gnihtyrve gnipyt si rosruc yM

5. Take the S out of CURSE and you have a CURE.

6. You can build a Ben and Jerry’s snowman HERE

7. But THIS one is better with 25 hats and more to play dress up with.

8. Speaking of ice cream: Occasionally there are perks that come with doing interviews for stories. In the past couple of years some of mine have included a CD, a facial, a concert ticket, and a cotton grocery bag. Lately it’s been dairy products. I was gifted some cheese while working on a story about a local cheese maker. That was followed by a story on a creamery in which Butter Crunch ice cream was involved.

9. The cheese maker story that I wrote for Natural Awakenings of Southwest can be read at their online site (click on magazines and March) complete with sound effects as you turn the page HERE.

10. When I was a kid I distinctly remember worrying about Peter Rabbit getting caught in Mr. McGregor's garden and about Frosty the Snowman melting. I was glad when SHE melted though.

11. As a child I was very taken by the Hans Christian Anderson story The Snow Queen. The combination of it being a deeply layered fairytale with the fact that it was the only story I remember my father reading aloud to me made it a formative experience, which is probably why it showed up later in poetry.

12. A broken piece of glass embedded in our sight … holds us hostage to bitterness … Shame cuts // as does a sharpened wit or pen … slash by slash the Druid’s Ogham … worn by time tells the story … He was saved from the Snow Queen … because somebody loved him … and because he finally was able to cry … out the glass // which was really a mirror … But his red shoes remain lost … down the river … I didn’t know then that my ancestor’s had no shoes … I didn’t learn that in school ~ From The School of Higher Learning, a 1999 poem about my Irish ancestry.

13. Unlike me THIS Loose Leaf Notes blogger is not very talkative.

Go HERE before they melt.

February 26, 2009

13: Buy One Get One Free

cocol.jpg1. Today while grocery shopping I learned for the first time what a BOGO Sale was.

2. I never say yes when a grocery bagger asks me if I want to keep my gum or chocolate out of the bag and tries to hand it to me. I’m not that desperate.

3. I also cringe when the deli clerk walks over to the counter from the meat cutter and holds up a piece of my turkey or ham, asking me if I approve of the cut. I can’t seem to ignore the fact that it is flesh being flapped around, and I wonder what the clerk didn’t understand about “sliced thin.”

4. It was out of character for me on Friday to go online and sign up for Oprah’s free Academy Award ticket for Sunday and chance to be on her show, but I’ve loved the watching the Oscars since I was a teenager and going is on my bucket list.

5. Even though I knew my odds for winning were one in a million, for the rest of the weekend I got a twinge of anxiety every time I thought of winning and having to pack a bag of the magnitude in a couple of hours.

6. Not only have I not had a gown since high school prom, I don’t own a pair of high heels.

7. I wondered what I would do with my hair if Oprah called, and then I remembered Mickey Rourke’s greasy hair at the Golden Globes and thought if he could go on TV like that then maybe my hair would pass.

8. My favorite Oscar acceptance speech was Sean’s Penn’s, but I also loved the way Kate Winslett asked her dad to whistle from the audience so she’d know where he was, and he did. It made me miss my dad.

9. Check out THIS mad lib Academy Award acceptance speech generator. Mine went something like this: Thank you! Oh! Thank you! I can hardly conjugate verbs! I feel so surgically enhanced! And this statue - it's so suspiciously phallic! Oh, thank you again! I just want everyone to secretly suspect that even in my wildest hallucinations, I never would have frantically prayed that this could ever liberate me from dinner theatre. I went on to thank my guru and The People Under the Stairs.

10. HERE’S the Roanoke Times write-up (in which I was briefly interviewed) of the Jacksonville Center’s Floyd Figures Artists’ Show, the group that has been drawing so many of us in the Floyd community for the past 25 years. The show inspired THIS poem.

11. I’ll never win an Academy Award, but I have won a "Be Kind to Animals" pin for a drawing I did in Elementary school art class, a quilted baby seat cover, a Crooked Road T-shirt, $100 for a poetry slam, and $50 at a Scrabble Tournament.

12. I was impressed with President Obama’s televised speech on Tuesday night but thought that Louisiana Governor Bobby Jindal, who gave the Republican response, sounded like he was reading a children’s book.

13. The weekend of the Academy Awards I actually did get a call that prompted me to pack a bag for a different kind of trip entirely. More on that soon …

Get your free 13 Thursdays HERE. Click and scroll HERE for more.

February 19, 2009

13 Love Notes

redapplexxs.jpg1. HERE’S my new paper shredder. I bet you can’t look at it and not laugh.

2. I left my wrist band from The Kind at the Pine Tavern last weekend on my wrist all weekend because it was pink, an appropriate accessory for Valentine’s Day and a reminder of going out dancing with my sweetheart, my husband Joe.

3. The next day Joe and I saw our mutual sweetheart, nine month old grandson Bryce. See how much fun that was HERE.

4. On Valentine’s Day morning I was putting two bright red apples in the fruit bowl and wondered why we don’t give our sweethearts a dozen red delicious apples instead of roses for Valentines Day.

5. Turn the name of your blog into a ee cummings poem HERE.

6. I call the photo above “The Royal Flush” or “Playing your cards right.”

7. Need a good pick-up line? Try THIS.

8. Were I live we still see unregistered pickup trucks with the words FARM USE painted where the license number usually is.

9. If you’re new here you might not know that apples play a romantic role in Joe’s and my relationship. When we met Joe said he liked my spirit right away. I was excited about my trunk full of just picked wild apples. Later, at our wedding he presented me with an apple instead of a ring (I got the ring later) and said it symbolized the fruit of the love that we tended.

10. I’m glad I still live where smoke comes out of chimneys. It looks so cozy and burning wood that Joe cuts makes us feel self-sufficient. I feel bad for new homes built without chimneys because I think we may be burning wood for heat again someday.

11. Ain’t that America? I only get 4 TV channels, so I’m only just now watching the Obama inaugural concert, youtube video by youtube video. I had heard the buzz about Bruce Springsteen and U2 but didn’t know that John Mellencamp played. John has the same birthday as my brother Dan (who loved his music) and he reminds me of Dan. I’ve like John since his "Hurt so Good" days and was happy to see he was invited to play.

12. What is the letter version of a mathematical equation? I think it could go something like this: LOVERS = Resolve + Solve + Love + Revolves + Evolves.

13. I think BUSY should be spelled BIZZY because when I get too BIZZY it makes me DIZZY.

Throw 13 kisses HERE.

February 12, 2009

13: I Can’t Believe I Wrote the Whole Thing

wrote13.jpg1. I woke up early for the drive to Roanoke to baby-sit Bryce. Standing at the sink, filling the tea kettle with water, I thought my neighbor’s barn was on fire. I’m not used to seeing the sunrise.

2. Later in the week Joe went down to baby-sit. While he was there Bryce got a hold of Joe’s cell phone, pressed the right buttons and called me up! Twice!

3. I hate starting a new notebook. It’s like moving into a new house with everything I need packed away in boxes.

4. Ben and Jerry launched a new ice cream flavor for Obama’a inauguration called YES PECAN!

5. It’s been said (but I can’t verify the truth of it) that the also asked the public for ideas for flavors for the Bush Presidency. Some of my favorites are Nut’n Accomplished, Impeach Cobbler, Abu Grape, The Housing Crunch, Chunky Monkey in Chief, WMDelicious, Bloody Sundae, and Chocolate Chip On My Shoulder.

6. Yesterday I interviewed a dairy creamery owner that home delivers milk butter and ice cream. Some of their more intriguing ice cream flavors were Birthday Cake, Espresso, and Moo Tracks. I guess I was influenced by Obama’s ice cream. I got the Butter Pecan.

7. Have you heard about the new Pomegranate cell phone that can make a cup of coffee? Shop HERE.

8. I wonder if anyone has ever named a baby from a blogger word verification name. Some ideas seen recently are: Rombonan, Havari, Flundie, Korrae, Tostra, Sessula, Meralan, or Glasmabi.

9. The Pomegranate also doubles as a shaver, has a built in harmonica, can project a power point screen, and translates languages. See HERE

10. My blogger friend Patry and I are related through marriage. We had been visiting each other’s blog for a couple of years before we discovered that her niece's son is my sons' (half) brother.

11. I was excited to see that Patry recently posted a new blog after a five month absence, with her last post being titled “The Horrible and the Miserable.” She wrote, “After five months of looking at that dispiriting title, I figured it was about time to change the subject. I could talk about something else. Anything else. Sardines, for instance.” Patry, author of Liar’s Diary, has been battling a serious illness. Her new post is titled “Gratitude … Sardines … AND a health update.”

12. I’m always turned off by TV drug ads that show people on the drug living happy lives while the ad is quickly listing the drug’s side effects, some of which are death. The Gardasil ad for young girls is particularly catchy, but it’s recently been reported that a disproportionate number of girls have become ill from the vaccine and some have even died. Watch a CBS News clip on it HERE, and pass it on.

13. Something else that the advertisers aren’t telling you: The Pomegranate cell phone is REALLY an ad campaign for Nova Scotia.

More Thirteen Thursdays are HERE.

February 5, 2009

13 Fractured Facts

13ellen.jpg 1. THIS is not me.

2. Said to Joe on Saturday: I can’t wait to not watch the Super Bowl.

3. Michael 19 … Steven 21 … John 33 … How ironic that their deaths sound like bible verses … The hearses parked in the halls of the high school recruiting… From “For Eli,” a poem by slam poet/activist Andrea Gibson who will be reading at Hollins University Theater in Roanoke February 22 at 8 p.m. Hear her perform it HERE.

4. And THIS is really worth the watch, women through the ages morphing into each other.

5. What a strange world we live in. The first of February was Imbolc, Candlemas, St. Brigit’s Day, the Super Bowl and Groundhog Day. That’s almost as weird as having Martin Luther King Day shared with Confederate Generals, Jackson and Lee Day, which they used to do here in Virginia until recently.

6. I have radar for the # 13. I took the above photo from the TV while watching The Ellen Show last week. At the time Ellen was setting up some sort of audience participation game in honor of Super Bowl. fract.gif

7. Fractals help me have faith in an afterlife. It’s a sacred geometry that just keeps on going. See HERE and don’t forget to watch long enough (half a minute) to see it in color.

8. A fractal is any pattern that reveals greater complexity as it is enlarged, showing the reality of 'worlds within worlds.’ The word was coined by French mathematician Benoit Mandelbrot in 1975. Although the fractals he created were derived from mathematics, he emphasized the use of fractals as realistic and useful models of many "rough" phenomena in the real world. Natural fractals include the shapes of mountains, coastlines and river basins; the structures of plants, blood vessels and lungs; the clustering of galaxies; and Brownian motion. Fractals are found in human pursuits, such as music, painting, architecture, and stock market prices. ~ From the wikipedia.

9. Snowflakes are like fractals too. "They are one of nature's most fragile things, but just look at what they can do when they stick together.” ~ Unknown.

10. Even more miraculous and mysterious than fractals and snowflakes is the work of Japanese scientist Dr. Emoto who wrote the book The Hidden Message in Water, which describes how water molecules transform into beautiful crystallized shapes with loving thoughts and becomes ugly with hateful ones, as viewed under a microscope. Watch HERE.

11. The human body is 70% water. Imagine how our thoughts affect each other.

12. #3 in my December 4th Thirteen Thursday asks “If you had your own talk show, would you dress more like Oprah or Ellen?”

13. Thirteen Thursday is a fractal of sort, a meme (from the Greek to mimic) that keeps on going. See how it spreads out HERE.

January 29, 2009

The 13 Thursday Reality Check

13followmeg.jpg 1. The 2009 Sweetheart Valentine theme is a "Menu of Love" with a new series of candy conversation hearts that say, Honey Bun, Stir my Heart, Top Chef, and Yum Yum.

2. My friends Jayn and Emily and I put the February Museletter (our community newsletter) together on Monday. In honor of Valentine’s Day we decorated it with conversation heart stamps and used this quote by Dr. Seuss: “You know you're in love when you can't fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams.”

3. I also found a quote by Dr. Seuss giving some good advice to writers: “So the writer who breeds more words than he needs is making a chore for the reader who reads.”

4. Here in NASCAR territory, people will sometimes ask, ‘who’s your driver?’ I call the picture below of my grandson Bryce “MY DRIVER.”speedracer.jpg

5. Joe and I were told about the Ripley’s Believe it or Not upside down house in Orlando. While on vacation there we found the Ripley’s Believe it or Not crooked house building and thought that must be it. Later, back at home, I discovered Ripley’s has both a crooked house and an upside down house on the same street. HERE'S the one we missed seeing in person.

6. Apparently Dr. Seuss (“the subversive fantasist who liberated children’s books from the conformist blahs of Dick and Jane”) was scolded by his art teacher for looking at his artwork upside down. I like to look at mine through squinted eyes.

7. You know how sometimes you look at a certain common word and it suddenly feels foreign or unreal? Sometimes when I read over something I wrote that’s been published a whole line can feel that way, and for a few seconds I feel a sense of disorientated panic.

8. These words are currently not taken: Monnize, Waffliest, Clundown, Cheris, Epleo, Unseepia, Agona, and Fugckabl. They are blogger verification near-words that just seem to be lacking descriptions and dictionary verification.

9. My car is being worked on, the drippy plumbing in my house is being fixed, and my dishwasher just bit the dust. I’m trying not to take it personally.

10. The Sun Magazine is my favorite magazine that I hardly ever read.

11. I like when you come back home from being away and for a brief few minutes you can look at your house with new eyes and see what you like and what you don’t like, a perspective that’s hard to get when you live in it day to day.

12. We perceive appearances and we begin to label them. Then we begin to take the label as reality. We fixate on the label and it becomes very real to us, but the appearances themselves have no label and no fixation. ~ excerpted from a Buddhist magazine I was reading when Joe and I were in Florida.

13. Remember the old bumper sticker that said “Question Authority.” I had one on my car that said “Question Reality.”

More 13 Thursdays are HERE.

January 22, 2009

13 Thursday Poolside

13pool.jpg1. For me, reading and writing are so intertwined that I can’t read a book without a pen in hand to mark the lines I like, and I can’t write without reading each line out loud to hear how they sound.

2. Whether it is a crescent sliver or gloriously full, we know we are only observing a facet of the same spherical moon. ~ On aging – from Goddesses in Older Woman.

3. And ~ Think of yourself as the main character in a novel or motion picture that is being written by the choices you make or the roles you play and by whether you are committed to your own story.

4. A Huey Lewis drug: One of my favorite parts of road trip traveling is holding my face towards the sun while the car is zooming down the highway. With my eyes closed I see every color of the rainbow in strobe light fast motion as the sun flicks in and out of the trees.

5. The passage I’m using in meditation this week is by Lao Tzu: Fill your bowl to the brim and it will spill. Keep sharpening your knife and it will blunt. Chase after money and security and your heart will never unclench. Care about people’s approval and you will be their prisoner. Do your work, then step back. The only path to serenity.

6. We’re on vacation in Florida but when I close my eyes to meditate it doesn’t matter what country, state or season I’m in.

7. Poolside soundtrack to go with #6 is THIS.

8. Number 7 is best sung dunked down low in the middle of the Jacuzzi where the acoustics are good.

9. My blog friend Gary sent me a link to THIS link because he thought I would like it. He was right!

10. Drinking from a plastic cup instead of glass is like eating hydrogenated margarine when you could be eating real butter.
13crrkedhouse.jpg
11. While on vacation we’ve seen a glass house, a crooked house, and psychedelic Ferris wheel HERE.

12. Florida is a long way from Obama’s Inauguration in D.C. (and many degrees warmer). Although I didn’t attend, I watched it on TV, and I felt the same kind of solidarity when I voted with my body six years ago, marching on Washington on another cold January day to protest the starting of the Iraq War HERE.

13. Watch Joe and I being serenaded at Mama Della’s Italian restaurant in Portofino Bay at Universal Studios by all songs moon HERE.

Poolside is on the cool side today. More 13 Thursdays are HERE.

January 15, 2009

13: The Lorax Lives Here

lrx.jpg
1. Near the Florida border in Georgia, in a rustic whimsical setting, is a Treehouse Hostel that Joe and I just visited. The 130 acres of swampy forest and community reminds me of an Ewok village.
dme.jpg
2. Inside a geometric dome wood building is the hostel common room where a wall is decorated with photos of past hostel managers and visitors. There are musical instruments for guests to play on around the community woodstove, which on this day was burning.
drms.jpg
3. The last time I was this delighted was when I first saw wildcraft herbalist Susun Weed’s "Amusing Muse Museum" in Woodstock, New York, a room with wall to wall postcards and pictures of inspiring women.
kentree.jpg
4. Our tour guide was Ken (pictured left and right).
treehse.jpg
5. When Ken told us there were seven treehouses, I asked, “One for each dwarf?” He laughed.
dckpnd.jpg
6. A meditation bench overlooking a duck pond, a rope swing, a lake, and a labyrinth are all part of the hostel in the forest.
brm.jpg
7. Even the bathhouse is beautiful. There’s also a craft room so that guests can explore their inner artist.
coopx.jpg
8. Arugula and greens were growing in the hostel garden. This is what Ken called a chicken tractor, a portable bottomless pen that can be moved around the property.
glasshousetr.jpg
9. The glass house is considered sacred space, as is the sweat lodge, and a labyrinth.
hneymoonx.jpg
10. The honeymoon treehouse was named for the couple who built it while on their honeymoon.
ptrytrx.jpg
11. I want my own poetry mailbox. I love that the flag is up on this one.
pllx.jpg
12. If your cell phone rings while you’re at the treehouse hostel you’ll get tossed in the pool, Ken told us.
grdbed.jpg
13. A garden bed.

More 13 Thursday's HERE and HERE.


January 12, 2009

It’s Not Thursday

1. I’m distracted from writing deadlines by a suitcase in my bedroom that I’ve been slowly filling with flower print warm weather clothes.

2. I’m irritated because it seems like we’ve all been gagged from speaking out in support of the Palestinian people.

3. I found myself watching people in my age category at the Golden Globe Awards to see who looks too good to be true.

4. By next Thursday I’ll be in a different state and I may actually be sleeping in a tree house.

5. Where was Jack Nicholson?

6. In the last two weeks I’ve written about Thailand, tourism, comedy, and cheese.

7. Some of the perks I’ve received recently while covering stories for The Floyd Press include a Crooked Road T-shirt I won at a fashion show, a facial, private opera singing, a CD, and now cheese.

8. I recently went to a goodbye party for a friend who is moving to Hawaii. I had key lime pie and pineapple juice.

9. Lately I’ve been part Wild Thing (doing whatever I want whenever) and part Second Child(hood) Thing, as evidenced by my taking up chewing and snapping gum again after twenty years of not doing it.

10. I think sunglasses look cool but I never could wear them because they make things too dark or unnatural.

11. It’s hard to be cool when you’re a child, when you’re falling in love, or when you’re getting older, which leaves such a small window of opportunity for being cool.

12. I forgot that I had my digital recorder in my pants pocket when it accidentally turned on and caused me to walk all over the house checking TVs and computers to see what was on before I discovered it was coming from me.

13. Bryce, meet your Poppa Joe HERE.

January 8, 2009

Thirteen Thursday: The Work and Playlist

IMG_0319.jpg 1. I played THIS song (another personal anthem of mine from the 60’s) on New Year’s Day and had myself a good cry. I was happy for the song’s ability to reach in deeply and make me remember and feel.

2. I also played THIS (the yin to the yang of the previous song) and it made me happy.

3. Hitting the nerve of sadness is like hitting an acupressure point on the body. It hurts and feels so good at the same time and wants to be poked and prodded to break up the stagnation.

4. Ever since I said I don’t make New Year’s Resolutions I keep coming up with some good ones. My latest is I want all the drippy faucets in my house to stop leaking.

5. I’m on the gum diet. That means at night when I have the urge to snack I chew and snap gum and get a real jaw work-out.

6. It’s not too late to make a New Year Resolution. If you can’t think of one, you can be assigned one by clicking HERE.

7. Playing those old Cat Stevens songs from Harold and Maude made me think of Ruth Gordon (who played Maude). I was curious about her and her thick accent, which I knew was familiar to me. A visit to Wikipedia revealed that she was from Quincy Massachusetts, the same city I was born in and 15 minutes from where I grew up.

8. My favorite color is the fiery magenta I see when I close my eyes and hold my face up towards the sun. It's a color I’ve been missing lately.

9. When my son Josh was seven he said, “Mom, people say when you close your eyes all you see is dark but it’s not true. I see all tie-dye stuff.”

10. World’s Tallest Snowman (something else I’ve been missing) is HERE.

11. My real New Year resolution is to clean up my virtual desk top from three years of pictures and video clips that have left little space on my hard drive. So that ought to keep me busy.

12. Now that I’ve been to Cirque du Soleil, the next show on my bucket list of entertainment is to see the amazing PILOBOLUS live. HERE’s an amazing tribute to New York that I watched them perform on Conan O’Brien last week.

13. And THIS is my kind of teapot poetry.

~ More Thirteen Thursday's HERE.

January 1, 2009

13: Ringing in the New Year

c092.jpg 1. My blog is like the economy. It seems to be in a recession. Visits and comments, like retail sales, are down from last year.

2. In the evening when I’m upstairs typing on the computer and I even hear “Deal or No Deal” on TV, I have to go down and shut it off because I fear if I don’t Nielson will think I like the show and it will stay on air longer than it should.

3. I’m typing this on New Year’s Eve. I can see the moon through the trees. It looks like THIS poem.

4. “Time is a created thing. To say ‘I don’t have time’ is to say, ‘I don’t want to’.” ~ Lao Tzu

5. Josh, his brother Skye, and I saw The Curious Case of Benjamin Button over the holidays, where Brad Pitt’s character is born old and becomes younger with the passing of time until he dies as a baby. I came away thinking that the premise wasn’t so much stranger than the fact that we watch our babies transform into adults and then they watching us grow into old people. Truth is at least as strange as fiction.

6. I’ve been to Time Square for New Years Eve, discovered it’s an overrated mostly drunken mob, and I never even got close to seeing the ball.

7. Today’s Soundtrack is THIS, which I first heard while driving in a tunnel in Boston under the influence of the 60’s.

8. This is really sad. LOOK at what the Thirteen Thursday Hub looks like now.

9. The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly: Doug at Blue Ridge Muse has a list of the top 2008 Floyd stories HERE.

10. I spoke with Joe on the phone. He’s away, busy managing a five day New Year’s Teen Meditation Retreat. Tired and a little homesick, he said whenever he needs a boost he looks at a photo of our 7 month old grandson Bryce or remembers that Barack Obama is president.

11. And I am stuffed with facts…overweight with the nightly news…Poetry is the bell …that saves me from being…all-consumed ~ From “Political Prose is Hard Labor”

12. I once called poetry a sweet tinnitus ringing in my ears.

13. Speaking of ringing and bells, HERE is Bryce playing with some of his Christmas toys and navigating one in particular (it rings) that proves to be a handful for him. I video-taped this today (Wednesday) when it was 2008 and now it’s 2009. Happy New Year one and all!

December 25, 2008

13 Christmas Notes: Do You Hear What I Hear?

xchoi2.jpg1. Click HERE for my Virtual Christmas Message brought to you by the Auburn School Choir, of which my great-niece is a member.

2. My husband Joe, a counselor, recently expressed to me that he was glad our relationship was strong and that we didn’t need to see a counselor. “But you are a counselor,” I said, and then I told him whenever he gets overbooked and I start missing him, I’m just going to whine, “I need a counselor!”

3. Joe is the Program Director for Earthsong Teen Meditation Retreats and has been super busy lately getting ready for a New Year’s retreat. The Natural Awakenings Magazine of Southwest Virginia (whose publisher lives in Floyd and who I wrote about HERE) just published a story on it. You can read it HERE.

4. Summer camp is an all-American tradition for many teens. But what kind of camp teaches kindness as part of its curriculum, or instructs campers to disconnect from their high-tech, high paced lives in order to sit still and listen? ~ Excerpt from the story I did on the summer teen retreat for the Floyd Press. The rest can be read HERE.

5. Hey, LOOK what $12,000 spent on Christmas lights can get you.

6. I recently began to wonder if Bob Dylan ever recorded a Christmas song and if he did how would he pull one off, so I googled around and found THIS, close enough I suppose.

7. Two of my favorite creative artists and influences have come together. Natalie Goldberg (author of Writing Down the Bones and more) has done a documentary on Bob Dylan called Tangled up in Bob. She traveled to the town where Bob grew up and interviewed those who knew him and draws on generational commonalities between her upbringing and his HERE.

8. My great-niece Samantha is not pictured in the photo above but a family friend named Molly who I was wasn’t expecting to see is on the far right. Unfortunately, Samantha was never visible enough for me to get a good shot of, but HERE she is front-and-center performing a different sort of talent.

9. The end of an era: First Michele ended her longstanding Meet and Greet (soon after Netchick decided to host it). Now, after three years, The Thirteen Thursday Meme Hub is closing down. I posted my first Thirteen Thursday on October 10, 2005 when it was hosted by its founder Leanne, and this is my 165th one. Even though the site is closing down, I’ll continue to post 13 on Thursday because stream of consciousness list writing suits my writing style and doing so helps me tie up each week. I also get a lot of material from my TT lists and sometimes read a selection of one-liners taken from them at Spoken Word Night Open Mic, which is as close to stand up comedy as I get.

10. When our dog is finding and eating too much raw deer meat during hunting season it gives her diarrhea, which is when I start calling her a “bad ass.”

11. I forgot to mention that after dancing to The Kind at the Pine Tavern awhile back, Joe and I went to our car and found a single serving box of Kellogg cereal on the windshield. I’m still wondering about that how and why it came to be there, especially when I go into my pantry and see it on the shelf, which is where it is now.

12. I recently realized that the word USE is in the word MUSE, which gives me encouragement that the Muse is available to be used rather than playing hard to get. The MMMM sound (mother, mana, milk, and manifestation) preceding the word USE also speaks to my sense of divined support for my creativity.

13. This is my very favorite interactive Christmas card, well worth the click HERE.

And so ... as my current answering machine messages says: Leave your Kris Kringle after the Jingle.

December 18, 2008

The 13 List: Checking it Twice

xmaslist.jpg 1. Who let the air out of Christmas? Driving to Christiansburg on Monday I passed a yard full of plastic blow-up Christmas ornaments deflated and spread out on the law. It looked like a Christmas massacre.

2. I was on my way to visit my dear friend Alwyn for a Christmas tea. Alwyn is an 83 year old Jewish-born Quaker who prefers to keep Christmas simple. When I arrived and told her I had a gift for her, she said, “No chachka this year.” I learned that chachka is a Jewish word for “collected stuff.”

3. I gave her one of THESE and she was thrilled with it. I also brought a belated birthday gift for her November birthday, a homemade apple crisp, which we proceeded to eat. We both agreed that both gifts did not fall in the chachka category.

4. First there was the shoe bomber and now the shoe thrower. Apparently President Bush is as good ducking flying shoes, to the tune of a size 10, as he is at ducking questions. If you haven’t seen the clip that looks like a bit from a Three Stooges movie yet, see it HERE.

5. So I guess I and half-a-million others who marched on Washington before the Iraq invasion to try and stop it might have gotten more attention if we had taken off our shoes and thrown them at the White House.

6. Last year my poem about wanting President Bush to have a dream like the one that Ebenezer Scrooge was aired on The Monitor, a Pacifica radio affiliate in Houston. You can hear it HERE (after the music lead-in). The story of how it was written and how I came to read it on Pacifica is HERE.

7. While driving, I listened to NPR and caught some of Diane Rehm’s interview with Les Standiford, author of The Man Who Invented Christmas, which is about Charles Dickens, author of A Christmas Carol, the story of redemption and the true spirit of Christmas, which awakened the humanitarian in me as a child when I saw it on TV.

8. I knew that A Christmas Carol popularized the celebration of Christmas with trees, lights, a turkey on Christmas Day, and generosity to those less fortunate, but I didn’t know that Dickens was a Unitarian (a religion that has been described as “"the religion of Jesus, not a religion about Jesus” and one with a strong social justice component). I also learned that A Christmas Carol was self-published, that the Dickens’ parents spent time in a debtor’s prison (for spending beyond their means), and that Dickens had a sickly brother like Tiny Tim whose name was Fred.

9. Another formative story in my childhood that was written around the same time period and was also about the power of giving was Hans Brinker (aka The Silver Skates). Hans Brinker is the story of a poor young Dutch boy who gives up his chance to win a pair of silver skates in an ice skating race on the frozen canal in December for the benefit of others. The heroic story of Peter and the Dike is also part of the Hans Brinker story.

10. Ice skating was a big part of my growing up years in Massachusetts, so it’s no surprise that my favorite Christmas song – which was especially poignant during the seven years I lived near Houston, Texas – is THIS.

11. When I was in Holland in 1996 I saw the canals that wound through the landscape dotted with windmill homes, but was told that the because of Global Warming the last time it got cold enough for the canals to freeze was sometime in the 60’s.

12. Speaking of Christmas blow-up yard ornaments (#1), Doug has a funny story posted about his wife chasing down some run away penguins and then tying her captives to the family gazebo HERE.

13. My new answering machine message: Leave your Kris Kringle after the Jingle.

Thursday headquarters is here. My other 13's are here. View more 13 Thursday’s here.

December 11, 2008

The Ghost of 13 Thursday

13xmasgift.jpg1. I used to sign my kid's Christmas presents SANTA and change my handwriting so they wouldn’t guess it was me. When they got older I signed them SANTA MARIA just for the fun of it.

2. I was recently typing “5 O’clock” and found myself wondering if it was Irish time.

3. I don’t know who could ever fill Oprah’s shoes because I don’t know who could walk in them.

4. A guest recently commented on her pointy toed stilettos and she explained that she only wore them for sitting.

5. In three years of blogging I can only remember ever getting two word verification codes that were actually real words. But some of these are so close that I think they beg for definitions: TERPOT, HARKATIC, GESSING, MIL, SPENCADE.

6. And is it any wonder that I kept calling the Cirque du Soleil show “Kooza,” Kazoo?

7. I recently saw a woman standing on the corner of our one traffic light in town and waving. For a second I thought she was hailing a cab.

8. But you can’t get Chinese Take-out, a long arm stapler, or a cab in Floyd.

9. Last Christmas I gave my son Josh a box of Chinese Cookies as a gift just so we could read the fortunes and because we both like to use them in our collages. The last fortune I got in a cookie was a smart ass one that said: Your sweetheart may be too beautiful for words for not for arguing.

10. My souvenir from the Cirque du Soleil is a handful of colored tissue confetti that was shot out of a cannon at the audience under a spotlight beam. I collected some for making collage.

11. There’s a new chick in town, at least new to me. Her name is NETCHICK and she’s taken over the Blogger’s Weekend Meet & Greet now that Michele, who I once called the fairy godmother of blogging, has retired.

12. I watched the whole of these two videos of Carrie Fisher talking about her new book Wishful Drinking on the Today Show. She’s quick and very funny but that’s not the main reason I was watching. I got hooked in because she looked like she had no legs and I kept staring and struggling to see where they were.

13. So don’t forget to think about what Scrooge's ghost said: mankind is your business. It’s also mine.

Thursday headquarters is here. My other 13's are here. View more 13 Thursday’s here. #163

December 4, 2008

The Thirteen Ring Circus

13nowshow.jpg1. I know a young girl whose middle name is Lavender. If you were going to name a baby after an herb, flower, or spice, which would you choose?

2. If you had your own talk show, would you dress more like Oprah or Ellen?

3. When I walk to the mailbox I like exaggerate my stride and the movement of my hips to counter the effects of sitting too long at the computer. While doing this recently I remembered that in high school we called girls that wiggled while the walked “big wheels.” It was a derogatory term.

4. Big wheels are also those low to the ground three wheel bikes that played a major role in the early lives of my son’s generation.

5. Now I have Tina Turner’s song "Proud Mary" stuck in my head because of the “big wheel turning" line.

6. When I see guys with those Kewpie doll hairdos that stick up on the top of their head like THIS, they remind me of babies, and I wonder if they know that in the 50’s that’s how mother’s combed their baby boy’s heads.

7. I know a couple of kids named Sage, a young woman named Yarrow and another named Coriander.

8. I think of my blog as something like a DVD movie with menu selections. The informal writings I do, in balance with more formal pieces, are like backstage outtakes, deleted scenes, and my director’s commentary.

9. Writing poetry is like a tightrope walk between not being too obscure or too obvious.

10. THIS video clip of Bill Moyers talking about Barack Obama brought tears to my eyes.

11. When Joe and I were visiting Josh in Marshall, North Carolina, this past September we all drove over to Mars Hill, North Carolina, which was only a few miles and one letter away.

12. When an old friend of Joe’s offered us free tickets to see Cirque du Soleil this weekend in D.C. Joe asked if I wanted to go on such short notice. “Are you kidding?” I answered, “Cirque do Soleil is on my bucket list!”

13. Then I fantasized putting a sign on my blog that said: “Ran off with the Circus.”

Thursday headquarters is here. My other 13's are here. View more 13 Thursday’s here.

November 27, 2008

13 Thursday: Google Gobble

ggooglegobble.jpg 1. When I posed the idea of writing a story on the new Floyd-based Natural Awakenings magazine to the publisher, she said, “Can I buy you a cup of coffee?” I answered, “Sure, as long as it’s tea.”

2. I knew we were speaking the same language when during the interview I asked her how she found Floyd and she answered, “I don’t think you find Floyd. I think Floyd finds you.”

3. It boggles the mind: My sister Trish’s brother-in-law, Stephen Bowen, who is probably eating turkey in outer space with his crew mates right now, emailed the family some photos from inside the space shuttle on Saturday (some of which I posted HERE). It got me wondering, if Stephen can get online to email while out in space could he be reading my blog posts about the mission, and if so, where would my Statcounter say his visit was from.

4. Not only do I not shop on the day after Thanksgiving, I try to stay away from malls entirely this time of year. But I need a haircut. I want a fruitcake. Am I really too old to sit on Santa’s lap? Do I have enough butter for Christmas Eve cookies? Is it too soon to put up a tree? Read more from last year’s Mock Mincemeat Pie Hangover HERE.

5. I googled gobble and got THIS

6. I think THIS one is even funnier.

7. People are fun! The Google Gobble Soundtrack is HERE.

8. My friend, local blues musician Scott Perry is one of the few men I know who always wears a hat and isn’t even bald.

9. I have another Floyd friend named Phil who plays the harmonica. I call him the Philharmonic.

10. I’m a sucker for unnecessary knowledge. I recently learned from Pearl that the average person spends 12 weeks a year ‘looking for things.’ I then got sucked into the link she provided and learned that Steven King sleeps with the light on to calm his fear of the dark, Pinocchio was made of pine, the sand from Pacific beaches is generally 250,000 years older than Atlantic beach sand, ostriches can run 50 miles per hour, Napoleon constructed his battle plans in a sandbox, and India has a Bill of Rights for cow. The list goes on HERE.

11. My friend Doug is always pointing out that one of the downsides to living in a rural county is that you can’t get Chinese take-out here. I recently discovered that you can’t get a long arm stapler either, which I needed to staple my new TEAPOET chapbook. I eventually found one to borrow at a local church, which uses it for stapling their church bulletins.

12. Not long after we moved into this house in 1991 our closest neighbor asked to borrow a cup of sugar. But I have never bought sugar and so we offered him honey. He hasn’t tried to borrow anything since.

13. My take on church: I’d rather watch the birds and ponder Quantum Physics.

Thursday headquarters is here. My other 13's are here. View more 13 Thursday’s here.

November 20, 2008

The 13 Thursday Blast Off

13moonbow.jpg 1. Why did my sister Trish Bowen, who I think looks like Meg Ryan, model a T-shirt on Fox News on her birthday? See the video clip answer HERE.

2. The photo posted below appeared in The Boston Herald yesterday and is of Trish (front and center), her husband Danny, her sons Matthew (left) and Patrick (right), and her son’s aunt and cousins, all showing off the space memorabilia they got on their recent trip to Florida to watch Danny’s brother, Astronaut Stephen Bowen, and the rest of the Space Shuttle Endeavour crew take-off from the Kennedy Space Center last Friday (which I wrote about HERE).

3. I told Trish, who was a cheerleader in high school, that she looks like she was on the top of a pyramid cheer, just like the old days.
spacebowensll.jpg
4. Everyone is very proud of Stephen, and Trish and her family have been getting a lot of attention from the media because of his space flight, but they were famous even before that for being on my blog! See Matthew HERE and Patrick HERE.

5. It’s been reported in the media that Stephen Bowen is an ice-cream junkie and I just learned that a local ice-cream shop near Cohasset, Massachusetts, where the Bowen’s are from, named a flavor after him. It’s called Cohastranaut Crunch.

6. The Endeavour’s destination of the International Space Station was reached on Sunday for what has been described as a “home make-over.” After reading my previous post on Stephen’s space flight a friend sent me THIS link, listing the dates and times when the Space Station can be seen (as something like a bright star) from Floyd. You can type in your own location to find out the best times for you to see it.

7. When I read what the Boston Herald reported yesterday: A navy captain and the first submarine officer selected by NASA as a mission specialist, Bowen spent roughly six hours on what an agency spokeswoman called a “milestone mission,” clearing away metal grit and lubricating the joint of the station’s solar wing – I wondered if while working Stephen was thinking about laying tile, once the Bowen family business.

8. Since I don’t get CNN, I watched the launch on Youtube. I couldn’t help but wonder about how much fuel the space launch used and how much the take-off looked like a mushroom cloud.
astrosteveb.doc.jpg
9. Did you know that there is rocket fuel in cigarettes, along with some of the same chemicals found in lighter fluid, moth balls, burial embalmment, nail polish remover, toilet bowl cleaners?

10. The photo above is a Blast from the Past that shows my sister Trish’s wedding to Danny Bowen in 1991. That’s me on the far left and future astronaut Stephen, who was my wedding party escort, standing behind me.

11. THAT was then and THIS is now.

12. When my brother Jim died in 2001, my young nephew Patrick asked his mom, “Is Jimmy an astronaut now?”

13. The soundtrack to this post is HERE.

Thursday headquarters is here. My other 13's are here. View more 13 Thursday’s here.

November 13, 2008

13: It’s all UP from here

13elva2x.jpg1. Me on the phone with my son Dylan, father of 6 month old Bryce: “After a couple of weeks I can’t stop thinking about Bryce, and I need to see him.” Dylan: “I know. That happens to me everyday at work.”

2. Me to Joe: “Is it pathetic that the highlight of my day is my walk to the mailbox? But maybe if Lao Tzu or the Dali Lama were here it would be their favorite part of the day too,” I reason.

3. Later that same day, Joe and I laid out on a blanket in the yard in the middle of an unseasonably warm day and watched squirrels jump from tree to tree and the sun go down behind the house. “I just got a new highlight of my day,” I told him.

4. Wow! My Asheville Potter son Josh and his claymates from ClaySpace are on the front page of Asheville’s Arts and Events newspaper, Mountain XPress (pictured below). Read the article HERE. Josh’s pots also recently showed up HERE.joshxpress.jpg

5. I can be wiping off the kitchen counter, sorting through papers on my desk, or driving in my car to the grocery store when I find myself suddenly saying out loud for no other reason than to hear how it sounds, “President Obama.”

6. This first time we’ve had a president that I actually care so much about that I wake up and in the morning and think, I wonder how Barack is doing today.

7. My friend Pearl speaks my language. She recently said: "I still haven’t blogged yesterday and here it is almost tomorrow again."

8. My blog is part journal, part photo album, and part filing cabinet.

9. I’ve been excited about Obama winning since it happened, but it took almost a week for me to thaw from the numbness of the last 8 years enough to shed tears of relief. I was listening to NPR news on the ride to Roanoke to baby-sit Bryce when it happened. After a newscaster announced Obama’s plan to quickly close Guantanamo and to renew the Justice Department, which has been reduced to shambles by politicization, I just broke down.

10. My friend Amy was over helping me format a duplex printed booklet of my teapoet poems. At one point she was at the computer hitting print and I was holding sheets of 5x7 white paper, feeding them one at time to the printer so it wouldn’t jam, when I said to her, “I feel like a girl again with my Nana giving me a perm.” You’d have to have grown up in the 50’s and 60's to remember holding those small white sheets of tissue paper and handing them to the hairdresser or your grandmother who would use them to wrap a perm roller that would then be doused with ammonia and other chemicals. Amy understood. “It had to be a Toni,” she laughed and said, adding, “At least we don’t have to put up with the smell.”

11. At another point, we used a ruler to measure the booklet. I handed it to her and said, “Gee, I just love the low tech nature of a ruler. It’s nothing but a stick, but we still need it.”

12. Amy is a multi-talented entrepreneur with a great sense of humor, whose business, New Vision, provides innovative ideas and other services to help other small businesses grow. She recently started a new business selling gay greeting cards. I especially like the Christmas one. See HERE.

13. When I was in town today, someone asked, “How are you?” and I answered, “As good as can be expected from someone who woke at the crack of dawn by squirrels jumping on the roof of my house and tossing nuts down on my car.”

Thursday headquarters is here. My other 13's are here. View more 13 Thursday’s here. #159

November 6, 2008

13 Thursday: Post Election and Pumpkin Reflections

pmk.jpg1. I drove over the remains of a smashed pumpkin on the way to town the other day. Getting smashed in the road is not a completely uncommon way for a pumpkin to meet its end, as opposed to THIS.

2. A new take on election yard signs HERE.

3. Apparently, I’m the last to know about the puking pumpkin phenomena. It’s all over google images and youtube. See the last photo HERE.

4. The two herbs I quickly go through time of year: cinnamon and cumin. In other words, my menu staples right now are apple crisp and chili.

5. THIS is the video clip I forgot to post a few days ago. Wait for it … Now … Nice catch!

6. Watching the results of the election last night was a lot like New Years Eve. I even had a hangover the next morning from staying up too late.

7. I can tell I have post-election fatigue when I make the drive to Blacksburg, like I did today, and don’t pull over to take a picture when I see a spectacular scene or some other kind of photographic opportunity.

8. McCain gave a class act concession speech and Barack’s post election speech exemplified that fact that he’s a true leader. I don't see how anyone could have heard it and not be moved. My favorite line was when he told his daughters how much he loved them, and then said, “You earned the puppy that is coming with us to the White House.” THIS is my other favorite part (yes, the whole 17 minutes).

9. At 6:20 p.m. on Election Day night I got a call from Barack Obama. Even though I knew it was a robocall I was stunned and star struck so much that I talked back to the recording. “I’ve already voted, Barack,” I said.

10. Floyd for Obama on the Huffington Post HERE. Those are the same activists and friends I shot photos of which made it to the Floyd Press. See HERE

11. I look forward confidently to the day when all who work for a living will be one with no thought to their separateness as Negroes, Jews, Italians or any other distinctions. This will be the day when we bring into full realization the American dream -- a dream yet unfulfilled. A dream of equality of opportunity, of privilege and property widely distributed; a dream of a land where men will not take necessities from the many to give luxuries to the few; a dream of a land where men will not argue that the color of a man's skin determines the content of his character; a dream of a nation where all our gifts and resources are held not for ourselves alone, but as instruments of service for the rest of humanity; the dream of a country where every man will respect the dignity and worth of the human personality. ~ Martin Luther King

12. I celebrate that Barack will be our country’s first African American President, but I didn’t vote for him for the color of his skin. I voted for him for the content of his character. Not since JFK (who was killed when I was a teenager) have I felt so enthusiastic about a President’s ability to lead, to inspire, and to unite our country. Barack is rational, articulate, calm, caring, humble, and has demonstrated that he has a grasp on national and international issues.

13. After the last presidential election in 2004 a friend drove over to our house, shaken and with tears in her eyes at the result. This year another friend had a similar reaction but for the opposite reason. Our candidate won AND Virginia went blue. Click your mouse HERE for a virtual Victory celebration.

Thursday headquarters is here. My other 13's are here. View more 13 Thursday’s here.

October 30, 2008

13 Thursday: Strange Brew

13rug.jpg 1. My friend Jamie Reynolds married Elisha Seigle and changed his name to Jamie Reygle. Recently I received and email from him and noticed he’s now calling himself Jamie Hussein Reygle.

2. My commentary “Does Size Matter: A Vote for Smart Government” appeared with others in a spread of excerpted commentaries in the Sunday Horizon of The Roanoke Times. The collection of election essays, in which 12 out of 13 are pro-Obama, are published in their entirety online HERE.

3. First Colin Powell and now Fonzie, Richie, Andy Griffith, and Opie have all come out to endorse Obama HERE.

4. Things that make me go YIKES posted by Alice Audrey HERE.

5. After more than three years, I feel like my blog is like an overgrown dinosaur and it's only a matter of time before the poles shift and it falls off the face of the earth, becoming extinct.

6. When it comes to the computer, I have to confess to being a hoarder who has emails back into 2006 and hates to delete anything. My disc space is nearly full on both my PC and my laptop, so Joe just gave me a lesson on kilobytes, megabytes, and gigabytes. I’ve started to make some efforts in turning that blue pie back to pink.

7. Is it all in our heads? Why do we think a bowl of noodles looks delicious but a bowl of worms doesn’t?

8. I can see the witch from Snow White (above) standing with her hands on her hips in the pattern on my bedroom rug. I can also see the Queen of hearts (to the right) holding cheerleading pom poms in her hands. qheartsx.jpg

9. Last night Joe and I watched the movie Star*dust.The man who wrote the fairytale the film is based on said when he visited the movie set he felt guilty that something he made up in his head for fun and that took up a paragraph of words (like the pirate ship that sails in the sky collecting lightening) took 100’s of people and millions of dollars to build and bring to life.

10. Which made me feel creepy about all the money and resources that are spent for our mega entertainment and made me wish they’d only make a handful of movies each year and the rest of the time we’d tell stories, watch local plays, and read books.

11. I have a real friend named Steven Strange.

12. Isn’t it ironic that election season comes around the same time as Halloween, with all those creepy Republican campaign ads on TV scaring your kids and pets?

13. Simon says: Click HERE for the Strange Brew soundtrack.

Thursday headquarters is here. My other 13's are here. View more 13 Thursday’s here.

October 23, 2008

13: The Big O

130.jpg 1. Fellow poet, Scrabble player and Floyd Spoken Word participant, Chelsea Adams took the words right out of my mouth and put them down in an eloquent order for THIS Roanoke Times commentary about Pro-life vs. Pro-choice. It’s well worth the read.

2. My spell check is like a far right fundamentalist Republican robocall because whenever I type the name Obama it suggests I say Osama instead.

3. Typing the word Obama reminded me of the story I recently did for the Floyd Press about a talented teenager who sings Opera. So many of my stories this spring and summer seemed to focus on outstanding women like, Kari Kovick, Rosemary Wyman, Mara Robbins, Tenley Weaver, and Pam Cadmus. More recently they have been about talented young people like Abraham Cherrix, The Junior Jamboree players, Rowan Chantal, and now Carolyn Kirby.

4. Whenever I type OPERA (which is rare) my mind confuses it with the word with OPRAH.

5. I called Mara to ask if she do some poetry performance at the Floyd Democratic Rally this Friday. I didn’t expect her to answer and was all ready to leave a message and when I heard “Hello Colleen.” For a few seconds I was shocked and flattered to think that her answering machine message was "Hello Colleen."

6. Now you can have your own Saturday Night Live Sarah Palin skit game HERE. Move your mouse around and click all over. The place is boobie trapped with spoof.

7. It was so refreshing to see Barack and a relaxed McCain in the same place making jokes about each other that really were funny. See HERE.

8. It’s true. Barack Obama is Irish. See HERE. His ancestors came from the same county some of mine did HERE.

9. The social scientist in me loves to study human nature, take informal surveys and document life. I like to track the progress we’re making with tolerance and equality, and so I intuitively make a note to myself of minority representation and the ratio of women to men at events or in books and other print media. When I drive the 25 mile stretch to Christiansburg for errands a couple of times a month, I like to keep track of things like: the ratio of those wearing seat belts and not, how many commuters are driving alone or not, or how many are driving trucks and SUV’s as opposed to small gas efficient cars.

10. Recently I made the Christiansburg trip with a paper and pen nearby and kept tallies of election yard signs. Being from a largely Republican area, I was surprised at how even the score was – McCain 10 to Obama 8. But if the two of the houses I saw with Democratic signs for Boucher and Warner posted in their yards had added one for Obama, it would have been a dead even tie. (Note: on the seven mile ride from my house to town, the tally of Obama to McCain signs is even).

11. I saw feminist and founder of Ms. Magazine Gloria Steinem on Oprah this week. She said something very wise in reference to her husband’s death that reminded me how loosely we use the word depression these days: "In depression, nothing matters. In sadness and grief, everything matters. Everything was more poignant."

12. And here’s what Steinem (who thinks that Sarah Palin is like Phyllis Schlafly, only younger) said about orgasms when she turned 70: "You put on a pair of jeans and realize they're older than most people in the United States. And you remember things from your childhood but not necessarily from the day before. That's when you start to think that remembering something right away is as good as an orgasm."

13. Do you think THIS photo has been photo-shopped? And if not could the article in question be part of THIS shopping spree?

Thursday headquarters is here. My other 13's are here. View more 13 Thursday’s here.

October 16, 2008

13: The Check in Account

13notebx.jpg1. Everyone knows that Poets are born and not made in school. This is true also of painters, sculptors, and musicians. Something that is essential can’t be taught; it can only be given, earned, or formulated in a manner to mysterious to be picked apart and redesigned for the next person. ~ So says Mary Oliver in the beginning paragraph of her book, A Poetry Handbook: A Prose Guide to Understanding and Writing Poetry.

2. Relationships are like bank accounts. Over the years you can accrue a lot of interest through honest communication and quality time spent together. But if you continue to draw from your investment without making regular deposits of loving interaction you can end up squandering the riches you’ve already earned.

3. Staying current is a good currency to use in healthy relationships.

4. My note taking habit is to separate projects I’m working on by taking notes on one subject in the front of my notebook and notes on another in the back of my notebook. Eventually my notes meet each other in the middle and I know it’s time to get a new notebook.

5. Palin speaks Orwellian HERE. To John McCain’s credit HERE. Although, it should be noted that the flame McCain is trying to put out is one he started and enlisted Palin to fan.

6. There’s a new TV commercial where allergy suffers who aren’t taking the new and improved allergy medication are shown going around with signs on their backs that say “Drowsiness May Occur.” “I want a sign like that too, I said to Joe.

7. I took Joe’s yoga mat outside at night and laid on it in the grass to watch the stars because star and moon gazing brings the poetry out in me. Because poems with stars aren’t like those with cicadas …They don’t cause migraines or push agendas … They open our eyes like brushed on mascara … They flutter and blink … They fall …

8. While participating in a recent Woman’s Dialogue, in which the subject was POWER, I realized that the word begins with a POW and ends with EEERRRR, a hard hitting word with an engine to drive it.

9. Maybe that’s why POWER is so often associated with POWER OVER rather than personal empowerment and the ability to get things done and make things happen.

10. Here’s something I learned this week: You can’t judge an event by what is happening in the moment but only by what happens after it’s over, and over time. Real learning can be far reaching. It takes time to ripple and settle.

11. Since becoming unleashed – retiring from full-time foster care and writing at home as much as I want to – I’ve been living on unscripted instinct, like a creature. It took a couple of years for most of the “shoulds” and imposed structure to fall away. I’m no longer trying to improve myself. I don’t pray for things to be any different than they are. I’m okay with doing just what I find myself doing and with shlelping around in my house clothes writing stories and poetry like a nutty professor in a lab.

12. Not surprising, THIS is my latest theme song.

13. I also learned this: I’m easy to please because I’m already pleased, but sometimes I need to be reminded.

Thursday headquarters is here. My other 13's are here. View more 13 Thursday’s here.

October 9, 2008

13 Thursday: Only Kidding

13card.jpg1. Our dog Jasmine lies around while deer come in the yard and eat from our garden, like I let the answering machine pick-up because I don’t want to bother answering the phone.

2. I can’t help wondering if I had been jogging instead of blogging these last 3 years how fit I might be now.

3. Instead of twiddling my thumbs, I’d rather be popping bubble wrap.

4. After seeing Sarah Palin winking into the TV camera during the Vice Presidential debate, I wondered what the responses would have been if Geraldine Ferrari winked during her VP debate in 1984. Then I started imagining other women in positions of power winking. What would it be like if Condi Rice started winking? Could Margaret Thatcher have gotten away with it? How about Janet Reno?

5. So, isn’t winking like crossing your fingers behind your back?

6. A major British newspaper recently sent a reporter to Roanoke, (just down the mountain from us) to see what real swing state people think about the election. The results are HERE. Thanks to Blue Country Magic for posting the link. More voices from Roanoke on the election are HERE.

7. Bridget Bardot, 74 year old activist and one time sex symbol movie star recently said that Sarah Palin was a disgrace to women. Bardot, who heads up an animal rights group, implored Palin not to compare herself to dogs, referring to Palin’s depiction of herself as a pit-bull wearing lipstick. She said, "I know them well and I can assure you that no pit-bull, no dog, nor any other animal for that matter is as dangerous as you are.”

8. Tina Fey did not write the above line, nor did it come from Amy Poehler and Seth Meyers’ SNL Weekend Update of the fake news. It’s true. Bardot actually said it.

9. I wrote this line and it’s also true: I was getting kind of tired of being Joe’s secretary and giving him pat answers when he checks in to see who has called him. So the last time he called home and asked “did I get any messages?” I answered jokingly: “Yeah. Your mother called. She wants you back.”

10. Forclosure? The Bermuda Triangle? What would we do on Thursday without the 13 Thursday meme game prompting us to visit blogging friends, new and old? We found out last week when no one showed up at the TT hub to host the game. So people added their new links to Sept 24th edition and proceeded to play, acting like nothing was different.

11. Actor Will Arnett is married to SNL’s Amy Pohler. His Wikipedia bio says: "He and Amy have two dogs, Hank and Gerald." His wife’s Wikipedia Bio says: "They live in New York City and have two dogs, Toby and Elliott."

12. Does that mean that they really have four dogs or that someone is holding crossed fingers behind their back?

13. It's almost THIS time of year again. Can you guess which one is me?

Thursday headquarters is here. My other 13's are here. View more 13 Thursday’s here. #154

October 1, 2008

13: Google the Yellow Brick Road

13bike.jpg 1. This is the time of year I like to sunbathe on the porch because it’s cool enough to soak it up. Letting all that good warmth and Vitamin D penetrate my skin makes me feel like a solar voltaic panel storing sun for the winter.

2. Golden parachutes? How about being fired and fined instead?

3. While Joe and I were visiting my Asheville potter son Josh last week, we watched the first presidential debate with him at one of his friend’s house. Our favorite part was when McCain talked about the bracelet he was wearing and then Obama showed his and said “I have a bracelet too.” McCain’s bracelet was given to him by mother who lost her son in Iraq and who asked him to make sure her son didn’t die in vain. Obama’s was also given to him by a mother who lost a son in Iraq. She wanted him to make sure no other mother would have to go through what she did.

4. While in downtown Marshall, I saw a shop called MY SISTER’S PLACE, but my mind added two little strokes to the L in the word PLACE and I saw it as MY SISTER’S PEACE.

5. Josh recently had to update his resume for a ClaySpace press packet, but he’s been so busy with the tasks at hand that he forgot some of the shows he’s done past year. “I had to google myself to find out what I’ve been doing,” he said.

6. I think Josh, whose father is English, has a Cockney Rhyming Slang gene. The lingo he uses fascinates me to the point that I write it down when I hear it. This past weekend I learned that “spitting game” had something to do with a pick-up line and that calling someone a “bag of hammers” was another way of saying they were screwed-up.

7. At his BFA thesis show in December of 2006, Josh’s eight foot handmade brick wall art installation with the word INDIVIDUAL stamped on each brick conveyed that a single person isn’t as powerful as when they join together with others and build community. Another installation at that show was an interactive piece made of bricks stamped with the word COMMUNITY, which people moved around during the show. Some took the COMMUNITY bricks home after getting Josh to sign them. See one HERE.

8. Josh has a friend who, on two different occasions, tried to take a brick home to Arizona, but each time the brick was confiscated by airport security.

9. But you can mail a brick "as is" without any packaging, as blogger Naomi found out when Josh mailed her an unwrapped brick with her address written on the surface.

10. I have to wonder if Josh was the first person to mail a single brick.

11. I google Josh’s name when I want to find out what he’s been up to, too. Most recently I found THIS photo of him presenting a COMMUNITY brick to fellow North Carolina potter and pottery blogger Michael Kline. After that, I found THIS blog with another picture of Josh on it. It was authored by Rob Cartelli, a potter who took the two month Penland class on woodfiring clay made of local materials that Josh assistant taught this past spring.

12. We take bricks for granted, but the oldest ones found date back to 7,500 B.C., and from Josh I became aware of how important they have been to civilization, as this excerpt from a story I wrote for the Floyd Press called Building Community in Floyd says: Josh opened my eyes more fully to the role clay has played in human survival when he stated that the conceptual basis for his BFA Show was a pipe, a vessel, and a brick and then explained the significance of early ceramics: a pipe moves water and sewer, a vessel stores and transports food, and brick is used to make shelter. More HERE.

13. And then there is THIS. Do you remember it?

Thirteen Thursday headquarters is here. My other 13's are here. View more 13 Thursday’s here.

September 25, 2008

13: Double Take

132.jpg 1. This is the time of year when I put on socks, and the butter in the butter dish is no longer the consistency of mayonnaise.

2. Have you noticed how the Jonas Brothers look like the Hanson Brothers with dark hair?

3. Double take would make a good name for a second hand clothing shop.

4. I once had a recycling bumper sticker on my car that said “Once is Not Enough.” Under that one I had second one, confirming that “Once is Not Enough.”

5. Shopping for men’s shirts at the thrift shop is like looking through Hallmark cards for Father’ Day… hunting scenes, plaids, and stripes is all you get.

6. The chant “Drill Baby Drill” at the RNC separated the boys from the men. And by men I mean drunken sailors on the make.

7. Tina Fey at the Emmys on playing Sarah Palin: "I want to be done playing this lady November 5th. So if anybody can help me be done playing this lady November 5th that would be good for me." Hint hint…

8. But it was Laura Linney who made the best discreet political reference of the night. While accepting her award for her role in the John Adams mini-series she made the comment that our Founding Fathers were community organizers.

9. The economic crisis: This is what less government (The Republican motto) gets us. Privatization without oversight means a free for all, but it always falls in the end, sadly, on the backs of the taxpayers.

10. The Katrina catastrophe was another example of how less government works (or doesn’t). Bush considered FEMA an “entitlement program,” so he demoted its status and appointed inexperienced cronies to run it, dismantling the progress that Clinton had made. The rest is sad history.

11. A sure sign that I’ve been watching too many political shows and that the economic crisis is having an affect on me: I dreamt that I had two flat tires in an old car I no longer own. PBS News Hour commentator Mark Shields was my mechanic. I trusted his Boston accent and his familiar face that looks like my father’s did, so I turned over the keys and said, “I know you’re smart. I’ve seen you on TV.” He charged me a couple of thousand dollars to fix the car, and when I demanded to know why, he showed me the elaborate waiting room in his garage, part of the tacked on cost.

12. I just learned that Mark Shields is from Weymouth Massachusetts, about eight miles from where I grew up and where I lived and worked for six years. The drug dealer the movie Blow was based on, played by Johnny Depp, is also from Weymouth. So is Hal Holbrook.

13. Supposedly I should have looked like THIS when I graduated from high school in 1968. But I really looked like THIS. What did you look like in 1968? Yearbook yourself HERE.

Thursday headquarters is here. My other 13's are here. View more 13 Thursday’s here.

September 18, 2008

Talking Heads

13tp1.jpg 1. I like PBS’s Shields and Brooks but David Byrne is my favorite Talking Head. He has a blog too. HERE.

2. How come a dunce cap and a wizard cap are both the same?

3. My current imaginary bumpers sticker is a mathematical equation that says: McCain+Palin=Bushx. Hey, this is not rocket science. See HERE.

4. Truck spotted in Texas during Hurricane Ike with a sign painted on it that read: GO HOME IKE … TINA IS NOT HERE!!

5. Signs spotted at the protest against Palin in Anchorage this past Saturday: BUSH IN A SKIRT … LIPSTICK CAN’T COVER THE TRUTH … SORRY SARAH WE JUST LOVE OUR COUNTRY MORE … FUNDAMENTALY FLAWED … DIDN’T BLINK= DIDN’T THINK … BRISTOL GOT TO CHOOSE WHY CAN’T WE? Video clip is HERE.

6. Lately I’ve been reading stories from the Anchorage Daily News. Here’s one on Alaska bloggers and how their 200 a day hits have recently gone up into the thousands.

7. Loose Leaf isn’t a political blog but I write about politics. It isn’t a blog about Floyd but I write about Floyd. It’s a place where my daily journal converges with my poetry, photography, and prose. It’s a writer’s discipline and a container to organize and store my formal and informal writing.

8. As someone who has been blogging for 3 ½ years, this is my first presidential election as a blogger, so it’s only natural that there would be more posts on politics than there normally are. As the election gets closer, it’s pretty much on my mind every day.

9. I’m one of those people who think politics is the process by which groups of people make decisions and I want to be in on the decisions that affect me as much as I can. I don’t think politics is separate from the rest of life, and I believe there is truth to this quote: “Anyone who says they are not interested in politics is like a drowning man who insists he is not interested in water.”

10. Plato said this: “Those who are too smart to engage in politics are punished by being governed by those who are dumber.”

11. The last election is responsible for me taking up blogging. I had been doing a lot of political writing – which was published in The New River Free Press, Roanoke Times, Common Dreams, Just Response, Online Journal, and other places – but I got so frustrated about the Bush administration's marketing of the Iraq War and Bush’s re-election that I burned out.tonguex.jpg I decided I wanted to have more fun with writing, so I drew on my Irish storytelling heritage, posted the above bio photo of me in Ireland with a shamrock pinned to my sweater, and let the gift of gab begin.

12. The heads are talking and the tongues are wagging: This picture (right) of me and my nephew Matthew is my favorite one from the summer. I like to know that I have an influence on the younger generation.

13. What do you think of THIS two headed turtle that made Dave Letterman go “EEEWWW?”

Thursday headquarters is here. My other 13's are here. View more 13 Thursday’s here. #151

September 11, 2008

13 Talking Points

tp13.jpg1. I like to keep at least one toy in my pocketbook. For some reason it makes me feel prepared.

2. Working my laptop touch pad is like eating noodles with chopsticks. I’d rather use a fork and mouse.

3. I feel like THIS more and more often. It's worth a whole listen.

4. I thought I recognized THAT guy. I used to have a crush on him and heard him sing at the South Shore Music Circus in the 70’s. Here’s a BEFORE and AFTER video of him and THIS one, dedicated to my sister Sherry. (Thanks to Marion for starting this sentimental journey by emailing me the first video, unaware of what she'd stir up.)

5. It’s a fun idea for a S-C-R-A-B-B-L-E lover like me but I don’t think I’d have to guts to have a tombstone like THIS. More unusual tombstones are HERE.

6. I thought the Drill Baby Drill refrain that the crowd chanted and Giuliani joined in on at the RNC sounded like a bunch of drunken sailors and was as bad as Bush’s Bring ‘em on.

7. Pulitzer Prize winning author and New York Times columnist Tom Friedman said during an interview with Fresh Air’s Terry Gross that chanting Drill Baby Drill refrain at the RNC is like the equivalent of chanting “IBM typewriters … IBM typewriters” at the onset of the computer age. He also said he thought Obama was the only green candidate left. More HERE.

8. My Terry Gross is young, has long straight blonde hair, looks a little like the actress Laura Linney, and doesn’t wear glasses. This Terry Gross – the real one who produces and hosts National Public Radio’s interview talk show “Fresh Air” – is petite to the point of looking like Mary Martin playing the role of Peter Pan. She has short cropped hair, wears glasses, and is in her late 50s. ~ Read about the time I got interviewed by Terry Gross (sort of) HERE.

9. Last week I wondered when saying “God Bless America” by each politician after each speech given became required. Here’s what I found from the Washington Post: The omnipresence of “God bless America” as a political slogan is an entirely recent phenomenon. We know because we’ve run the numbers. Analysis of more than 15,000 public communications by political leaders from Franklin Roosevelt’s election in 1932 — the beginning of the modern presidency — through six years of George W. Bush’s administration revealed that prior to Ronald Reagan taking office in 1981, the phrase had passed a modern president’s lips only once in a major address: Richard Nixon used it to conclude a 1973 speech about Watergate.

10. Ripped from the pages of my journal: Republicans and Democrats are like Fords and Chevys. Like the Yankees and the Red Sox, they have an almost irrational need to take sides.

11. How did the left come to refer to liberal and the right conservative? This apparently arose from the use of the terms in the parliaments of foreign countries; the parts of the parliamentary chambers located to the right and left of the presiding officers accordingly representing conservative and liberal elements respectively. More HERE.

12. I never liked the symbol of the donkey for the Democratic Party. The Republican elephant is only a little better. Seems neither party chose their mascot symbols. They got stuck with them after a series of cartoons by Thomas Nast that first appeared in Harper’s Weekly in 1874. More on that HERE.

13. If Republicans are from Mars and Liberals are from Venus, where are Independents from?

Thursday headquarters is here. My other 13's are here. View more 13 Thursday’s here.

September 4, 2008

13 Thursday Gets My Vote

13votehopex.jpg 1. I watched PBS's full coverage of the Democratic National Convention like others watched the Olympics (which I didn’t).

2. I don’t watch sports either, but watched Sheryl Crow, Stevie Wonder, and Michael McDonald sing at the DNC like others watch the Super Bowl at halftime.

3. I’m a registered Independent, fiscally conservative, who votes Democrat because they represent my interests in Labor Rights, Civil Rights, Women’s Rights, and Environmental Protections better than their counterparts. (They also have been better at balancing the budget and controlling the deficit as of late).

4. From day one my first choice for the Democratic Presidential Candidate would have been Al Gore, then Obama, then Hillary. I liked Kucinich too but he reminded me of Ringo to the Beatles Paul, John, and George. We needed his truthful drumbeat to keep it all together, but in reality, he wasn’t going to be writing or singing those top ten songs.

5. Gore (who is my true president in an alternate world) joked: John McCain, a man who has earned our respect on many levels, is now openly endorsing the policies of the Bush-Cheney White House and promising to actually continue them, the same policies all over again. Hey, I believe in recycling, but that's ridiculous.

6. Seriously though, he also said: “We're borrowing money from China to buy oil from the Persian Gulf to burn it in ways that destroy the future of human civilization. Every bit of that has to change.”

7. Oprah supposedly cried her eyelashes off listening to Obama’s speech. See HERE.

8. Republican, Pat Buchanan thought it was the best speech he ever heard and that it transcended politics. See HERE.

9. Buchanan’s favorite line from Obama's speech: I love this country, and so do you, and so does John McCain. The men and women who serve in our battlefields may be Democrats and Republicans and Independents, but they have fought together and bled together and some died together under the same proud flag. They have not served a Red America or a Blue America - they have served the United States of America.

10. One of mine was: I get it. I realize that I am not the likeliest candidate for this office. I don't fit the typical pedigree, and I haven't spent my career in the halls of Washington. But I stand before you tonight because all across America something is stirring. What the nay-sayers don't understand is that this election has never been about me. It's been about you.

11. I remember a time when every single politician that gave a speech didn’t have to end it with “God Bless America.” When did that become required?

12. Bill Clinton’s appearance at the Democratic National Convention was met with one of the longest ovations ever recorded at such an event. That was before he got stuck in an elevator.

13. I guess I wasn’t alone: More people watched Obama speak from a packed stadium in Denver on Thursday than watched the Olympics opening ceremony in Beijing, the final "American Idol" or the Academy Awards this year, Nielsen Media Research said Friday. ~ AP

Thursday headquarters is here. My other 13's are here. View more 13 Thursday’s here.

August 27, 2008

13 Snapshots

13albx.jpg 1. When it comes to the school of life I don’t do a lot of homework but I pay attention in class.

2. My friend Mara says she’s a “one hour photo” sort of person.

3. How come after spending three weeks vacationing on the beach when I finally got home I felt like I had missed the summer?

4. My nails were ragged, my bangs overgrown, the corn in my garden had dried on the stalks, and I hadn’t seen butterfly since I left.

5. I bought one of those shark steam floor cleaners after watching the infomercial on TV. I’m here to report that it works great on an already clean floor, which is another way of saying that it doesn’t.

6. I already miss Polaroid pictures. Even though I didn’t take many, I liked knowing I could.

7. I recently noticed that little girls never wear black bathing suits.

8. I was glad I had my "Miracle Suit" (bought at 70% at the outlet mall in Rehobeth) when we went out for ice cream on our last night on vacation. I couldn’t decide which flavor to get so I got two scoops of two different kinds in giant cone. The Miracle Suit claims to make you look 10 pounds lighter.

9. In a dream so beautiful could you dare to be a miracle? ~ Jeff Puryear Donna the Buffalo.

10. I think of libraries like I think of embassies. No matter where you are you can go into one for information and refuge.

11. I chew down corn on the cob like I mow my lawn, with little pieces left sticking up between the rows.

12. I love to play in the sand. You can play HERE.

13. Remember when interest in Senator Obama soared after he gave the keynote speech at the last Democratic National Convention? Last night our former Governor Mark Warner, who I was Floydfesting with in July HERE and who I wrote about in Floyd Press HERE, gave the address. See why Warner could be President someday HERE.

P.S. THIS is the real miracle.

Thursday headquarters is here. My other 13's are here. View more 13 Thursday’s here. #148

August 21, 2008

13 From the Life Guard Stand

bbtt13.jpg 1. In a pinch when I’m at the beach without a notebook, I can write in the margins of a clam box menu using my flip flop sandal for a desk.

2. Compared to the crowds here at Bethany Beach, Delaware, where we’re visiting Joe’s family, and Nantasket Beach in Hull, Massachusetts, where I was recently visiting mine; Nantasket was practically deserted, but Bethany is better for swimming because the water is so much warmer.

3. At a certain hour in the evening the whole town goes out for ice cream cones, like every kid rides a boogie board at the ocean during the day.

4. The woman who goes up and down the beach looking for coins with a metal detector reminds me of someone feeling for change in the back of the cushions of a couch.

4. I’m starting to want to learn lifeguard sign language.

5. On the sixteenth day of my two state beach vacations, I woke up and said to Joe, “Woe is me. Another day to spend on the beach and the sun is shining.”

6. When I was in Hull, I was reading from an old box of letters that my mother gave me, sent to my dad when he was in the army during WWII. If I wasn’t convinced that my Irish grandparents were poets, the letter they wrote to my dad convinced me. It was signed: “Oceans of Love and a Kiss on each Wave, Ma and Pa.”

7. The waves are so much bigger in Bethany than they are in Nantasket. When they’re really high, I have to carefully plot my way past the breakers and into the ocean, like I navigate my bike across the highway during traffic.

8. I bought a new “Miracle Suit” at 70% off at the Rehobeth Outlet Mall. Will I be able to walk on water now?

9. Watching a father run into the ocean to save his young daughter from a giant wave wipe-out, brought tears to my eyes.

10. Joe was reading this out loud from “Wise Heart” by Jack Kornfield: “Each time we meet another human being and honor their dignity, we help those around us. Their hearts resonate with ours in exactly the same way the strings of an unplucked violin vibrate with the sounds of a violin playing nearby. Western psychology has documented this phenomenon of “mood contagion” or limbic resonance. If a person filled with panic or hatred walks into a room, we feel it immediately, and unless we are very mindful, that person’s negative state will begin to overtake ours. When a joyfully expressive person walks into the room, we can feel that state as well.”

11. Next, he read about the Dalai Lama staying in a hotel for dignitaries while visiting San Francisco. “When it was time to leave he told the hotel management that he wanted to thank the staff in person, as many as wished to meet him. So on the last morning a long line of maids and dishwashers, cooks and maintenance men, secretaries and managers made their way to the circular driveway at the hotel entrance. And before the Dalai Lama’s motorcade left, he walked down the line of employees, lovingly touching each hand, vibrating the strings of each heart,” Kornfield wrote.

12. Watching dolphins from the beach is always a treat, even though they look like sharks. When I first saw whales off the coast off Provincetown a few years ago, I learned how the saying ‘I was floored' came about because I was so overwhelmed at the awesome sight of them that I literally dropped down to the floor.

13. The Bethany Beach experience is not complete until we: 1. Get an overflowing tub of hand-cut, peanut oil fried French fries. 2. Walk or ride our bikes downtown for an ice-cream cone on the boardwalk. 3. Buy a new toy in the toy store like THIS one. Jaws on the beach video Here.

Thursday headquarters is here. My other 13's are here. View more 13 Thursday’s here.

August 14, 2008

Thirteen Thursday: The Jet Set-back

13gate.jpg 1. The night after my fisherman brother John brought lobsters home and I video-taped them, he said, “Colleen, I have something else for you to take pictures of” and then he spread THESE out on the table.

2. I guess I’m a full-time beach bum now, at least for the rest of August. After spending ten days visiting my family in the Massachusetts beach town I grew up in, and with only one day at home in Floyd, I’m heading out with Joe to visit his mother who also lives by the beach.

3. While in Hull, an old friend was hitting on me. He’s done that since high school and I guess he feels compelled to keep up the charade. When I reminded him that I was happily married, he assured me that he was harmless, saying, “I’m impotent.”

4. We then went on to have a long conversation about how the drug Cialis works because we are just that comfortable with each other and I was curious, never having known anyone who used it. (His condition is a side effect of heart medication).

5. At the airport check-in a bottle of my facial cleanser was confiscated when it was determined to be a tad too big for what they allow. The same thing happened to Deana a couple of weeks ago, but she had time to put hers back in her car. With fifteen minutes before my plane took off, I was randomly chosen to be patted down and have my bags checked, so I wasn’t so lucky (besides the fact that I had no car to take it to).

6. During the bag check, feeling sure I was going to miss my plane, I couldn’t tell if I was breathing deeply to calm myself down, or if I was hyperventilating.

7. Deana’s confiscated skin care product cost over $40. Mine was a fruit enzyme cleanser from Mychelle for about $16. I like Mychelle products because they contain no parabens (estrogen mimicker), artificial chemicals, colors, or fragrances.

8. Your body absorbs about 50% of what you put on your skin, which is why when I buy a skin product, I ask myself, ‘could I eat this?”

9. Losing the bottle of facial cleanser and being patted down at the airport was the least of my problems. I hope to write more about the cancelled flights I endured and an unscheduled overnight in Saugus, eight miles from Logan on Boston’s north shore. I’m calling this unwritten pieced “The Saugus Saga.”

10. The good news was that because of the delay I flew into Roanoke instead of Greensboro, which meant that Joe (who picked me up) and I were able to get a twenty minute fix of baby Bryce before heading up the mountain to Floyd. Video clip is HERE.

11. I was so happy to see the rolling Blue Ridge Mountains from the plane window that I took several photos of them. With the focused camera I could stop the plane propeller but when I looked at it with my eye it was going too fast to see.

12. I want to put a door and door frame that opens to nowhere in my yard so I can imagine myself walking through it while imagining a new frame of mind.

13. Sanity should return in September.

Thursday headquarters is here. My other 13's are here. View more 13 Thursday’s here. #146

August 7, 2008

13 for the Hometown

13notbeach.jpg 1. You know you’re having a hometown vacation when you’re riding your mother’s neighbor’s bike and someone stops you on the street to ask where the library is and you actually know.

2. I get such a boost from my sunset walks at the ocean that when I get ready to take one I tell my mother I’m going down for my Vitamin B-each shot.

3. Because my hometown is a peninsula, only about five miles long and as narrow as a road wide in some places, I can start watching the sunset from the ocean and then walk to the bay and see the rest of it.

4. Named after Hull England, Hull Massachusetts is 20 miles from Boston by car and only 5 miles by sea. The main beach is called Nantasket, named by the Wampanoag Indian Tribe and meaning "at the strait" or "low-tide place."whitefex.jpg

5. In July of 2005 I posted an excerpt from the book I wrote, The Jim and Dan Stories, about the white feather that dropped in my path while walking on Nantasket Beach after my brother Jimmy died in 2001, and one that appeared in the hospital a month later, right before my brother Danny died. Three years later I’m still getting comments on that post. See HERE.

6. Former Boston mayor John F. Fitzgerald, the father of Rose Kennedy; President Calvin Coolidge; and Joe Kennedy Sr. all summered in Hull. So did Barbara Walters.

7. Video: Boogie Board Days on Nantasket Beach with a cameo role by Jonathan Livingston Seagull HERE.

8. Watch the Nantasket Beach tsunami HERE.

9. See my 40th High School Class Reunion Picture, taken last Saturday HERE. My High School Graduation picture is HERE.

10. Judging by the letters in a shoebox on the bottom of my father’s closet (which I’m allowed to read, as the family archivist, two years after his death) he had a lot of girlfriends when he was a nineteen year old WWII soldier, including my mother.

11. The letters are written in pencil. The envelopes are stamped with 3 cent stamps. One is sealed with lipstick kisses.

12. We thought my father looked like Elvis Presley when he was young. What do you think? Look HERE.

13. The Three Musketeers of Gulldom do a BlueMan routine on Nantasket Beach HERE. Next they perform as Larry, Curly, and Moe Gull HERE.

Thursday headquarters is here. My other 13's are here. View more 13 Thursday’s here.

July 31, 2008

13: Walkie Talkie Talk

walktlk.jpg 1. I like to type “okeedoke” instead of “yes” just to piss off my spell checker.

2. I find the little yellow triangle icon with an exclamation point in it annoying.

3. My Exclamation poem: A kiss with punctuation … indicates excitement … long and thoughtful … to the point … ending quickly … with a flair … the exclamation kiss!

4. THIS was really unsettling, seeing my blog translated into redneck, jive, Elmer Fudd speech, and more…

5. I received a three part meme last week from poet/blogger Felicia Mitchell. The questions and answers are as follows: 1. The last book you purchased? Odd Botany, a book of poetry by Thorpe Moeckel, after he gave a reading at Floyd’s Café Del Sol. 2. The last film/network series DVD you purchased? The movie Elf for my daughter-in-law’s daughter for Christmas. 3. The last music or spoken word recording you purchased? No Promises, a CD by Carla Bruni, in which she sings the words of poems written by poets like Emily Dickinson and more.

6. More press on the Teen Meditation Retreat. This one was written by a recent high school graduate who attended the retreat on assignment for the Virginian Pilot in Norfolk HERE.

7. At first it seemed that my husband Joe had fallen under the seduction of a mistress. Since he took on the task of coordinating on-site parking for FloydFest ‘07, I hadn’t seen him in days. For the past five years, he’s volunteered his time in exchange for a weekend pass, but this year, as the Floyd high school soccer coach, he signed on to head up one of the most intensive behind-the-scenes jobs. In exchange, FloydFest makes a substantial donation to the soccer program to help with the purchase of uniforms and equipment … I knew if I wanted to spend any time with Joe I would have to come into the fold, which meant seeing FloydFest through the windshield of his golf cart. ~ Excerpt from A FloydFest Date, a story I wrote after last year’s FloyFest that appeared in the program this year.

8. At the festival quite a few people who had read the above story came up to me to ask how the date was going. I answered, “Which date? The one with Joe or the one with Governor Warner?" See HERE and HERE.

9. Now that the corn and tomatoes are coming in like gangbusters, ready for picking and eating, it’s hard to pull myself away for my planned trip to Hull, Massachusetts, (the peninsula I grew up on) to visit my family.

10. The good news is that the corn came in just when the cold sore on my lip cleared up, which means I can eat it salted and buttered, painlessly.

11. We get paid in corn for We get paid in corn … for our garden labor … We strike it rich … with every husk … pulled back … The sun has forged … an Aztec banquet … a silky purse … for August gold … More HERE.

12. “Don’t tell people how to live their lives. Just tell stories and they’ll figure out how the story applies to them.” ~ Randy Pausch October 23, 1960 – July 25, 2008

13. When we were kids and we’d ask our dad to tell us a story, this is what he’d say: I”ll tell you a story of Jack and the Dory. Now my story’s begun. I’ll tell you another of Jack and his brother. Now my story’s all done.

Post notes: The photo above is of the walkie talkie my husband used while working at FloydFest (See and scroll HERE) this year. He knows I collect 13’s and made sure to point it out to me. Thursday headquarters is here. My other 13's are here. View more 13 Thursday’s here. #144.

July 24, 2008

13 Thursday: Hold on to Your Wig

13wg2.jpg1. The Teen Meditation Retreat that Joe organized and attended last week got a good write-up in the Roanoke Times HERE. It included a large feature photo on the EXTRA front page of Abraham Cherrix (who I interviewed HERE) doing yoga. My own story is coming soon ...

2. Meditation: It’s like combing the hair … of a wild shaggy mind … making a part … untangling the thoughts … to some unruly feelings … that need grooming. More HERE.

3. These days writing has crowded out my own meditation practice. I wake up with sentences wanting to be written down, and writing them down seems important, even more important than my first cup of tea.

4. A few days ago I woke up and the first thing I said to Joe was, “which came first Yogi Bear or Yogi Berra?’

5. Last week I wrote that eating fruit and yogurt in the morning wigs me out like drinking alcohol for breakfast would (because of the sugars). I got some comments and further explained myself, saying at one point that because I have CFS I’m not your average berry-loving bear, which then led to me think about Yogi (which by the way is also what meditaters are called).

6. The results from the Wikipedia: Yogi Berra (whose first name was really Lawrence) picked up his more famous nickname from a friend who said he resembled a Hindu holy man (yogi) they had seen in a movie, whenever Berra sat around with arms and legs crossed waiting to bat, or while looking sad after a losing game. Years later, the Hanna-Barbera cartoon character Yogi Bear was named after Berra, something Berra did not appreciate after he started being periodically addressed as "Yogi Bear."

7. It goes on: Berra, who quit school in the eighth grade, has a tendency toward malapropism and fracturing the English language in highly provocative, interesting ways. Simultaneously denying and confirming his reputation, Berra once stated, "I never said half the things I really said."

8 Some people have said that I talk like Yogi Berra. And Deana from Friday Night Fish Fry says her way of speaking has been likened to Norm Chomsky. I mean Norm Crosby (see what I mean?)

9. I had to look up Norm Crosby and discovered this about the comedian: King of the malaprop, Norm always speaks from his 'diagram' and drinks ‘decapitated' coffee. His confusing word play and twisted speech has been an audience favorite since his days on The Ed Sullivan Show.

10. Deana thinks Bobby McGee jumped off the Tallahatchie Bridge like I try to order New Balance beer at a bar when I really want New Castle.

11. Around the same time I was thinking about Yogi Berra, I also got curious about the poem “Roses are Red, Violets are Blue, Sugar is Sweet, and So are You,” after titling a recent blog post “Roses Are Red.” The fact that I then spent twenty minutes trying to find out who wrote it and when is why my blog mission statement reads: Whenever I don't know exactly what it is I'm doing and it borders on wasting my time, I call it research.

12. Seems it’s a nursery rhyme written by Anonymous.

13. Wig out HERE with me and Claudia.

Thursday headquarters is here. My other 13's are here. View more 13 Thursday’s here.

July 17, 2008

A Very Berry 13

bb.jpg 1. My new line as of late is: “I’ll bring the cucumbers!” They grow overnight.

2. Working on three stories at once (like I have been this past week) is like juggling apples, oranges, pears.

3. And I’m not working with a full deck. Seeing as how most everyone else gets 52 cards of energy to spend everyday and I only get about 25, I hate having to waste energy doing things like waiting in line for my turn at the computer, which I’ve had to do lately, since my husband, Joe, started working at home too.

4. Joe is a neater gardener than me and he’s been more involved in the garden this year. Walking down the aisle of tall corn and tomatoes that he keeps neatly staked and weeded, I feel like a bride walking down the aisle in my kind of sky ceiling church.

5. Plum is yum and cherry is cheery … But what part of berry is raspy? … Bananas can be split … or cause you to slip … Apples remind me of fall … I figure a fig is easier to figure … than three meanings … of the word date … A lemon could be worthless … Prune could mean cut … A raisin is a grape … But a grapefruit is not … The rest of this fruit loop is HERE.

6. When I was nineteen Yoko Ono’s book “Grapefruit” was like a Bible I carried around with me. HERE.

7. I just heard that The Hotel Floyd manager recently had some guests from Ireland and when he asked them how they heard about the hotel they said they read about Floyd and the hotel in The Observer, a large U.K. newspaper. Check it out HERE.

8. Summer camp is an all-American tradition for so many teens. But what kind of summer camp teaches kindness as part of its curriculum, or instructs campers to disconnect from their high-tech, high paced world in order to sit still and listen? Those are my first lines and as far as I’ve gotten on a story I’m writing on the Teen Meditation Retreat in Stuart that Joe organized this year, hosted by Earthsong Retreat and Organic Farm.

9. Why does Queen Anne’s Lace have one black floret in the middle of the flower? I’ve been wondering that since I was a little girl.

10. In some tribes Native American bead artists add one bead outside the design pattern so as not to lose their soul when gazing at the piece. Is that the answer to number nine? b2mths2.jpg

11. For me, eating fruit and/or yogurt in the morning would be like starting the day with an alcoholic drink (probably due to the fructose and lactose sugars). What I eat for breakfast might be the single most important thing I can do to maintain spending my 25 cards of energy wisely. I need eggs every day.

12. The photo above is of my two month old baby grandson named Bryce, AKA “The apple of my eye.”

13. Everyone appreciated the cucumbers I brought to our Café Del Sol Scrabble game yesterday.

Thursday headquarters is here. My other 13's are here. View more 13 Thursday’s here.

July 10, 2008

13 Thursday: Over the Top

13elva3.jpg 1. On the Fourth of July, I made a red, white, and blue dessert for my house guest: strawberries, blueberries, and whipped cream!

2. I actually had two house guests over the weekend, one who wore American flag boxers, and the other wore Red Sox ones.

3. I found myself being thankful that it doesn’t take any gas to walk to the mailbox after I made several trips back and forth when the mailman was late.

4. The Rhododendrons on the Blue Ridge Parkway are in peak bloom and my long driveway is lined with them, which makes the walk to get the mail enjoyable. After my last walk, I checked the Wikipedia and found that the word Rhododendron comes from the Greek words for rose and tree. There are over 1000 species, including azaleas. It’s the national flower of Nepal. Photos coming soon …

5. When emails and blog comments come into my mailbox, a bell rings that I imagine is saying “Cha ching.”

6. Every time Mara called over the weekend, my friend who I was providing respite foster care for and who likes to answer the phone, handed it to me after answering, and said, “It’s your sister, Maria.

7. He also said, “I bet you wore bib overalls in high school.”

8. How wrong was he? I teased my hair and wore black fish net stocking.

9. June emailed me THESE very cool creative painted hand photos. And THIS was my attempt at the same.

10. After posting about thrift shopping while listening to Warren Zevon’s Werewolves in London, I did some research and listened to some Zevon songs because anyone who writes lyrics like: I saw a werewolf with a Chinese menu in his hand … walkin through the streets of Soho in the rain … gonna get a big dish of beef chow mein … is interesting to me.

11. Zevon, who experienced a range of successes and failures, rehab, and more than one comeback, wrote lyrics like John Prine, but darker. With prophetic songs like “I’ll sleep when I’m dead” and an album called “Life’ll Kill Ya,” Zevon was diagnosed with inoperable cancer in 2002 and died in 2003. His insight on facing death, coined on the David Letterman Show: Enjoy every sandwich.

12. I know THIS is over the top. But I’m posting it for my Asheville Potter son Josh (who at one time wore smiley face boxers) because it’s his birthday, and I think he’ll find it almost as funny as the Napoleon Dynamite talking birthday card I sent him. Happy Birthday, Josh!

13. And THIS is only almost over the top: Seems Jim Carrey recently went to the beach wearing his girlfriend Jenny McCarthy’s bathing suit. (Scroll down for the up close view.)

Thursday headquarters is here. My other 13's are here. View more 13 Thursday’s here. #141

July 3, 2008

13 Thursday: Write On

mara13cp.jpg 1. You know when you forget someone’s name and no matter how hard you try, even if it’s on the tip of your tongue, you can’t remember. Then you go off and do something else and the name just pops in your head? Writing poetry is like that.

2. At Johanna and Nick’s wedding, my friend Eli, who works at the Chinese Medicine Clinic I go to, was massaging my injured ankle. “I’ve hurt this ankle before. Well, you know my chart,” I said to him. “I try not to think about people charts when I’m at a wedding,” he answered. “And I try not to write stories about people when at a wedding, but once I get home anything goes," I answered. And it did. See HERE.

3. Years ago when I worked in day care there was a little boy who had been born on the Fourth of July. His middle name was Boom.

4. Last year at a fourth of July party I got THIS close to a shark.

5. Live fireworks HERE.

6. You’ve heard of Girls Gone Wild? THIS is Wild Girls in Need of a Hairdresser, starring yours truly.

7. My blog roll is starting to feel like my closet, kinda overstuffed with stuff I’m not using.

8. The jury is still out on my new answering machine message. Jayn likes it; Mara can’t get used to it because it doesn’t elicit poetic answers like my last one and won’t make me any friends, she says.

9. This is it: People who work at home … Don’t answer the phone … At least not right away … Do I need to pick up? … Call you right back? … After the beep have your say …

10. I tend to putter and stutter before the flutter of keys on the keyboard each day.

11. Frisbeetarianism is the belief that when you die, your soul goes up on the roof and gets stuck. ~ George Carlin

12. David Letterman on George Bush: We should get our money back on that guy, don’t you think?

13. The photo above, taken at the Spoken Word this past Saturday night, is of Mara’s signature cargo pants with a 13 signature written on them, and my signature notebook. Also pictured are my remedies for public speaking phobia: a bottle of rescue remedy and a dark beer. More on that phobia HERE.

Thursday headquarters is here. My other 13's are here. View more 13 Thursday’s here. #140

June 26, 2008

The 13 Thursday Playlist

13ipod2s.jpg1. Hung-over with fun from the wedding on Saturday, I dragged myself to a Woman’s Clothing Exchange the next day. Over a dozen women came and dumped piles of clothes all over my friend Penny’s living room for a real Filenes’s Basement experience. I didn’t have the energy to organize a fashion show shot of all of us in our newly acquired recycled clothes like I did at the last one HERE.

2. Isn’t it ironic that you need your glasses in order to see well enough to find your glasses?

3. What ever happened to the Crash Test Dummies? I found their website and discovered that they’re still making music, but none of it has had the same commercial success that God Shuffled His Feet had. The song that plays on their website seems to tell it all: I’m laying down … I’m playing dead … I ain’t fetching any stick … No way baby.

4. Remember Wavy Gravy, the clown at Woodstock, famous for saying what we have in mind is breakfast for 400,000? I met Wavy a few years back when he was in Floyd and was MC-ing FloydFest. He’s still a clown and went around the festival with a toy alligator on a leash.

5. Where else but in Floyd could you learn from an old-timer how to forage ginseng one day and then meet Wavy Gravy, the Woodstock clown with an ice-cream flavor named after him, in town for Floyd Fest the next? ~ From Homegrown, a WVTF Radio Essay HERE.

6. I was invited by Poetkat to do a meme in which I name seven songs that are shaping my summer. Not counting the wood thrush and other birdsong, I’ve been listening to my brand new playlist, started when Joe got me my first Ipod for my birthday in May. Songs include: Tomorrow People by Ziggy Marley, It’s in the Way that You Use It by Eric Clapton, Mr. Jones by Counting Crows, My Favorite Mistake by Sheryl Crow, Good People by Jack Johnson, Building a Mystery by Sarah Mclachlan, Back to the Garden by Neil Young, and Your Life is Now John Mellencamp. How about you?

7. I’ve recently been curious about Tim Russert’s playlist, after I read something referring to it online. I’m pretty sure it included music by Bruce Springsteen. It was no secret that Russert liked the Boss, and, judging by the tribute that Springsteen gave to Russert at his Memorial Service HERE, Springsteen liked Russert too.

8. I have an affinity for both Russert and Springsteen. They’re both my age, and like me, both came from working class Catholic families in the northeast. Russert was Irish Catholic and Springsteen is Irish/Italian Catholic. No wonder they both always felt so familiar.

9. I consider certain songs at certain times in my life as “medicine songs,” and I use them to raise energy. I manifested my husband Joe by singing and dancing to Steve Winwood’s Higher Love over and over. When I told my sister Tricia this, she said she also manifested her husband with the same song. Her friend, who was single at the time, wanted to try it, so we played it and sang and danced together. Tricia’s friend is married now.

10. I think of George Carlin as the Willie Nelson of comedy. Both were/are progressives with ponytails, and both were/are undeniably recognizable as one-of-a-kind in their genres. After George Carlin died, Jon Stewart said, "I'm getting awfully tired of people we need, leaving us.” Carlin's humor and insight will be missed.

11. I learned what’s on Barrack Obama’s playlist while watching Charlie Rose on Tuesday night. Rolling Stone editor Jann Wenner was on the show and had just interviewed Barrack for the magazine. He reported that Barrack had 30 Bob Dylan songs on his IPod, along with some Earth Wind and Fire and Yo-Yo Ma.

12. This year’s FloydFest is July 24-27. Check out the music roster HERE. And HERE are two past FloydFest posts in which my friend Johanna (whose wedding I just went to) and her ponytail figure in.

13. Rock the boat with your cursor HERE, compliments of my sister Sherry.

Thursday headquarters is here. My other 13's are here. View more 13 Thursday’s here.

June 19, 2008

13 Thursday Flutterby

13butterfly.jpg

1. At the beach Joe said to me, “I’m so glad you introduced me to naps, baths, and beaches.” Yeah, that about sums me up.

2. I didn’t think of my father, who died in 2005, very much on Father’s Day. But the next morning, upon waking and while still in-between the dream world and this one, I felt him (or the lack of him) and whispered “Happy Father’s Dad, daddy.”

3. THIS is the song I want played at my funeral.

4. “What do you want to do before you die?” AKA “It’s amazing what people do when you give them the chance to be a hero” HERE.

5. One of the things I’d like to do before I die is help Janet meet Johnny Depp before she dies. She’s very “Fond of Snape” and Depp.

6. I recently realized while looking through my stockpile of greeting cards that sympathy cards now outnumber the birthday cards.

7. After covering a story on the 300th year anniversary of the Brethren church, I realized that preaching is a lot like stand-up comedy, although none the Catholic priests of my past were very funny.

8. Hail Mary Full of Grapes: When we were kids there was no question, we had to go to church and catechism classes too. The best part of going to church was my First Holy Communion, when I first received the host, which represents the body of Christ. I felt like a bride all dressed in white, complete with the mysterious veil. After my First Holy Communion, I was old enough to help the younger ones study their catechism lessons. But one day, my dad overheard me teaching them their first prayers…Hail Mary, Full of grapes, The Lord is with thee… This sounded right to me, especially considering that it was soon followed by the line…blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus. At seven years old, the word “womb” was over my head, but I surely knew what fruit was. ~ Excerpt from my book The Jim and Dan Stories

9. I had a great time in Virginia Beach last week but was sorry to miss going to the Floyd Library’s celebration of the new library addition where Grammy Award winning poet Nikki Giovanni spoke. June from Spatter got some great shots HERE. I wrote about Nikki in a post called How to be a Better Writer HERE.

10. My friend Jayn and I named the June Museletter (our community newsletter) “Flutterby.” That’s what she used to call a butterfly when she was a girl.

11. In a recent Larry King's interview with Jon Stewart, King asked Stewart if he thought America was ready for a woman or a black president. Jon looked at him quizzically and said 'This is such a non-question. Did anyone ask us in 2000 if Americans were ready for a moron?'

12. A Life Milestone: On Father’s Day, I talked with my son Dylan on the phone and wished him his very first Father’s Day. The latest video clip of my grandson Bryce, born May 14th, is HERE.

13. Driving home from the beach Joe and I were listening to a tape by archetypal psychologist, James Hillman. My favorite part was when Hillman said this about himself: “If Hillman were not, he would have to be invented.” I think that applies to all of us.

Thursday headquarters is here. My other 13's are here. View more 13 Thursday’s here.

June 12, 2008

13 in the Sand

13sand.jpg 1. Blogging helps me know what day it is, which I wouldn’t know otherwise because I don’t have a regular job, and I especially don’t know when I’m at the beach, which I am now.

2. Yesterday I was browsing through “Virginia Living” magazine and found this interesting story about Edgar Allen Poe: A bust of Poe was unveiled in 1909 for the museum and garden dedicated to him in Richmond, Virginia. The bust was stolen and soon after, the museum got a call from the thief. He agreed to tell museum authorities where they would find the bust, but only after he was read Poe’s poem, The Spirit of the Dead, out loud over the phone. After the reading, he directed the authorities to The Raven Pub. The bust was found there on the bar, where the caller had bought it a beer.

3. According to Floyd legend, Edgar Allen Poe had a girlfriend in Floyd that he used to visit and who is now buried in the Old Jacksonville Cemetery.

4. Add a T to Poe and it says Poet.

5. Lately I’ve been getting more spam comments than blog comments, which can make me feel strangely more popular than if I was getting no comments at all.

6. I’ve also been reading Gift from the Sea, a book that I’ve had for thirty years but haven’t read up until now. This is what you do on vacation.

7. The beach is not a place to work, to read, write or think. I should have remembered that from other years. Too warm, too damp, too soft for any real mental discipline or sharp or sharp flights of spirit. One never learns. Hopefully, one carries down the faded straw bag, lumpy with books, clean paper, long over-due unanswered letters, freshly sharpened pencils, lists and good intentions. The books remain unread, the pencils break their points and the pads rest smooth and unblemished as the cloudless sky. No reading, no writing, no thoughts even – at least, not at first. ~ Excerpt from Gift from the Sea by Anne Morrow Lindbergh.
bpail.jpg

8. Contrary to the above excerpt, I got lots of writing done at the beach today.

9. I was hoping to finish a Gestalt around my ankle injury, a reoccurring injury that is related to going to the ocean (a representation of the mother), but it turned out to be just another experience of limping around in the sand.

10. Question asked to Joe by Colleen after she injured her ankle: “So where do think the foot reflexology point for the foot is on the foot?”

11. I was visiting someone’s blog recently and saw the name June in a comment. For a moment, I thought it was my blog friend June from Spatter, but with a second look I realized it was the date, with June being the month we’re in.

12. Favorite quote found in the blogsphere this week: "You must stay drunk on writing so reality cannot destroy you." Ray Bradbury

13. Go get your feet wet HERE.

Thursday headquarters is here. My other 13's are here. View more 13 Thursday’s here.

June 5, 2008

The Thirteen Thursday Progress Report

13dogll.jpg 1. I’ve never been very sports-minded. It’s taken THIS recent injury to my leg to get me in soccer knee pads. They come in handy when I have to crawl on all fours to get around.

2. Since I’ve hurt my leg and taken to crawling, I’ve noticed how dirty it is down here on the floor.

3. On the third day of my injury, Joe was able to track down some crutches for me. I also use a wheeled office chair to scoot around the kitchen.

4. So much for our IPOD living room Dance Parties. Maybe I can get Joe to vacuum to “What’s the Frequency Kenneth.”

5. If you Image Google “The Dog Ate My Homework” THIS is what you’ll see.

6. I pretty much used to get all A’s in school until Algebra came along. Algebra and trying to solve complicated math word problems made me feel like I was going to have a seizure. I later learned I had THIS.

7. Barack Obama has a Facebook page, which is where I learned that he’s a Leo and his favorite musicians are Miles Davis; John Coltrane; Bob Dylan; and Stevie Wonder.

8. Not being able to walk made Steven Tyler’s song “Walk this Way” come to mind. I think Tyler looks like Chrissie Hynde with Mick Jagger’s lips. I should know. I saw him up real close. That story is HERE.

9. Remembering Summer Through my Feet: Growing up on a peninsula in Hull, Massachusetts, my whole body was immersed in water for most of the summer. My feet would flap like flippers through the cool dark liquid bay, while I imagined I was a seal or a mermaid. I recall the feeling of sand through my toes and the sticky residue of dried salt water on my body and in my hair. I can still remember my revelation when, as a young girl, I licked my own skin and tasted the ocean. ~Excerpt from a WVTF Radio Essay, which can be read in its entirety HERE.

10. A Not So Stupid Dog Trick: The best I’ve come across HERE.

11. In the News: Green our Vaccines March on Washington, rally, with keynote address by Robert Kennedy Jr. Watch an ABC video with Jenny McCarthy and Jim Carey HERE.

12. What’s the end product of all this progress in the name of profit? What does it provide or promote? At what expense do we proceed? Is our progress really greed? Can we progress to produce less? Will our children be prosperous? Can we promise? ~ Excerpt from a poem I wrote in 1990, called “The Pros and Cons of Progress.”

13. Yes We Can: HERE.

Thursday headquarters is here. My other 13's are here. View more 13 Thursday’s here.

May 29, 2008

13 Thursday: The Ink is Still Wet

13sidewalk.jpg 1. Printer’s ink is to a writer what gas is to a trucker. And it costs almost as much.

2. If you wake up and get on the computer too early, your typing might look like this: Mpr of ujt uo,t hpy d;; jpg ,tm up bp,t up ujtog dog ph ujt bpimuiy/

3. Ever since Joe got me an Ipod for my birthday, he’s been wanting to have one of our “Dance Parties,” (that’s when we play loud music and dance around in our living room), but I’ve been too busy or tired. Early Memorial Day morning, he was sleeping in. I woke him, saying, “Wake up, Joe. It’s time to have the dance party!” He laughed, turned over, and fell back asleep.

4. I really want THIS for my next birthday.

5. I recently discovered that posting photos of a new baby is good for blog traffic and comments. When I posted some of my first grandchild, Bryce, I got 36 well-wishing comments. Thank you everyone! bluebryce9.jpg

6. This week I sent my niece a letter. She lives on Batman Thumper Road. No kidding.

7. THIS is my favorite Youtube video as of late. I found it after posting THESE Fun House photos (taken at the mirrored elevator at Roanoke Memorial Hospital) and then doing some google research on glass elevators.

8. I had a game of Scrabble with Mara yesterday. Usually when we play, I take notes of things we say -- ideas for poems or blog posts. But this time we talked about sex and crushes and subjects that begin with, “Don’t repeat this to anyone, but …” I never wrote a thing down, not even the score. Mara did that.

9. Joe and I finally had our dance party last night. We danced to My Favorite Mistake by Sheryl Crow, Higher Love by Steve Winwood, Tomorrow People by Ziggy Marley, It's in the Way That You Use it by Eric Clapton, and What’s the Frequency Kenneth by REM (three times).

10. I got tagged by Greenish Lady for this 1-2-3 meme: 1. Pick up the nearest book. 2. Turn to page 123. 3. Find the fifth sentence and post the next three sentences. I picked up Bruce Weigl’s 2000 memoir (still on my desk after meeting him HERE), which deals with his service in the Vietnam War and his later return to the country: I want to tell you how it feels to stroll in a common zone among the people of your life after war. I want to tell you about the faith that it takes to come back and be among the sweetly uninitiated and to live as if calm or sane. Coming back to America, which I still loved in 1968, was like returning to a foreign land. (Let me know if you try this meme so I can come read your page 123.)

11. Claudia from Open Grove audio magazine and Out on a Limb blog has put out a call to book authors to share their experiences with publishing and marketing. She’s interested in collecting information on mainstream publishing, self-publishing, or e-book publishing and hopes to publish a resource guide sharing first hand accounts of what works and doesn’t work when selling books. Details are HERE.

12. My answers to some of Claudia’s questions can be found in these past posts: The Power of Print, Drive by Sales, and The Book: Fulfilling its Higher Purpose. Click on the titles to read more.

13. I feel bad that the photos of my new grandson just went off the front page, which is why I posted the new photo above of Bryce in blue. THIS is my bluest poem.

Thursday headquarters is here. My other 13's are here. View more 13 Thursday’s here.

May 22, 2008

Thirteen Slices of Life

SIPS.jpg 1. I find myself going to my own blog just to look at photos of my new grandson.

2. While in the hospital visiting my son, daughter-in-law, and their new baby, I saw an old clip on the hospital TV of Anita Bryant getting hit in the face with a pie. When I got home, I googled pie-throwing to learn more about its history. It began as slapstick shtick in silent movies and later became a way to make a political statement. I know Anita was out to lunch, but pie all over her face?

3. What would you do if someone threw a pie in your face? Anita prayed for the pie thrower, Thomas Friedman walked off stage, Ralph Nader threw it back, and Ann Coulter (successfully) ran away.

4. Some people have no taste and will use others misfortune to make a joke. I’ve seen some comments on the internet recently suggesting that Ted Kennedy’s brain tumor might have been responsible for his endorsement of Barack Obama. Kennedy (whose grandparents once owned a home in Hull, Massachusetts, where I grew up) has said that he endorsed Obama because Obama inspires him and reminds him of another time in history and someone else who inspired others, his brother JFK. Kennedy also said this about Obama as president: I believe we will move beyond the politics of fear and personal destruction and unite our country with the politics of common purpose.

5. I hope he lives to see it.

6. This is the poem I posted yesterday: A muse infused … pot full of tea … must be why Buddha … is smiling. And this is how Edgar Allen Poe would edit the same poem: A muse infused pot full of agony; even in the GALLOWS! In a swoon-- fables I saw!

7. Lewis Carroll: A muse infused pot full of tea must be called an egg. You sha'n't be beheaded! Get your own poems edited by Poe, Carroll, Mark Twain, Hunter Thomas, and even God and Dr. Seuss HERE.

8. Virginia Senator Jim Webb is also a novelist. He said this about being writer to Terry Gross in a recent NPR interview: I’m principally a writer. The process of writing is the same analytical process that I use in making decisions in the Senate … I’m able to take some of these complex issues and deal with them the same way you do as a writer, which is, you think about them, you interview people, you take your time in terms of coming to a conclusion, but then when you write it down you know you have to live with it. I basically am, in my persona, a writer, someone who likes to think deeply and go on the record as clearly as I can.

9. He also said this about his stint in the Naval Academy where he minored in Literature: I started reading the people that I thought were the greats, people like Steinbeck, Hemmingway, Faulkner. One of the things that really jumped out at me was how few of them had a formal education. If you were going to go out and get a PHD in literature, you become an expert on a theme or a person, but if you’re going to create, if you’re going to write you have to go out and live.

10. And he can write. During the interview he read this opening paragraph from his 1978 novel, Fields of Fire, about a character named Snake who was about to roll a heroin addict: There he went again. Smack man came unfocused in the middle of a word. The unformed syllable of dribble of bubbly spit along his chin and leaned forward that sudden rush of ecstasy so slow and deep it put him out. His knees bent a little and he stood there motionless, styled-out in a violet suit and turquoise high heeled shoes. He had the wave and his hair was so perfectly frozen in place that he seemed a mimic sculpture of himself, standing there all still with scag. The whole interview was good. Listen HERE.

11. Joe and I once thought of opening a shop on the Blue Ridge Parkway, selling baked goods and renting bikes. We’d call it “The Bikery.”

12. Pie goes good with tea but not if the pie’s in the sky or in the face.

13. Have you met Patry at Simply Wait? She’s a wonderful writer who bakes blueberry pies for her muse.

Thursday headquarters is here. My other 13's are here. View more 13 Thursday’s here.
#134

May 15, 2008

13 Thursday: Poet at Work

poetatwork.jpg1. The moon is poetry to the sun’s prose, shining indirectly but penetrating deeply.

2. Why do so many writers hold their hand up to the side of their face in their book jacket photos? Have you ever posed like that in the mirror just to see how it looks?

3. Comment to my blog friend Bonnie after seeing a photo of the work soil preparation she’s doing on her garden: “I’ll be posting a dirty picture of me soon.” HERE

4. I’ve been alternating gardening and writing and thinking how much typos are like weeds and weeds are like typos that I have to edit out.

5. “Our real poems are already in us and all we can do is dig,” said Jonathan Galassi.

6. My upstairs computer turns itself on when the phone rings. I just figured out that I can call myself in the morning before going up to work so that the computer is warmed up and read to go.

7. Mara on graduation ceremonies: I love the circumstance but not the pomp.

8. Obama on McCain: We can’t afford to let John McCain serve out George Bush’s third term.

9. And I am stuffed with facts … overweight with the nightly news …. Poetry is the bell … that saves me from being all consumed. ~ From Political Prose is Hard Labor by Colleen

10. Can you Dig THIS?

11. What has the world come to? If you type “muse” in an image search THIS comes up. So does THIS.

12. I have an imaginary poetry troupe called the Edgar Allen Poets.

13.You don’t need a fridge to play with THIS virtual poetry.

Thursday headquarters is here. My other 13's are here. View more 13 Thursday’s here.

May 8, 2008

Breaking the Thirteen Thursday Time Barrier

13moonx.jpg 1. I was recently typing the name of my book of poems, Muses Like Moonlight, and typed "Mooses Like Moonlight" by mistake.

2. Written on the inside on my latest notebook: Note to self – in writing.

3. I can understand why my youtube video of the Hokie Wave Cheer at the Dave Matthews and John Meyer concert at VA Tech has gotten nearly 2,000 hits. What I don’t understand is why THIS video has gotten almost as many.

4. I wasn’t kidding about getting drunk on the aroma of apple blossoms while visiting an orchard on the Parkway HERE. The next day I even had a hangover from breathing all that pollen.

5. I was sipping tea on the front porch today when a cloud of pollen that looked like smoke passed by. It caused me to question for a second whether I was crazy enough to have lit the wood stove and forgot. I didn’t think so because it was nearly 80 degrees.

6. Mara says we need to bring some mud to our next spoken word night. Her idea was prompted by reading Tom Ryan’s latest issue of The Floyd Enquirer, in which he reported this: A full contact mud wrestling poetry slam has been scheduled for the title “High Priestess of Poetry”. The crowd favorite seems to be Mara “Drama-O-Rama” Robbins but the smart money is split between Colleen “Soul Crusher” Redman & Katherine “TeaTime” Chantal.

7. And about Floyd Fest, there was this Tomfoolery by Tom: It was nice to see that Kris & Erika were able to negotiate a “non-presence” of the Federal Interdiction Anti-Fun Force at this year’s festival (Floyd Fest). I was a little taken aback, however, to learn of the myriad compromises they made in reaching that accord. Changing the festival theme from “A Family Affair” to “A Family Values Affair” was bad enough but allowing Pat Robertson to M.C. and letting Dick Cheney sit in with Donna The Buffalo to perform “Ubber Deutschland” are bound to have a chilling effect on the festivals ambiance. I guess I can learn to live with these concessions but I was aghast at The National Rifle Association becoming the primary sponsor & forcing all staff to wear “Don’t Inhale” T-shirts. You can read the full online tell-all HERE.

8. A real 9/ll Call: "We made brownies and I think we’re dead.” More of this hilarity is HERE.

9. Michael Moore on Larry King talking about Obama’s relationship with Reverend Wright: Jeez, you know, I mean I go to Mass still. I'm a practicing Catholic. I've been that way all my life. But if I had -- if I had gotten up every time I heard a priest from the pulpit in my travels around the country say things like I've heard them say, that birth control is a sin, that women should not be priests, that women should have a different role in church ... I would have been walking out so much -- that would have been so much aerobic activity for me ... I wouldn't look like this.

10. In the nearly three years I’ve been doing Thirteen Thursday, I actually forgot it was Thursday once and posted on Friday. My excuse: “I thought yesterday was Wednesday, which would make today Thursday, but of course it’s really Friday. Everybody says so."

11. Have you seen the human clock? It runs continuously and changes ever moment with photo scenes people have sent in from around the world telling the time.

12. Also from my Thirteen Thursday on Friday: "I’ve always been fascinated by the group mind that humans share, which causes us to agree about certain things like what day of the week it is, or to stay in our own lane on the right side of the road while driving down a highway. What would happen if we completely dropped out and forgot these collective agreements?"

13. In August 2006 I wrote this: “I think of blogging as rapid fire target practice. Doing it daily, I can't help but improve my writer's aim, but sometimes my arm gets tired!” Hey, I guess that means I should have carpal tunnel by now.

Thursday headquarters is here. My other 13's are here. View more 13 Thursday’s here.

May 1, 2008

13 Thursday: The Curve Ball

13bll.jpg 1. New motto for my overbooked husband: "No" is a complete sentence.

2. Handwritten on the inside cover of my book of Mary Oliver’s poems: The poet’s answer to Georgia O’Keefe’s paintings.

3. Seen on a Get Well Greeting Card at the Pharmacy: “Don’t worry – Stressed is just Desserts spelled backwards.”

4. Flamingos remind me of long legged ballerinas in pink tutus.

5. I have never played pool but I play in the pool. I like the 8 beach ball the best.

6. It was so cold the other day that I had to start a fire in the wood stove. While crumpling newspaper, I noticed a Washington Post photo of the Pope’s red shoes. The caption beneath it said, “There’s no place like Rome: Pope Benedict XVI arriving at Andrews Air Force Base with his ruby red slippers, rumored to be Prada.”

7. I was so jealous.

8. Best quote about the Pope’s red shoes came from a woman in Central Park: “He’s got big shoes to fill and the red shoes are just the ticket to do that.” popesshoes1x.jpgThere’s also a song about them HERE.

9. Funny how the pope’s hat is almost like a wizard’s and a wizard’s hat is the same as a dunce’s.

10. A witch’s hat and church steeple also have a point in common.

11. HERE’S my blog friend Rick Mullen reading his poem, “The Chelsea,” from his newly published chapbook “Aquinas Flinched.”

12. My shoes aren’t red but my last name is.

13. My favorite burgundy silk pajamas were recently spotted HERE.

Thursday headquarters is here. My other 13's are here. View more 13 Thursday’s here. #131

April 24, 2008

Thirteen Thursday Rambler

samp0dcb4233b2066600.jpg1. Black tea is like whiskey to herb tea’s wine.

2. I don’t like chocolate for the sake of it. For me, chocolate is like a condiment to go with mint, peanut butter, ice cream, or cherries.

3. I never had a baby shower or wedding shower. But I do love baths.

4. I have an imaginary green shamrock tattoo somewhere on my body, haven’t imagined where yet.

5. Emily Dickinson’s version of making the sign of the cross (In the name of the Father, the Son, and Holy Ghost) is: “In the name of the Birds, the Bees, and the Breeze,” (taught to me by a monk in South Carolina).

6. I talked to my friend Jayn (turning 60 this year) on the phone; it had been awhile. She said, “My life has been so full.” I answered, “Yeah, and we get full faster than we used to.

7. Last Sunday night Joe and I went dancing to the Emily Brass Band at the Pine Tavern. We slept in late the next morning. When we woke up, I said to him, “Joe, it’s Monday. Do you know where your job is?”

8. Interesting fact heard on David Letterman: 95% of people texting and blogging who type LOL are actually NOT laughing out loud.

9. Upsetting use of adversity in TV advertising heard recently: Stop global warming or all the Reese’s Cups will melt.

10. Not only did I used to love Led Zepplin’s song “Ramble On” when I was a teenager, I also drove a Rambler. Does anyone remember those?

11. I’ve decided to name my computer “The Enterprise,” and think of my work station as the “bridge,” although I’m more of a nutty professor in a word lab than a Captain Kirk exploring outer space.

12. Today I love the word “warp,” as in warp drive, warp speed, and warp spasm; and when I googled an image search for “warp,” I got THIS!”

13. If celebrities moved to Oklahoma HERE.

Thursday headquarters is here. My other 13's are here. View more 13 Thursday’s here.

April 17, 2008

13 Thursday: Mind Games

13band.jpg1. Tongue twister created after I played AI (a three legged sloth) twice in one Scrabble play, which caused Mara to squeal, “Two three legged sloths … Two three legged sloths … Two three legged sloths.”

2. When I tried to say “two three legged sloths” three times fast, it kept coming out as something ending with “sluts,” which reminded Mara of the bar drink she had when we were in Lexington, called “a redheaded slut.”

3. “The bees are disappearing, independent bookstores are closing, and they’re selling botox on TV to women in their 30’s!” I recently ranted to my friend Alwyn over the phone.

4. When I played the word QUEUE in our last Scrabble game, Mara and Rosemary broke out in song, singing, “Q-U-E-U-E whatever will be will be … the future’s not ours to see … Q-U-E-U-E.

5. Favorite quote from Claudia Emerson’s VPI Poetry Symposium keynote address: Sometimes the line will agree with the sentence and sometimes the sentence will argue with the line.

6. Joe and I tend to argue about stuff like whether something is purple or blue, or is that blue and green?

7. When it comes to my bad back it’s more about what I don’t do than what I do. In other words, less sitting and more moving.

8. I dream in fiction.

9. Last night I dreamt of blogger Michele Agnew (of Meet and Greet fame). She had a new blog, designed from an online survey she took. The details were posted on a bulletin board at the New Mountain Mercantile, here in Floyd. I was in there picking up my farm eggs and was telling someone that I knew her. I had a bicycle outside and was on my way to Christiansburg, but then it started to rain. When I woke up I was trying to figure out how to get home to get my car without getting wet (I live 7 miles from town).

10. While doing some research on local blues musician, Scott Perry, who was quoted in my story about the arts in Floyd, I discovered he has written a song called Floyd County Rag. Here.

11. My mind just went blank. Then I thought of the T-shirt my son Josh brought home from London that said “Mind the Gap,” taken from signs at the London Underground. In this country the underground is called the subway and our signs read, “Watch Your Step.” My T-shirt should probably say “Mind the Lapse.”

12. Some Mind Game architecture HERE and HERE.

13. Winter Tax Refunded in the Spring (AKA The Audit): In April I calculate poetry … the way others do their taxes … as though the world were overdue for a good accounting … Bursting to put into words … what the birds already know … with each emerging daffodil … I mark spring’s growing windfall … Its affluent bloom … and excess of green are annual assets … we all get to claim.

Thursday headquarters is here. My other 13's are here. View more 13 Thursday’s here. #129

April 10, 2008

13 Lines Not for Fishing

13marabus.jpg 1. Seeing poets Bruce Weigl and Claudia Emerson together at the VMI Poetry Symposium last weekend was as cool as seeing James Taylor and Carole King together in concert back in the 70’s.

2. Over the two-day symposium weekend there was a humorous discussion between Mara and me about the difference between pulpit and podium. The subject of punctuation and poetry also surfaced and took the form of a heated debate after Claudia Emerson spoke of the importance of it in her keynote address.

3. But William Carlos Williams, who Claudia mentioned in her address, often didn’t use punctuation, and Emily Dickinson, who Claudia named as one of her poet heroes, used liberal dashes of various sizes dashes, some of which editors took out after she died when they were adding punctuation. marapodium2.jpg

4. As one who doesn’t use much punctuation in my poetry I’m a minority in the crowd, riding in the back of the bus: And in the end I’m like Rosa Parks … I don’t want to get up and go where I’m told … I work just as hard as any other poet … and I write from where I sit. More HERE.

5. How gullible are you? A test guaranteed to make you laugh HERE.

6. After Bruce Weigl's and (Pulitzer Prize winning poet) Claudia Emerson’s readings and during the question and answer period, a student referred to Bruce as famous, to which Bruce quickly responded, saying that he was not famous, expect for high school, where he was famous for some things he did in sports.

7. I’ve been having a hard time reading the notes I took at the symposium, but I was able to make out this, said by Weigl about the Iraq War: “Sacrifice and slaughter are not the same thing.” He also said this about his Vietnam War service: “The war made me stupid and only good enough to clean windows.”

8. I love that Claudia openly admits that she was a hippie living out the country with woodstove heating and no electricity. Her current husband is a long haired musician who reminds me of David Crosby and looks like he’d fit well in Floyd, which is Mara’s and my latest fantasy (after the one about Sy Safransky, editor of The Sun Magazine, falling in love with Mara).

9. Last year at Floyd Fest, we drove to and from THIS poetry performance in what we were calling the poetry bus (see above photo).

10. The one driving the poetry bus gets to decide if poetry should be punctuated or not.

11. Most interesting keyword search at Loose Leaf Notes this week that made me wonder what the searcher was thinking and which of the two words they really meant when they misspelled: “how to get a “viginia” loose.”

12. A poem I wrote about fishing, posted here just so the title makes sense: Poems so short … I throw them back … but they nibble again … to break my heart … “There’s other fish in the sea” I tell them.

13. Someone once asked me to write a poem about a button. This is my button poem, always a good poem to close a reading or a 13 Thursday list with: I should know by now … how to button my lip … just go zip … and close it.

Thirteen Thursday headquarters is here. My other 13's are here. View more 13 Thursday’s here.

April 3, 2008

13 Thursday Headlines

newspaper.jpg1. On April fool’s day I wrote this fake news story: A fool resembling Donald Trump announced on April 1st that Thursday had been fired. People in board rooms across America were stunned at the turn of events and feared the lost revenue that would ensue. CEOs scrambled to book Friday, which overflowed into Saturday, and bloggers who play Thirteen Thursday didn’t know what to do with themselves.

2. My egg man, Ed, called me from town Monday morning to say that he couldn’t drop off my farm fresh eggs at the New Mountain Mercantile because a criminal was loose in the county and the Mercantile, among other places, was locked down. “Is it really that bad?” I asked him. “I’m not worried. I have eggs. If I see him I’ll throw them,” he answered.

3. A rude awakening: The growth in Floyd over the past several years has its pros and cons. I was recently parked in the new (full) downtown parking lot in between two other cars and instinctively locked my car door, thinking I was in Christiansburg. It’s the first time that has happened.

4. My friend Katherine and I talked about meeting early so we could have some time to catch up before we headed to our writer’s circle on Sunday, but by the time I pulled up her driveway, I had this to say. “My idea of being early is not being late.”

5. When I was a girl I was very curious about things like the Immaculate Conception and the quick brown fox that jumped over the lazy dog.

6. At the time, I didn’t understand the significance of such a strange sentence or why I was made to write it out over and over in Penmanship class. Now I know that the phrase is a pangram, a sentence that contains all the letters of the alphabet. Besides being used to practice penmanship it was used to test the letters on a typewriter.

7. This is a first: I’ve been given a blog award by Claudia from On a Limb for being “Mountain Sexy.”

8. At a red light in Christiansburg, watching a young man saunter across the street, I thought to myself, ‘Imagine having nothing better to do but develop and perfect a cool walk.’

9. THIS is what I hear when I walk to mailbox. Can you guess what it is?

10. Favorite word of the week: Conniption. I remembered it after Deana said something about a “hissy fit.”

11. Found while I was picking up my award from Claudia: After 7 years and 500 interviews, a two hour presentation on the secrets of success is presented in 3 minutes HERE.

12. I couldn’t help notice that he went over 3 minute time limit. If he was at a poetry slam, points would be deducted.

13. I’m going to a Poetry Symposium this weekend with my Scrabble playing poet friend Mara, who is a student at Hollins University and will be presenting poetry and a paper. Soon I’ll be blogging from a front row seat at VMI, a great way to ring in National Poetry month.

Post notes: Ironically, my blog was down for two hours this morning and so, as far as I'm concerned, Thursday was almost canceled. Thursday headquarters is here. My other 13's are here. View more 13 Thursday’s here.

March 27, 2008

The 13 Thursday Tattoo

lucky13.gif 1. Have you ever thought of getting a “13” tattoo, taking a picture of it and using it for a Thirteen Thursday header?

2. According to THIS test (compliments of Kenju), I’m 76% addicted to blogging.

3. If that isn’t bad enough, I think I’m even more addicted to online research. After typing number 1 in this list, I searched around and found out that there is a place called Lucky 13 Tattoo in Richmond, Virginia, another Lucky 13 Tattoo in Vermont, a 13 Tattoo in Brazil and an Old Thirteen Tattoo place in Los Angeles. There’s also a Lucky 13 Hairdressers Salon.

4. Our names are our assignments: Last week while doing some research on autism and vaccines, I came across a doctor named “Pangborn.” He works with autistic children, but I couldn’t help but think maybe he missed his calling and should have been an obstetrician.

5. Then I found THIS, a story called “Calling These Doctors by Their Callings,” about a surgeon named Chop, a Psychiatrist named Dr. Looney, and doctors named Dr. Hurt and Dr. Payne. There was mention of an eye doctor named Dr. Blinder and one named Dr. Seemore. Which one would you choose?

6. Dick Cheney must be pulling our chain (no comment on his first name). Last week when Martha Radditz said to him in an interview, “Two-thirds of Americans say it (the war) is not worth fighting,” he said, “SO?” Then he went on to tell her how well the war was going. Can anyone watch THIS without cringing?

7. I should have bought stock in THESE notebooks. through a few and whenever I really like something and go back to buy more, I find they have gone out of style.

8. Besides being a beachnick and 1960’s peacnick, I’m a Meet and Greetnick. Meet Michele HERE.

9. I just found out that the poems we all wrote last week using the words in our last Café Scrabble game are going to be used by Mara in creative writing class assignment on “procedural poems” at Hollins University. I guess I was taking my turn when she explained it.

10. At first the Literacy Volunteer Scrabble Tournament that I wrote about HERE reminded me of a Contra Dance. There were five long lines of five round tables like contra dance lines and partners and neighbors holding hands four in a circle. Not only that, a literacy volunteer was up on the stage calling the rules that I was struggling to understand.

11. My son Josh got me into Contra Dancing when he was a teenager. I love to dance but being left/right dyslexic, it was difficult for me to learn. There are active and inactive dancers who move up the dance hall in different directions. There’s counting steps, and spinning and dosey doeing left or right. I remember being confused and complaining that it was too much like algebra, but when your teenaged son says, “Mom, you’re gonna love this,” and he wants you to learn it and he’ll dance with you when you do, you’ll make the effort to.

12. Today is my niece’s birthday, and she has a blog. You can go over and wish here a happy birthday HERE, and she'll tell you how old she is.

13. Strangest keyword searches that brought people to Loose Leaf this week: flamingo sympathy card, leprechaun on the loose, 5 biggest lies Bush told us about iraq, and what are the 13 colleens. The funniest part is that I know exactly why they landed folks here.

Thursday headquarters is here. My other 13's are here. View more 13 Thursday’s here.

March 20, 2008

Thirteen Thursday: The Write Stuff

scrwrd2.jpg1. Said to my friend Rosemary at Spoken Word Night while holding my amber Anchor Steam up to the light: “I think it’s funny that I love tea and beer and they’re both the same color, which makes me wonder if it’s really the color I love.”

2. Last weekend Joe had to take a porch vacation on his own. Not only was I working – providing support for an individual with disabilities – it was spoken word weekend, AND I went to TWO baby showers (the last one I went to before these two was probably 30 years ago).

3. The Charlie’s Angels of Scrabble Poetry mission, assigned by Mara and called “Procedure for Scrabble Poem,” had four of us who played on Monday writing poems from the words we played, most of which can be read HERE.

4. And this little stanza used up five of the Scrabble words we played: Heat up the leftovers … Serve them to a foe… Turn war into warm … Edit bet into better … and id into idea …

5.Click HERE to fall in love with kaleidoscopes and flowers.

6. I find it nearly impossible to look in the mirror without tilting my head. I have no idea why. So said “Internal Monoblog,” quoted Blogations.

7. You should see the face I make when I’m putting on eye makeup. I try not to do it because it’s sort of a bug-eyed frown but I can’t seem to break the habit.

8. Remember when you fed your babies oatmeal and you opened your own mouth as if you were the one eating?

9. With one in every 150 children being diagnosed with autism, we should be talking about the cumulative effect that so many vaccines could be having on our children. We know antibiotics save lives, but their overuse has created resistant super bugs and the emergence of deadly infections like MRSA. Why is there no public debate about the overuse of immunizations? Read the rest of my commentary, published Monday in the Roanoke Times HERE.

10. Only in Floyd: A recent ad I received for the April issue of The Museletter(our homespun local newsletter), reads “There is a riot in my barn. You are invited. Bring the children and come see 10 baby goats jump and twist in the air, play king of the mountain on an old radiator, or just nurse and snuggle. Just call-the tour is free.”

11. Even though a number of Americans are still confused by the Bush administration’s rhetoric implying that Iraq played a role in 9/11 or had some connection to al Qaida, the world is not confused, so says a new bipartisan report : Thanks in part to the Iraq war, the next U.S. president — Republican or Democrat, black or white, man or woman — will take office with America's power, prestige and popularity in decline, according to bipartisan reports, polls and foreign observers. "Since 9/11, the United States has been exporting fear and anger rather than the more traditional values of hope and optimism. Suspicions of American power have run deep," Richard Armitage, deputy secretary of state under Bush, and Joseph Nye, a Pentagon official under President Clinton, wrote in a December report published by the Center for Strategic and International Studies. Read the full article HERE.

12. I was recently relieved to be reminded that thinking is still a valuable commodity when I heard Wayne Dyer on PBS, explaining why he didn’t have to help his son register for college, say, “I’m a prophet. I get paid by the thought.”

13. My St. Patrick’s Day Scrabble poem using the words in our game ends like this: Color the blank tiles green … Aim the K in Patrick … on a triple letter score … and the Q in quean on the star … Free lookups for everyone …who can spell the sunshine back into the sky … who play to win more fun!

Thursday headquarters is here. My other 13's are here. View more 13 Thursday’s here.

March 13, 2008

13 Thursday: You Name It

samp3c87de94a707596d.jpg1. I’ve come to accept that I’m never going to remember how to spell words like Renaissance and restaurant on my own, no matter how many times I write or type them.

2. Intriguing old Appalachian country names recently discovered and added to the list I keep: Men - Burnace, Vent, Talmadge, Enoch, and Elinos. Women – Effie, Colba, Hava, Arminda, and Hettie.

3. I keep wondering if my sons are related to Harold Copus, the private detective Dr. Phil’s uses for his show. He has the same last name as them and does bear a resemblance to their father’s family, who are English.

4. “Hello?” It was Mara. I said, “My answering machine is full so I was forced to answer the phone. It says FL which is either means FULL or Florida.” “It could mean Floyd,” she answered.

5. Can you fill THIS page without smiling?

6. As a lover of the ocean who grew up in a beach town in the 60’s and now lives in the mountains, I could be considered a peacenik beachnik.

7. I dreamt my son JOSH’s name while I was pregnant with him. It was spelled out in bold black magic marker. My youngest son is named DYLAN. We were living in Texas at the time and people there kept thinking it was Dillion, but I was thinking poets, Bob and Thomas.

8. A beachnick without a beach is like a beatnik who can’t write poetry.

9. Makes me want to cry: My first mother in law sent me THIS tribute to Paragon Park, the amusement park in the town I grew up in that was torn down in the early 80’s to make room for Condos. HERE is my blog post tribute.

10. Strange keyword search phrases that landed some people on my site this week: spark notes somewhere between life and death, I didn’t come all the way to loose poem keywords, birthday poems for grown sons, and maggots blown into yard on leaves

11. Joe was recently reading me something written by a psychologist named Havighurst. Of course, all I hear and all I can see when I look at that name is “Havinghurts," which seems an appropriate name for a psychologist.

12. Will pharmaceuticals be the new second hand smoke? The more people take drugs the more traces of them end up in the water the rest of us drink. What would George Orwell think?

13. Number 72 in my “100 Things About Me” says: I found my first 4 leaf clover at a library book sale, pressed between the pages of a book that cost 25 cents.” The name of the book was “What’s in a Name?”

Thursday headquarters is here. My other 13's are here. View more 13 Thursday’s here.

March 6, 2008

13 Thursday: Mingle with Flamingos

pinkf13.jpg 1. Look what was right under my nose. After seeing a yard full of plastic lawn flamingo and going back later to get a picture but finding they were gone, the following day I went to play scrabble and found these in the Cafe Del Sol window box doing THIS.

2. Flamingos are to the south what penguins are to the north.

3. I recently looked at youtube videos of flamingos the way I imagine some people get sucked into porn. I watched for much longer than I intended and felt dirty afterwards, learning that the birds are endangered, overcrowded in places, being shot at by some, and trained as exhibits in zoos.

4. Experienced counsel recently given to my overbooked husband on how to pace himself: “Do only what’s right in front of you. Take one step at a time,” I said. He answered, “Yeah, but the difference between me and you is that my legs are longer.”

5. A Fragment From my Friend Fred: Does it matter at all to you that the next president has a clue about the world beyond politics? If so, consider another candidate than John McCain. Let his record speak for itself. From the Sierra Club… Washington, D.C.–In the 2007 National Environmental Scorecard released today by the League of Conservation Voters, John McCain receives a score of ZERO. McCain was the only member of Congress to skip every single crucial environmental vote scored by the organization, posting a score lower than Members of Congress who were out for much of the year due to serious illnesses–and even lower than some who died during the term. By contrast, the average Member of Congress scored a 53 in 2007. McCain posts a lifetime score of only 24.

6. Floyd has an Earth Day website HERE.

7. I once said: “If no one is going to quote me, I’ll quote myself. Is that a quote?” Looks like somebody does want to quote me – and other bloggers too. See HERE.

8. I actually have a poem with the word flamingo in it: The birds are back … checking out the real estate … a high-rise nest … on my porch rafter … a one room shelter … inaccessible to cats … with southern exposure … and a landing deck … The rest, with the flamingo part is HERE.

9. Current favorite word, besides flamingo: rigamarole

10. Strangest spam message this week: Frankly, the way things are right now, I'm not sure I'd want to play myself in my very own movie of the week.

11. “Hello.” It was Mara. I said, “My answering machine is full so I was forced to answer the phone. It says FL which is either means FULL or Florida," I said to her. “It could mean Floyd,” she answered.

12. Recently said by Colleen to Joe: Life is just one big field trip that I’m taking good notes on.

13. Floyd’s Own American Idol. She made it to the top 50. Read more HERE.

Thursday headquarters is here. My other 13's are here. View more 13 Thursday’s here.

February 28, 2008

13 Thursday: I’d Like to Thank the Academy

13cinema.jpg1. I was recently sick and hadn’t been out in over a week. I was beginning to think I should make a dentist appointment just to get out of the house.

2. Strangest thing recently seen: At a training this past Saturday,related to the work I do with adults with disabilities, I went to the bathroom at the break and saw an hourglass egg timer on the back of the toilet. I’m still curious about it.

3. I had a hard time sitting and paying attention for the four hour training so I doodled and worked on my teapoems, which reminded me of scribbling poetry on scraps of paper many years ago when I worked at a factory. I still remember writing this line then: Bob Dylan had the highway blues … he wore pointed shoes …and kept his guitar always loaded.

4. Sometimes I run my fingers across the keyboard and pretend that it’s a piano.

5. I’ve never played an instrument, unless you want to count the diggeredo, which is a long hollow bamboo instrument you blow into. It sounds something like the sound of blowing into a conch shell, unless you’re not doing it right and then it just sounds like farting.

6. I now have a Hewitt Packard Case Manager, a nice guy named John who sent me a new printer when my old one got fried even though my year warranty was expired by one day. I guess the company thinks I’m a special case, either that or they want to keep my buying their ink cartridges, which cost about as much to refill as the cost of the original printer.

7. This was my favorite Academy Award acceptance speech, given by Alex Gibney who won for his documentary, Taxi to the Dark Side, about an Afghan taxi driver who was falsely imprisoned and then killed: Truth is, I think my dear wife Anne was kind of hoping I'd make a romantic comedy, but honestly, after Guantanamo, Abu Ghraib, extraordinary rendition that simply wasn't possible. This is dedicated to two people who are no longer with us, Dilawar, the young Afghan taxi driver, and my father, a navy interrogator who urged me to make this film because of his fury about what was being done to the rule of law. Let's hope we can turn this country around, move away from the dark side and back to the light.

8. I also liked Daniel Day Lewis’s acceptance speech for his best actor award. He began by thanking the academy for “whacking me with the handsomest bludgeon in town.” Then he said that his character “sprang like a golden sapling out of the mad beautiful head” of the movie’s writer and director Paul Thomas Anderson. Leave it to an Irishman to utter such poetry.

9. Classiest moment of the night: Although many of the thank you speeches were boring and I kept waiting for a streaker to liven things up, I loved it when host John Stewart brought best song co-writer back on the stage after a commercial break to say what she wanted to into the mic after the orchestra had initially cut her off.

10. Said with needles in my back to my acupuncturist: “I feel like a birthday cake.” I had just had moxa on my back (something like having a lit cigar held near your skin to improve the flow of energy) so was feeling a little lit up. “I’ll be back soon to blow you out,” my acupuncturist joked as he left the treatment room.

11. My poet friend Mara sent me THIS link to a ‘what kind of punctuation mark are you’ quiz. I came out a colon. “Well, at least it’s a committed form of punctuation, unlike the semi-colon,” I told her. And LOOK what Bonnie just posted on semi-colons. Seems you can get a lot of attention for using one correctly.

12. To celebrate Leap Year Brian Feldman, a performance artist from Florida, is going to do 366 12 foot leaps for 24 hours on February 29th.

13. Apparently, his blog is a performance piece as well.

Thursday headquarters is here. My other 13's are here. View more 13 Thursday’s here.

February 21, 2008

13 Thursday: Call Me

13pho.jpg 1. Valentine’s Day Morning: He replaced the belt on the vacuum cleaner for me. I left him a pink valentine bag on the kitchen table the night before with a card and a Sunkist naval orange inside. He responded by leaving me a conversation candy heart that said, “Call Me.”

2. When the phone rings, instead of cringing and thinking ‘who could be calling me now,’ I’ve decided to pretend it’s the citizens clearing house telling me I’ve won a million dollars. Even though I never signed up for the prize, I’ve decided to pretend it’s true because I want to change some of my habitual negative thought patterns and replace them with enthusiastic ones.

3. I spent a good part of Valentine’s Day sick in bed with the phone, going through my speed dial to tell the people on it that I loved them.

4. I only got as far as three calls, which was a big deal for me since I’m practically phone phobic.

5. I can trace my aversion to phones back to when I was a girl. When boys I liked would call to talk to me, I would sit on the other end of the line frozen with nothing to say. But not liking to talk on phones also runs in my family.

6. I don’t like watching sports either, unless my sons are playing in them.

7. I don’t use white sugar so I never have it in the house. But I collect sugar packets from gas stations and fast food places so I have some on hand for when company comes.

8. When we first moved into our Blue Ridge Parkway cabin, fifteen years ago, our neighbor actually asked to borrow a cup of sugar. My kids were mortified that we had no sugar to offer him. I tried to convince him to try honey. He’s never tried to borrow anything since.

9. A poem I wrote twenty five years ago that my sister Sherry, a nurse, hung on the bulletin board where she worked is called Remedy and goes like this: Take two poems … and a trip to the ocean … call me in the morning … Plenty of fluids … and funny business … 3 Hail Mary’s and a hug … Take lots of music … as you need it …dance 3X a day … follow your own directions … watch your children play … Now bless your stars and tell me something nice …. call me in the morning …or call me at night.

10. I used to preface things I wanted to remember with “Note to self.” Now I’m at the point where I have to say “Note to self … in writing.”

11. Joe calls up to the computer room at night where I’m working, “Are you almost done?” “I’ll be down in a minute. I’m just admiring my blog," I answer.

12. The “Call Me” conversation heart Joe left on the table on Valentine’s Day morning sounded more like THIS rather than THIS.

13. Candy hearts are to Valentines Day what candy corn is to Halloween. 13 Messages After the Beep are HERE.

Thursday headquarters is here. My other 13's are here. View more 13 Thursday’s here.

February 14, 2008

13 Thursday: For the Record

13tvx.jpg1. A haiku a day keeps the “roses are red violets are blue” blues away.

2. Where do poems come from? Some lines just come and you follow them. Others you have to dig.

3. I use to wonder when I’d be too old to sit on the sidewalk. Now I know it’s when you can’t get back up. I learned this recently while I was dealing with a bad back.

4. What I haven’t mentioned until now is that on the same day that Hillary Clinton's and Barack Obama’s Roanoke speaking engagements were cancelled due to high winds, brush fires spreading, and the Roanoke airport closing, we had an electrical fire in our computer room caused by a broken lamp that was still plugged in and a surge of electricity. The fire alarm probably saved our house but the room is covered with a layer of white 9/11-like fire extinguisher dust and smells like a toxic waste dump. LAMPFIRE.jpg

5. I went to the Hillary pre-primary rally (which was ultimately cancelled) with my friend Mara. At first I was hesitant about going. I had to be reminded about the significance of Hillary being the first female candidate to get this far, and I was still upset about her vote for the Iraq war. But Mara knows how to get me to go anywhere with her. All she has to say is, “Don’t you want to blog about it?”

6. From Thirteen Thursday February 2005: My first act of guerilla graffiti with my new label gun was to print up labels on bright red tape saying “I love you” and then stick them on certain people’s briefcases, cars, cards and such. I’ve decided that my graffiti tag is XOXO.

7. My new favorite word: frippery. Frappe is pretty good too.

8. I’ve always gotten the words bizarre and bazaar mixed up, probably because Bostonians pronounce them the same.

9. Probably the only Beatle’s song I never liked was the one called Revolution Number 9 in which someone repeats over an over “Number 9 ... Number 9 ... Number 9 ... Number 9."

10. When I was a little girl I used to tell my dad that I loved him 60. I guess it was the biggest number I knew.

11. Have you ever noticed that road speed limits match the speed of life? When you’re young time passes slow from 0 -20 mph. 45 mph is pretty comfortable, like middle age. At 55 life starts going pretty fast and after 65 it all pretty much whizzes by.

12. A clock is a man-made orbit … that paces its own cage … Round like a planet … made in its image … A mechanical nightingale of gilded numbers … is an excerpt from a poem I once performed with a troupe called Women of the 7th Veil. We did improv dance to Dave Matthew’s “Two Step” while the poem was being read. Let the clock stop … It’s hypnotic talk … Let the clock stop … Let it stop … Let it stop … Turn it off.

13. Watch time STOP at Grand Central Station HERE. .

Thursday headquarters is here. My other 13's are here. View more 13 Thursday’s here. The first photo is one I took at the cancelled Hillary rally of hannel 13 interviewing an attendee.

February 7, 2008

13 Tidbits and Tea

rune13x.jpg 1. I’ve been pruning little tea poems … origami notes … petals of the Orient …light enough to float.

2. I’ve also been expressing myself with valentines via conversation heart generators (like THIS one). See the heart I made for my friend Bonnie below.
okraheart.jpg

3. Recently said to my sister Sherry while expressing my happiness that she regularly visits Loose Leaf: My blog is a mass produced love letter that I send out every day!

4. After writing THIS poem about Jesus as a graffiti artist, more lines have been coming, like this: Jesus is left handed and afraid of heights … I guess it’s what novelists mean by “character development.”

5. I recently read a blog post about basketball and left a comment saying: Basketball is so over my head. (I'm 5 foot 1 inch).

6. As for the Super Bowl, I should have been rooting for the home team, but besides Tom Petty I didn’t even know who was playing.

7. Speaking of sports, in the last few days I’ve spent a good bit of time laying on pool balls and rubbing a golf ball across my foot in lieu of needles as per the order of my acupuncturist who is treating me for a back problem.

8. I was shocked to hear HERE that rabid right winger Ann Coulter would not only vote for Hillary Clinton over John McCain, she says she would campaign for her if John McCain wins the Republican presidential nomination.

9. Coulter thinks Hillary is more conservative than McCain. What does Hillary think of that? Her reaction HERE says it all.

10. Chelsea Adams, a Radford University professor of writing, has been coming to our spoken word open mics. After she recently read some poems about her love of coffee from her chapbook called Java Poems, Sally, the café owner, challenged the poets present to write coffee haiku for a future event. I told her I would use my poetic license to write about tea instead and that I probably wouldn’t be counting the number of syllables in lines. Even so, many of my teapoems from the series I’m working on have morphed into haiku in spite of myself.

11. The morphing of my teapoems into haiku reminds me of how I had no idea how to talk with an Irish accent until I read Angela’s Ashes aloud to my youngest son and suddenly found myself reading with a thick Irish brogue, which I can still do at a moment’s notice.

12. Somehow these two quotes go together (not because they were both said by Johns) and express my relief to be writing more poetry than prose this past week: Dancing is the poetry of the foot. ~John Dryden. Poetry is to prose as dancing is to walking. ~John Wain

13. My love of writing little sips of poetry has led me to a new fascination with one line poems. This one by William Matthews is one of my favorites: “Premature Ejaculation”: I’m sorry this poem’s already finished.

Thursday headquarters is here. My other 13's are here. View more 13 Thursday’s here.

January 31, 2008

13 Thursday Drum Roll Please

13drum.jpg1. Haiku is the bonsai of poetry.

2. If coffee was music it would be salsa and tea would be a flute.

3. I have a friend name Phil who plays the harmonica. I want to take a picture of him playing so I can name it the “Philharmonic.”

4. I recently joked to my husband that he wakes up like a gymnast. He literally bounces out of bed. Me? Not so much.

5. Whenever I speak of “Doug my server” I feel like calling him Hal from the movie 2001: A Space Odyssey because he knows so much more about the outerspace of bloggness than I do, and I feel like I could get thrown over board at anytime.

6. Once when my brother-in-law was visiting us here in Virginia, we were at a restaurant and he asked for an order of chicken wings, but with his thick Boston accent, “order” sounded like “oughta,” and the waitress thought he was asking for “otter,” which of course was not on the menu.

7. Putting up a new post is like bait if you’re fishing for comments.

8. Check out THIS very entertaining trailer for the novel The Liar’s Diary, which my blog friend Patry (who I last blogged about HERE) wrote. She has been recovering from surgery related to cancer and has not been able to promote her book’s paperback release, so a group of bloggers got together and have been doing it for her. More about that HERE and HERE.

9. Some of my photos of downtown Floyd are posted on the Floyd Fest site HERE.

10. Taking pictures is fun partly because the ones you think will come out good often don’t and the ones you expect to be bad often aren’t.

11. I’ve never wanted to be on a game show, Survivor, Dr. Phil, or American Idol. But I DO want to be on THIS, my favorite new TV show, called Just for Laughs. It makes me laugh so hard I fall off the bed, unlike my husband who jumps.

12. I don’t want to be the lady buying fresh fish in the video. I want to be one of the butchers. But if I was the lady, I’d be taking photos and notes so that I could blog about it later.

13. I’m game for it all…except I probably couldn’t bring myself to do THIS.

Thursday headquarters is here. My other 13's are here. View more 13 Thursday’s here.

January 24, 2008

13 Thursday: A Hairy Situation

13hair.jpg1. Overnight my hair reaches critical mass and I can’t go another day without a haircut.

2. Sometimes I find myself in front of the computer and I don’t know how I got here.

3. People like me who regularly burn food need a whistle on ever pot and pan in the house like the one on my tea kettle.

4. For the whole thirty minute drive to Christiansburg for my haircut I composed little sips of poems about tea, like this one: Basic black … fills an ample white pot … Tea-ball chain dangles … like a necklace on a queen.

5. I regret that when I was in high school, I never wore my hair in a ponytail. I wanted to. I wanted to look bouncy and fun like the teenagers on American Bandstand. Cheerleaders wore ponytails. So did Gidget. Read the rest and see a